And now heres Tracee Ellis Ross [ cheers and applause ] tracee wow hello [ cheers and applause ] hello, hello, hello. And welcome to Jimmy Kimmel Live. I am your guest host tonight, Tracee Ellis Ross. [ cheers and applause ] i know what you guys are thinking. Really . Another black jewish female host of late night . [ laughter ] i mean, you guys, we are everywhere. Everywhere. Im actually pulling double duty because ill here now and i was on a new episode of blackish earlier tonight here on abc. [ cheers and applause ] yeah. Thats right. Even in television, a woman has to work two jobs to make the same money as a man. [ laughter ] [ cheers and applause ] i got more. As a black woman, im actually headed to my third job when i finish here. [ laughter ] you know, i was a little worried i wasnt going to make it here tonight. I slipped and fell at work on blackish the other day. I did, i fell down. I was walking into the fake kitchen of my fake house but it had a really real floor. And i went down hard i was blackish and bluish. [ laughter ] [ applause ] im still a little bluish. Anyway, if i fall tonight, guillermo . You got me . Are you going to have me and be my guest host of the guest host of the guest host . I got you. Tracee guillermo has got me. Good, thank you, thank you. [ cheers and applause ] guillermo in to save the day. Since well be spending a little time together, the next hour, i should probably tell you a little about myself in case for some strange reason you dont know me. I was born here in los angeles. Yeah. My mom is a little singer. Shes done a few things. She sang a few songs, made a couple hits, like three decades of them. Got a few awards. Had a couple of kids, im one of them. And im speaking of course of my mother, the great diana ross. [ cheers and applause ] not too shabby, that lady, and my dad is the painter bob ross. [ laughter ] do you remember him . Do you remember him . Yep, yep, yep. And that my friends is how you get hair like this. [ laughter ] no, no, no. Bob ross is not my dad. Actually, bob ellis is my father. Yep, thats my dad. I get my sense of humor and my nose from him. See . [ applause ] my parents deserve a nice round of applause. They did well. Okay. I also have a lot of passions. I love me some social media. If youre not following me, get on it, i dont know what youre doing. I love the show lockup raw. Okay wheres the applause on that one . [ cheers and applause ]obsessiv. Obsessively. I have so many bowls. I made a music video about them. Wooden bowl black bowls pink bowls turquoise bowls green bowls blue bowls ceramic bowls ceramic bowls and some white bowls white bowls white bowls white bowls ive got so many white bowls [ laughter ] [ cheers and applause ] tracee yeah. Basically the only thing i dont do with bowls is smoke them. [ laughter ] are you guys in the holiday spirit . Yes . [ cheers and applause ] it is that magical time in los angeles when the temperatures dip down to a brisk 84. [ laughter ] i like to do something a little different during the holidays. Each year i give people verbal cards. I know. You heard me. I actually said verbal cards. I like to look my loved ones in the eye and say whatever i would have written in the card. Guillermo, can i give you a verbal card . Yeah, sure. Tracee this will be something special. [ cheers and applause ] guillermo, thank you. Okay. Dearest guillermo, im wishing you the most happy of holiday seasons. And may your new year be prosperous and full of joy. Best wishes, tracee. [ cheers and applause ] dont go. It is best to end a verbal card with a curtsy. Do you want to try a verbal card with me . Okay. All right. [ laughter ] dear tracee, youre so smart, so beautiful, and so nice. I wish you a merry christmas, Feliz Navidad and a happy hannukkah. [ laughter ] [ cheers and applause ] tracee thank you, guillermo. Thank you so much. Okay. [ cheers and applause ] tracee full disclosure for any of you that try this at home, it can be a little bit awkward but it can also bring you closer together. So have you done any of your Holiday Shopping yet . Have you started any of that . No, not yet. Tracee do you know what youre getting for your wife . Not yet either. [ laughter ] tracee its december. You need to get on it. But do i know that it is a lot of pressure to find the right thing. I can help you because i believe the best gifts arent the ones you buy in a store. Theyre the ones you buy on those weird tv commercials you see in the middle of the night. [ laughter ] to help all you lazy shoppers, weve assembled this years 2017 as seen on tv gift guide. You are welcome. You struggle, you strain, youre so far away. Just bending over to put on your socks brutally painful every day. Well, not anymore. Introducing sock slider. The no bendover way to put on your socks every day. 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With revelations of Sexual Harassment allegations and the firing of multiple high profile men, there are questions that how companies will handle their yearly Christmas Parties this month. The alcohol tends to flow. People let down their guard and can forget theyre at a work function. Criminal defense lawyer randy zellen said his best advice to companies, have people monitoring the party. Eyes open, ears open, dont wait if you see a situation. Jump in immediately. