are you ready to get to the heart of the contracts? melinda, jim has agreed to stop drinking. first drink, you go. he said yes. with no arguing, saying you re doing it to me again. just peacefully go. right. and take the argument out of whether or not you re drunk, you didn t drink, go for a urine drop. you re clean, he s clean. i d like to give you some basic just a couple of rules for the next 90 days. don t bring up the past in current dispute for 90 days. you always have the option to go back and battle royally. don t assume each other s motivations. when the going gets really hard, just remember, no pressure, no