key. live below our means and put away to build wealth for the future. that s going to give cushion and allow us to have a less stressful life. this is why we ve been fighting for years. you don t put money away. money is something to get more money. take measured risk. he likes took risk his money to grow more. i like to save mine because i don t want to lose it. that s frankly the way a lot of men and women are, saefrs and spending. she has a min issues van. he has a motorcycle. perfect metaphor. in our relationships or dealing with this economy our goal for you for this hour, by the end of the hour you will feel confident about money. you will be able to speak money with your job, your mortgage banker, your spouse with a little more confidence. we wrote a book about doug flynn, a certified financial planner, lanett cox, founder of ask the money coach.com and louis, a personal money advisers. louis, i want to ask you first, people think they can t speak m