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, mr. Magoo. [ applause ] that was very helpful. If you see something, say something. And that reminds me, as a woman with a big platform like this, there is something i wanted to talk about tonight. Thats the hollywood Sexual Harassment scandal. First of all, lets start with the fact it isnt a search a section a sex scandal. It isnt a hollywood scandal. It isnt even a scandal. It is a systemic problem about the abuse of power that takes place across all industries. And has enabled a culture of inequity to persist for far too long. Over the past few months, yes, the past few months, countless brave women have come forward to share their experiences. And while im not totally surprised by these stories, it seems like quite a few men are. Treating another human being with respect isnt complicated. But it seems a bit confusing for a lot of men out there. So i wrote a book. [ cheers and applause ] its kind of like a childrens book. For men. That is going to make this really simple and just bring it back to the basics. Do you want me to read it . [ cheers and applause ] so listen up, fellows. Get to the first page. There is a guy with ten long fingers. Creepy glares and hugs that linger. If youre a woman, youre not a fan. I speak, of course, of the handsy man. [ laughter ] [ cheers and applause ] handsy man, based on the news, you seem to be a bit confused. Listen, and ill explain to you all the things you may not do. You may not compliment my butt. You may not call me ho or slut. Even if youre stoned or drunk, do not expose me to your junk. [ cheers and applause ] and if i am your employee, dont rest your hand upon my knee. No, i wont sit on your lap. I shouldnt have to say this crap. [ cheers and applause ] you cannot smell my hair, you creep, or grab my boobs while im asleep. I do not want a back massage. Did you follow me into the parking garage . I do not like you, handsy man. Youre not allowed to touch my can. Not on a plane, not on a train, not on your boat, not in a moat. Not in a tree, not by the sea, not in your mansion, help me, chris hansen [ cheers and applause ] so handsy man, if youre still confused whether your behavior will be excused, ill say it clearly, nice and slow. If she doesnt consent, the answer is no [ cheers and applause ] so everybody got it . Good. Just so you know, thats part one of a 67part series. [ laughter ] all right. We need to take a break but we will be right back with mary j. 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Kimmel live. I am still Tracee Ellis Ross. Tonight on the show she has two books out theyre called its messy and girlgaze. Amanda de cadenet is here. [ cheers and applause ] and then his album is called war leisure. Miguel featuring travis scott from the mercedesbenz outdoor stage. [ cheers and applause ] and i wanto ke a second to nd m whole kimmel family. I cant imagine what it is like for a father to walk all through this with a child. And i want to thank you for thinking of me as someone to step in for you. I know what a gift and a generous soul you have. You make what you do look so easy, and we all know that its not. I wont be you tonight but i will bring my best. And then tomorrow night, Neil Patrick Harris will be hosting with his guests armie hammer, timothy shalomay, vanessa kirby, and hell have snakes and lizards here too. Im not sure why i didnt get the snakes and lizards. [ laughter ] but thats for another time. And then on thursday, Melissa Mccarthy hosts with guests octavia spencer, dave franco, and hanson. [ cheers and applause ] as a reminder, you can watch me on blackish tuesdays at 9 00 8 00 central here on abc. [ cheers and applause ] and because im a really Good Daughter and it smells good i would like to mention diana rosss diamond diana fragrance is currently available exclusively through Home Shopping network. Shes spent decades making music to put in your ears. Now shes got something to put in your nose. [ laughter ] all right. My first guest tonight is a multiplatinum selling recording artist and a great actress too. Her movie mudbound is streaming now on netflix. Please say hello to mary j. Blige [ cheers and applause ] hi tracee its really nice to see you off a plane. Little do you know, we seem to have the same flight pattern. All the time. Tracee how many flights do you think weve been on together . Maybe five. It might be more. Tracee i said 12. Weve been on so many flights. Its kind of unbelievable. I mentioned my moms perfume. You had a perfume out, didnt you . Yes. My life. And it broke all the records on hsn. Tracee thats what i heard. [ cheers and applause ] unbelievable. When you you smell delicious right now. When you made your perfume, my life, were you totally involved . Totally. Tracee did you put on the white smock and get in there . I was in the lab, i picked out the smells, i did all the little