another man. we re talking about a gay youth here, a gay young man who probably has already had all sorts of emotional conflicts. so all we can do as a parent is let them know that we will be there for him in any way, that what happened to him doesn t define who he is, what defines him is how he gets through this very difficult situation in his life. regrettably, he took the wrong way out. but for other parents who are out there who are dealing with their kids who have been humiliat humiliated, who have been outed, college is the place for transgender, bisexual kids, gay kids to come out and deal with their sexuality, this was taken away from him. so as parents, we have to set the stage for our kids to have that freedom in college, but most importantly know that we will always give them the support, no matter what they decide to do. and technology really has changed the game when it comes to bullying? oh, absolutely.