arms on their bodies, that is? it s up for debate in one schoo district in new jersey and a lot of parents are in the happy that the principal wants to ban strapless dresses fromt an eighh grade dance because she thinks they re too distracting for the boys.p here is what one mom has to say about that. the issue here is having someone interfere with my rightn to raise my children in a way that i think is appropriate. this is not about dresses. this is about the issue behind it.dr this is about a government official making a unilateral decision which isff different fm past practice. so really, is it about the little boys? greg, ten miles an hour wind and a boy could get distracted. the curve a couch leg. society is changing. at this rate, they re not going to be wearing strapless gowns,