Some 24 communications were sent or posted. Most were to Vandenberg, four were to her lawyers, and two were to staff at her business. One of those, sent by Elliot to Vandenberg on June 6, 2018 said: “I am determined and consistent and will keep coming at you with more and more legal ammunition. I am a one-man army and my mind is a weapon of mass destruction. I am the general and I along with Kirsten will be victorious in this war.”
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Elliot told Vandenberg his mind was a “weapon of mass destruction”. (File photo) After the agreement was reached there was a four-month period of no contact between the parties. Then, in late September 2019 Vandenberg and her husband went to a Napier bar with friends, where Elliot happened to be working as a bouncer.