swatches. Went to the lab and watched them make it. This is personal. A fragrance is personal. And i want people to believe me, what im selling. I dont want to sell something that stinks. Ill wear it. So what im wearing right now, and you love it, i want you to enjoy it like im enjoying it. Tracee i believe everything you do. I believe everything mary does. Thank you. Tracee the fact we travel together regularly, i thought this would be an opportunity for me to dive into some other things about you that i might not know and other people might not know and i could ask you some random questions. Some easy ones. Like the quickies. What do you think . Okay. Tracee ill start with an airplane one. Window or aisle . Window. All the time. I need the window seat. Do you ever google yourself . No. No, no. Tracee i totally google myself. [ laughter ] my favorite is to go to google images. No. Tracee do you watch yourself back when youre acting . Well, i have to. Its not like i want to but i have to watch it back. And this is new so i have to see what im doing wrong. Tracee some people have no interest. I have to watch it. I have to. Tracee all right. She watches herself. For a different direction, have you ever seen a ghost . I dont want to say tracee ive seen a ghost. Ive seen a lot of things. [ laughter ] i just dont want everybody to know what im seeing. Tracee okay. I understand. Thats a very safe and smart and ive never seen a ghost. [ laughter ] i dont want people to know what im seeing either. What is your favorite flatware . As in, are you a fork or a spoon gal . Or chopsticks . I like forks and spoons. Tracee you like both . Equal opportunity . Yeah. If i need to eat, i need to use either or. It doesnt matter. Tracee i really need to be better about that. Im really partial to a fork. How about bowls or plates . As you can tell earlier, i love a bowl. Bowl. Tracee you like both. You are a very fair person. Im with you. Im easy. Easy with life. [ laughter ] tracee totally with you. Didnt need to be explained. Thats good. Ive got two more. Who is your favorite super hero . Well, wonder woman right now. Tracee me, too. [ cheers and applause ] i love that movie. So you are getting a star on the hollywood walk of fame. Yes. [ cheers and applause ] tracee thats exciting. Im super excited. Ive been around a very long time. I wont say a very long tracee every bit of you being around has been thrilling for me. Im such a fan of mary j. Blige. Oh, my god < im a fan of yours. Thank you, i love you. Tracee i grew up on your music. I love you too. I always try to not fan out on the airplane. Im like is she sleeping . Get up to go to the bathroom too many times. Hi, mary hi, mary. Did you get any chips, mary . [ laughter ] tracee okay, okay. Do you remember the first time you came to hollywood . The first time i came to los angele promotion for 411 and then i came back to shoot the im going down video. Tracee im going to pause there. Haaaaa whats the 411 . What is a 411, mary . You just said the best things ever. Lets repeat those two titles. They are like the soundtrack of my life. Do you have aa 411 . Love no limit. Tracee love no limit. Love no limit. I think my life, its like they all, they all just, its the soundtrack of my life, my growing up. Do you remember when you came on blackish . Yes. I told them. Tracee you said you had a good memory. But that was a special one for me. I absolutely remember. Tracee, i love that show and i was so grateful to be on there and so grateful to meet you. Tracee i brought a little photo of us from blackish. It was first season. I was her background singer. I got to sit on a moon behind mary j. As she sang. [ cheers and applause ] mary is doing her thing that mary does. So making let me say this then ill move into the acting. In this moment, if we could go back here on this beautiful photo. Do you see the emotion thats happening on my face, mary . Yes. Tracee what happened herisc you didnt take me on tour after this. [ laughter ] so maybe after this visit with each other, i could join you on tour. I could be your background singer. Dont you think it would be incredible . Sure. [ laughter ] tracee well, we are going to talk about so much more because i want to get into mudbound. Which im so excited to hear about and hear about your acting process. 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So can you tell us what it is about . Just the general story . Well, mudbound about two families, a black family, a white family, who end up living in theis the jim crow era. And they end up learning how to love each other an learning t and they have to h through tria tribulations. And it is about w men went off to war and they fought as free men. But they came back to the southernlaces and still being called nword and being lynched. Its about a silver no matter how bad someone treats you or try to take something away from you, if you use your heart, you can walk away live in the situation with love. So love is the silver lining. It is about relationships and friendships and it is really a love story. These movies dont ever get a happy ending. I dont