how are you? i m well. my sister is such a yo-yo dieter she ll lose 15 pounds before summer and put it back on each year. normal or nuts? i ll say normal. i understand vanity. if she s 15 pounds or 10 pounds overweight. i wish she could keep it off. i understand the bathing suit thing. in fact by july first i will be ten pounds lighter. because i like that vanity thing, too. it s a sacred oath of being ten pounds lighter. and i will keep it off. we ll be your accountability friends. what about this one? i love my brother s exboyfriend. he s married now and could care less. am i nuts for going after a sib sibbing sibling sibling s former love?