actually is, we care about these people, they are our leaders. so i think there is enough potentially there. i think the problem is i respect jody kanter, one thing she does is put herself in the first lady s head. she does what a lot of reporters do and writers, she acts like she is sitting there and is michelle obama when she hasn t talked to her, she is reconstructing if other people s accounts and i think that is dangerous. i also want to say i admire the first lady and i have that in common with the rest of the country. she is one of the most admired women in america. so this notion the right she is behind hillary clinton and oprah winfrey. the notion people won t like her if they know her and damage her is ridiculous. we love her, i wish she wouldn t bite down or dignify people by responding to some of the garbage that is thrown at her. the interesting thing,