want to i just told it. [ laughter ] if you didnt see it tracee its streaming. It is very powerful and there is a happy ending. It is a very relative story to today as well. People dont seem to get the t. Were all free. All of us are free. [ cheers and applause ] tracee yeah. An important movie. When you look back, very important to match it up with where we are now. Where did you shoot this film . New orleans. Tracee was it a long shoot . New orleans, thats hot. Dee rees shot it in 29 days. Tracee 29 days. My part was probably a month, a month and a half. It was very hot. Like 180 degrees. Im exaggerating. Jimmy thats very hot, mary. [ laughter ] i mean it felt like it was very hot. The conditions were really, really real. Really, really real. It kept us in character most of the time. The heat and the mosquitos and the mud was real. The rain was real. Everything was real. And the feelings that we felt while we were shooting the movie. It was like we were reliving what our ancestors had to go through. And this movie is about, it is an slave movie. These people are free and proud. It is not that type of movie again. It is a hopeful movie and an optimistic movie, i think. 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Im having a ball, i like this chair, and we are back our next guest is a photographer, actress, host, writer, and one of the most influential feminists of our time. Please welcome the author of its messy and girlgaze, my friend, amanda de cadenet [ cheers and applause ] amanda whats new since we talked last night . My text an hour ago . That we were going to both wear red lipstick . We did, of cose. We didnt need to check in on that one. Tracee il ats your favorite mary j. Blige song . There are so many . You cannot pick. Anything she does, im so interestedn. I love that you got to interview her. Shes amazing. Tracee another quick ecausea chance to ask you this. Cast es i am listening to a podcast on. I am a founder of girl gaze. I love to know how othepeople builtheimpans. I need to hear about failures and successes and how they did it. Tracee thats good. I love that. Did you recently listen to the rebecca traster with ezra . Of course. She is one of leading feminists and she is amazing. If you dont know her, you should check her out. I listen to anything that relates to women in business, ultimately. [ cheers and applause ] tracee thats why were friends. Do it again. You have two books out right now. Theyre both right next to my bed. If im not trying to fall asleep, im looking at these. A slight overachiever. Tracee this woman is writing two books and i cant even get one out. Youre kind of busy. Tracee yeah, well, youre writing books. So lets start with this. Girlgaze. What was the inspiration behind this . It is my company that i am the founder and ceo of. Girlgaze, our mission is to close the gender gap by providing jobs for photographers and directors. And we have a submission process. And weve had over 3. 8 million submissions of images. [ applause ] on instagram of girls showing us globally how they see the world. And i was looking at all these images and i was thinking, if there is any doubt that women and girls have an incredible perspective that needs to be shared, we need to put it in a book and show everyone. So if you want to check it out, its an incredible book, its a good Christmas Gift too. Tracee as a friend, can i get a discount to order a whole bunch . We can talk about that later. Absolutely. A friend hookup. Tracee i will say, girlgaze, the flip on male gaze. This is a really important way to sort of categorize things. It is very different. He male. Tracee and this is the other book out right now. These are words. That book was so hard to write. Can i tell you . Tracee theres a lot of words in this book. You wont read it by stroking it. Tracee no, no. Its not like a man. [ laughter ] [ cheers and applause ] tracee yes, amanda. As a known feminist that people know youre a feminist, what are some of the things that people, men specifically, say to you, ask you . What are some of the questions you get in response . This book or just in general . This book is called its messy on boys, boobs and bad ass women. All subjects i am very passionate about. I want to point out, it does have boys in the title. Ur all. I have a husband and a son. I think that these tracee i like men, too. [ laughter ] and theres nothing wrong that and thats important to remember. Tracee i its about the equality of women. We have to create bridges especially now more than ever. To connect each other. We are so disenfranchised and it is men and women. And at some point we have to understand each other better so we can move forward without all of these issues coming into play. In the workplace. I just want to say that one of the biggest questions men are asking me now is what does consent look like . Okay . Seriously. In all seriousness, i have, two men i know who have been publicly accused of rape in the last week. Ive spoken to both of them and ive had very honest conversations with them. Both of them maintained that those experiences were consensual. And