rob was the manager, cathy was a trainer. and they started dating. they had a very normal relationship. he was charismatic, he was fun, everybody looked up to him. we just all wanted to be around him and we never felt like we had enough time. i always thought that later on, when things were settled down, when we had families or life wasn t traveling so fast, i really would relish when i could settle down and spend more time with rob when it wasn t such a rush, rush world. unfortunately, that didn t happen.
to make him fit the part that she wanted him to be. he was a hard worker, but with the death of cathy s mother, some money started coming in through her mother s estate. they bought what came the club metropolis. he said i m going to be a new person and catherine reinvented him and he took it and ran with me. same with me. she molded me into who i had become. my identity is the one catherine developed for me. i didn t want to go to loyola. she said you will go to loyola academy, you will do football. you become popular, you go to college, graduate, get a good job. this is the american dream. you know, at loyola, there weren t that many koreans. in my class, there were five of us. and just to give you an example,
catherine enlisted the aid of her brother, andrew suh, who was a student at providence college in rhode island, to fly in to chicago in order to commit this murder. catherine later on that evening made a phone call to robert o dubaine and told robert o dubaine that her car had broken down in lincoln park and she needed him to come and pick her up. this was all a fabrication, a ruse to get him to come into the garage. he did so. when he walked into the garage, andrew suh shot robert o dubaine two times. once in the back of the neck, and then a second time in his face to make sure that he was dead. later on, we find out that her possible motive that she had was to cash in my brother s $250,000 life insurance policy. all of a sudden it wasn t rob the victim in the garage, it was a planned murder. when cathy was charged with the
was early on when he was 14, 15 years old, coming over for christmas morning and opening up presents with us. it was definitely not your normal dynamics of a family that you would see. but they were doing pretty well with that. ooze the years went on, he was family. because he was part of the inner circle. we shared meals together. he taught me how to drive a stick shift he was my male role model. rob went through phases in his life. rob would re-create himself during his early years, all the way through when he met cathy. catherine had a very specific idea of what robert should be or who he should be. and she cleaned him up. she bought him thousand dollar suits. he wanted the riches that other people had, but he didn t really know how to he didn t have a college degree. put him in a mercedes.
she came home when she wanted to, barely graduated from high school. she was literally going out four, five nights a week and somehow she met robert along this process. cathy and rob met at the chicago health club. rob was the manager, cathy was a trainer. and they started dating. they had a very normal relationship. he was charismatic, he was fun, everybody looked up to him. we just all wanted to be around him and we never felt like we had enough time. i always thought that later on, when things were settled down, when we had families or life wasn t traveling so fast, i really would relish when i could settle down and spend more time with rob when it wasn t such a rush, rush world. unfortunately, that didn t happen.