david philandering, messing around, infidelity? not till i heard. a friend of mine called me on the, on my cell phone and asked me, he said, did you hear about david havin an affair with becky? and i said, there s no way. there s no way. reporter: the news about the affair didn t surface until after kay had been buried. david was still seen then as the grieving husband. if i woulda known about that affair, i don t think there woulda been as much support for david at the funeral or at the hospital. why would you cheat on someone that loved you so much and was always there for you, to be with someone or to just just to have sex basically? why? it it wasn t worth it. reporter: tamara thought back to david s behavior in those days after kay s death, including an odd exchange between them at the memorial service. david went up to me. and again, being very close with kay, he hugs me. and he hugs me really, really tight. and he s boohoo cryin and he
affair didn t surface until after kay had been buried. david was still seen then as the grieving husband. if i woulda known about that affair, i don t think there woulda been as much support for david at the funeral or at the hospital. why would you cheat on someone that loved you so much and was always there for you, to be with someone or to just just to have sex basically? why? it it wasn t worth it. reporter: tamara thought back to david s behavior in those days after kay s death, including an odd exchange between them at the memorial service. david went up to me. and again, being very close with kay, he hugs me. and he hugs me really, really tight. and he s boohoo cryin and he tells me, i m sorry. i never meant for this to happen. and i didn t know that s kind of what that meant. a funny thing to say. what do you think he meant? i don t know. i didn t mean for this to happen ? i i didn t know what he meant. i just you know, i was thinking,
the, on my cell phone and asked me, he said, did you hear about david havin an affair with becky? and i said, there s no way. there s no way. reporter: the news about the affair didn t surface until after kay had been buried. david was still seen then as the grieving husband. if i woulda known about that affair, i don t think there woulda been as much support for david at the funeral or at the hospital. why would you cheat on someone that loved you so much and was always there for you, to be with someone or to just just to have sex basically? why? it it wasn t worth it. reporter: tamara thought back to david s behavior in those days after kay s death, including an odd exchange between them at the memorial service. david went up to me. and again, being very close with kay, he hugs me. and he hugs me really, really tight. and he s boohoo cryin and he tells me, i m sorry.
and again, being very close with kay, he hugs me. and he hugs me really, really tight. and he s boohoo cryin and he tells me, i m sorry. i never meant for this to happen. and i didn t know that s kind of what that meant. a funny thing to say. what do you think he meant? i don t know. i didn t mean for this to happen ? i i didn t know what he meant. i just you know, i was thinking, he didn t mean to leave her while he was in california. or, i didn t mean to have that affair. it could have meant a lot of things. reporter: tamara also recalled that early morning phone call she received from david on the day kay was found beaten. he was asking me if i had talked to kay. and the thing about it is, he s never called me during the day, so it was just very unusual for him to call me and ask me if i had talked to kay. reporter: it seemed strange to tamara then, perhaps even stranger now in light of the new questions about david. people in town whispered and w
the, on my cell phone and asked me, he said, did you hear about david havin an affair with becky? and i said, there s no way. there s no way. reporter: the news about the affair didn t surface until after kay had been buried. david was still seen then as the grieving husband. if i woulda known about that affair, i don t think there woulda been as much support for david at the funeral or at the hospital. why would you cheat on someone that loved you so much and was always there for you, to just to have sex basically? why? it it wasn t worth it. reporter: tamara thought back to david s behavior in those days after kay s death, including an odd exchange between them at the memorial service. david went up to me. and again, being very close with kay, he hugs me. and he hugs me really, really tight. and he s boohoo cryin and he tells me, i m sorry. i never meant for this to happen. and i didn t know