Alicia Dunams is a Communications Expert, Mediator, and Peacemaker. Her experience in these fields led to her writing a book detailing her coaching The book, en
Like what? I
get to do the dishes? Yep, thatâs it. Exactly. Wish I could remember where I first heard itâthis simple shift from âI Have Toâ to âI Get Toâ that makes all the difference in the world.
What If You Couldnât?
A board chair said exactly that to me only a few days ago about the dishes, to which I responded, âOkay, letâs see⦠What if you didnât
get to do the dishes because you couldnât.â
What if you couldnât do the dishes because you were sick, or because you were caring for someone who was sick so you didnât have the time, or because your work right now was so overbearing that you were lucky to find time to eat, let alone clean up after.