A colleague of mine called me creepy. Before she did that I used to look at her and say “good morning” because I found her pretty. One day, I wanted to have lunch with her and just chat, but before I could ask her she just called me creepy.
Whenever my wife and I go out for meals to a restaurant she has this habit of trying to feed me something from her plate. She gets offended if I refuse. She won't do the same thing at home, so I wonder what the reason is for her to be doing this.
Q: My wife enjoys very rough scenes involving verbal and physical abuse while I am into more vanilla physical intimacy. She has been sexually abused as a child and has tried many therapeutical methods to heal, but this type of violence is the only thing that gives her release. I feel uncomfortable and exhausted by all of it. What should I do?
You are an ‘island’. An ‘island’ is someone who is independent in the relationship, someone who appreciates low maintenance and gives the most when given space.
Q. My husband-to-be wants to have a bachelor party with a stripper. All his friends are excited and mine are too. I don’t see the fun in all this and the thought of him ogling, and possibly sleeping with, the stripper is making me angry. What should I do?