wouldn t be the first place for a gay transgender couple and their children. as a family we re not in an ideal place right now. we re not where we want to be. tom doesn t like new mexico. i don t like new mexico. i think for the most part we all just really miss our friends. we miss our grass. we miss our lawn, and we miss everything about home. scott s working nights as a caregiver while studying for a psychology degree. tom has take ann job as a satellite tv technician. i thought going from a small town to a bigger town would help find acceptance and understanding of our family, but we haven t really found that much acceptance here. no hitting in the head, gregory. i was just getting you off of me. do you think it s more difficult for a family like