and out of the blueal i don t know what gave me the courage to say it, but i looked at johnm and he said don t call me john, call me j.r. all my friends call me j.r. and i said, okay, j.r. i said, let me ask you something. i said i saw youin do somethings last night that was absolutely amazing. and i toldg.g. him the story of what i had seen about how all of these people had just known he was in the room. i said how do you do that ? and john was the kind of person if you embarrassed him or if he got he d get real humble on you, you know, sit down. you know, if there was a rock on the ground, he would kick that kind of thing. and i said, no, j.r., i m serious. when i said that his eyes came up and met mine and he said there is a little thing in our industry that has been forgotten. e. it s called mystique. he said don t ever wear outyo