dominance at all cost, the culture is doomed. the way you fix it is switch the mythology of that power to nobility. so we have to get away from trying to be alpha men and get into more serving our community. no, because that s suggests there s a diminishment to your alpha state or alpha. alpha men, alpha women it s not a gender thing. alpha power exists in every culture of every society ever in the history of the world. doesn t matter. and the cultures where alpha power is expected to serve, john kennedy represented an opportunity to do better. all those cultures will do better. any culture where alpha power seeks to dominate at all costs, those cultures will fail and we are trending in the wrong direction. well, one thing that s happening is a gender flip that more women are becoming heads of households, making more money, having more education wielding more alpha power. yeah, but they tend to wield alpha power differently in less of an attempt to dominate