i said, how is it possible that you believe this was consensual, and she has filed a rape case against you . How far away are we . Men are asking frequently, what does consent really look like . Can i do this . Can i do that . Tracee one of the things i like to think to myself, how would you greet another man . You would not be well, maybe you would be touching his butt, i dont know. Tracee i dont see larry, larry david and Jerry Seinfeld pressing their bodies up against each other when giving a greeding. No. Sat next to larry david at dinner not long ago. I was so excited. Tracee he sat down next to me on a flight and i was like, oh okay, oh my god. I love him. And it was just when the harvey weinstein, the first wave of stories had broken. I was kind of joking with him. But not really. And i said are you nervous to sit next to me . He was like, well, i am a little nervous. And i said, you need to really educate yourself about what is okay and what ist. And we kind went through what was okay and what wasnt. Tracee do you want to am i larry david . Im a man, im wearing a suit. This will do. Okay. Ill show you. You be larry. So the first one i said was, et your whole body against me like this. I do not want to feel your [ bleep ]. You can do this. You can do tha safe hug. The aline h. The aframe hug. The other is the sideways hug. Like this. That means youre going into the shoulder. Connecting. Tracee ward pie the other thing is do not do this. Cee this is another one. A pet peeve of mine. May i use your body . Im consenting. Did you hear that . May i use your body for a moment. Its a simple question. May i hug you . Absolutely. Tracee so this is the other one. , it seems. This is a very tender area for ladies. It is vulnerable. Very, very vulnerable. 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Here to perform the song sky walker with a little help from travis scott, miguel [ cheers and applause ] quick to dead the bull like a matador quick to dead the bull like a matador bull bull bull like a matador quick to dead the bull like a cap and a stem catch a wave on us take a shot make a friend just enjoy the moment im Luke Skywalkin on these haters celebrate every day like wait up but dont wait to jump in too long dont sleep you gotta stay up dont dont sleep you gotta stay up yeah yeah yeah im outstandin so i stand out im moreat bathhouse top gun on my tom cruise i play for keeps and i dont lose youre gonna love it cause youre cool as a breeze so pi rotation all night we gon keep it psychedelic like a cap and a stem catch a wave on just enjoy the moment im Luke Skywalkin on these haters celebrate every day like a birthday good things come wait up but dont wait to jump in too long dont sleep you gotta stay up dont dont sleep you gotta stay up yeah yeah yeah wildin on my haters in my 23s havin a jordan moment lit ice all on my chain ima i just popped two ill be stayin up hangin with the gang that dangerous i cant you with my chains that tangle up come and catch a wave take one damn near odd damn the police wildin in sv movin up your street when we on the creek and bring sand to the beach aint no day aint no night made no plans aint no sleep cap and a stem catch a wave on us take a shot make a friend nj im Luke Skywalkin on these haters celebrate every day like a birthday good things come to those that wait up but dont wait to jump in too long dont sleep you gotta stay up dont dont sleep you gotta stay up yeah yeah i was good then but im better now all gains ive been wrappin up quick to dead the bull like a matador right now im higher up than canada cap and a stem catch a wave on us take a shot make a friend just enjoy the moment im Luke Skywalkin on these haters celebrate every day like a birthday good things come to those that wait up but dont wait to jump in too long dont sleep you gotta stay up dont dont sleep you gotta stay up yeah yeah yeah stay up stay up stay up stay up stay up gotta hit the loo. 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But first, here with the song pin again, miguel [ cheers and applause ] are the trees high enough baby leave you so high your feet wont touch the ground would you look up baby to pineapple purple skies promise everything gonna be right mise everythingonna be alright trust everythings gonna be alright got altng gonna be alright been telling you for the longest time everything gonna be alright got you kissing on the sun while you do it like that everything you do i be right here with you this is nightline. Tonight, the sole king returns. Steve madden, the man behind the billiondollar brand thats a great frigging shoe. Making a comeback after a stint in prison using his Second Chance to pay it forward. The real iron man . A british inventor mastering the physics of flight. Soaring in his homemade jetpowered suit like a bigscreen superhero. Already breaking speed records. Now producing them for private sale. Is it worth the risk . And capturing vietnam. He jumped out ofnd ran into battlefields. Now this veteran abc cameraman recalling the dangers of filming americas first televised war. But first the nightline 5