face but at that time i even told her, you have to understand, the bible is a book about a culture of people at a time and this is how the government ruled and things were laid down. were you ready to know that at that moment. you knew your daughter was going to say, i have two mommies, not a mom and dad what does this mean? were you ready for that and how did you prepare for that? i had her as a lesbian woman. her father, we knew each other since seventh, eighth grade. we grew up in the neighborhood together. it was definitely a decision that i had made. i wanted a child. her name was on her baby shower cake, helena, we re waiting for you. what can i say? it wasn t even an issue in terms of being a lesbian and