State legislatures. Citing the example of working moms versus stayathome moms, a questioner asked, what are your thoughts on the way women treat each other . Well, if we were ever asked a question that included men, we might give a better answer. I mean, do we ever ask men, can you have it all . You know, we need work patterns that allow everybody to work and also have a life and have kids if they want to. Men too. The whole idea of stayathome moms and moms who i mean, the language is bananas. Women who work at home work harder than any other class of worker in the united states, longer hours, no pay. [ applause ] so lets just never again say women who dont work. Its women who work at home or who also work at and lets always ask all of those questions of men too. Its just divisive can you have it all . I mean, not everybody even wants it all, so, you know, and if you have to do it all, you cant have it all obviously whether youre a man or a woman. You recently commented on miley cyrus
Minitore earlier, which i think was from the 70s or 80s, but really shows the degree to which the changeover to societies in which men were separated from children and didnt develop those parts of higher arcry. Not enough men enter child rearing in the home and develop the rest of themselves. Bell hooks, feminism is for everybody. Yes, the great bell hooks. Yes, ms. Magazine in the classroom. Ms. Is in classrooms and a very important resource. And it also is in womens prisons and a very important resource. Betty ferdan, absolutely. A classic, especially for women in a traditional role. What organizations, what kind of Community Building do you recommend . Well, just tell us where you live and well find you theres no shortage. And the Junior League also has become much more an agent of social change than it ever was when i was growing up. Im going to cut in for one more political question before we wrap it up. Wilma mankiler wrote a wonderful book, she interviewed 15 women from indian c