Looks like someone had been shot. Someone broke in. A deadly attack in the dark of night. Her mother murdered. I realized that last night i had with her, that was it. His father, bruised and bewildered. I dont remember anything until waking up in the morning. Was it a robbery . Was it revenge . You always look at the closest people to the victims. Or was it something much darker . You were 11 years old and your mother disappeared. A missing woman, a murdered woman, and a lie. I couldnt get through more than a page and a half. I could barely stomach it. I am lester holt. This is dateline. Here is Keith Morrison with tangled. You cant put words to that. It was very surreal. 911. Where is your emergency . It is true, the old saying when you marry someone, you marry their family, too. We need an ambulance. Looks like he has been shot. He said someone broke in last night. Not a bad thing to turn to mom or dad for advice and counsel. It is unreal, hard. Sometimes you think maybe it didnt happen, but yet it did. With their help and support after all the true love deepens, grows, and lasts. I watch the crime scene shows on tv. I never, ever thought oh, thats going to be my life. Yeah, it really is all about family. The desert opens 100 miles or so south of denver. Closer to heaven perhaps . This is where shannon palmers mom and dad set out to set out a good, safe, holy life th daughters, far from the risks and temptation of the city. It was awesome. Grow up with dogs everywhere, chickens, 40 acres to run around on. Shannon and her sister kelsey went to school at home. Their mother pam, devoutly jehovahs witness was their teacher. I loved it. I dont think i missed out on any aspect of my education. There were strict guidelines, of course, about beliefs, family, marriage, sex. There were no birthday or holiday celebrations, and they learned that members that commit adultery or divorce can be cast out, shunned. Shannon and kelseys dad jerry didnt share the faith but respected pam, though he was never a real fan of the home school thing. He wanted them to go to public school, but pam wouldnt have it. She always wanted us to be this tall, be her little girls. She genuinely loved us, we were her world. Ou being . Yes, oh yeah. When it was time for high school, pam relented. I think she realized you cant control an environment for a child forever. What was it like to make the transition . It was culture shock. It was different. I was there maybe a week, my new friends are like lets educate you on the ways of the world. I was like oh my gosh. Which of course included boys. Two of my girlfriends are like theres this guy, you need to meet him. I think you two would really get along. I was like great. The guy was aaron. Before long. I was in love. I was very much in love. You know, we had such connection. No kidding. Both jehovahs witness, both home schooled by their mothers, at least aaron was home schooled until his parents marriage broke up. Other that two people were so driven and optimistic, wanted to do big things in life. After high school they got engaged. Full of excitement, planned a wedding. Then one night shannons mother pam sent the girls off to bible study and told their father jerry they needed to talk. She looked up and says i dont want to be married to you any more, i dont want to be here. Everything was fine, fine, fine, fine, then seemed to be getting along, everything was fine. Said this was it, im done. What did that feel like . It was a crush, you were crushed. What happened . No one knew except that now these two had one more thing in common, both products of broken homes. The wedding day approached, a few days to go when her mother pam and ralph invited the bride and groom to be for a talk. He was every bit as devout a believer as pam, so premarital guidance perhaps . Oh no, nothing like that. They told us we ran off, eloped, got married. Wait, what . Your mother and aarons father. Yes. Who does that . I dont know, but i cant tell you how much it felt like i was hit by a bus. By the time you got married, you were marrying your stepbrother. I didnt say much. I was like well, were leaving. And suddenly jerry realized how blind he had been. You didnt understand. Then afterwards all of the pieces fell into place. You were never suspicious . I trusted her. No trust now, shannon and elopers, interlopers, stay away from the wedding. They couldnt pretend it hadnt happened. When they hit the bumps most marriages encounter, it colors everything. Did your father and your mothers relationship have anything to do with what happened to you and shannon . We were pretty determined to not let their relationship have an effect. You know, it is always something in the back of your head. After a year and a half, shannon and aaron divorced. Pam and ralphs marriage thrived. They moved into a big house on a corner lot, an old coal mining town 50 miles south of pueblo low. They opened an antiques maulal in the center of town and bought a Vacation Home in oregon. That was the happiest i ever remember seeing her. For nearly three years one day pam asked her to lunch. She was so focused on wanting me to know that we had a future together, her and i. So finally she was coming around on her own accord. Felt like it, yeah. I told her, i said i cant handle you being my mother and being doing what you did, but i want to be your friend and i want to try this. This was a break through lunch. It was a break through lunch, yeah. Or a beginning at least. Then just a few days later. I was at work and i see aarons name come up on my phone. He is like you know what, something has happened. My dad was being rurkd to the hospital, and they cant find your mom. He said i think someones dead. Who was dead . 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And he seemed to be kind of out of it. Reporter finally, ralph managed to get the words out. He and his wife had been attacked and robbed. Fahry, afraid the attacker called 911. He looks like hes been shot, he said someone broke in last night, him and his wife both. How are they doing . Hes not good. Hes crying and he keeps telling me go help her. Shes in the kitchen. Im going to get my neighbor to help me here. [ knocking ] ralph, were getting help for you, ralph. Okay . Reporter the police arrived, went into the house with guns drawn. And there at the entrance to the kitchen, still in her nightgown, lay pam candelario, her head covered in blood. I knew she was dead when the ambulance showed up because they didnt go into the house. They just stayed and were working on ralph. Reporter ralph wasnt shot, but he was hurt. And he was airlifted to the nearest trauma hospital. Walsenburg, as local reporter eric mullens knew, was not equipped to handle an investigation of this magnitude. You have small town departments with five, six, seven murder cops on staff. You dont have forensic professionals on staff. Reporter so by the time shannon arrived at the hospital looking for her mother an agent of the Colorado Bureau of investigation was there to meet her along with aaron. How did she take it . About as well as youd expect anybody, you know, to get hit by a sledgehammer, whatever. First, she was kind of shocked, then a little bit of denial. Then suddenly i realized that last conversation i had with her was that was it. Reporter no fresh start now. Her mother was dead. And then shannon saw ralph. And he lost it. He just turned into a sobbing, shaking maniac. Reporter ralphs face was banged up. He had bruises in several places. He was confused ke a man coming out of a concussion. Just exhausted. And im just my head just he was able,nd still in his hospital clothes, ralph talked to agents of the cbi. Sorry to hear about your loss. Oh, its been a horrible day. Reporter best he could remember, said ralph, he got up to use the bathroom in the middle of the night, then decided to go downstairs to make sure the wood burning stove was still lit. But on his way to the bottom of the steps, he said, somebody hit him from behind. And then again from the side. I put my arm up, and boom. I mean, it just hit me like a ton of bricks. It hit me hard, you know, and so i went backwards. The ringing. I couldnt see no more. Reporter ralph was knocked unconscious. I mean, i dont remember anything else other than waking up in the morning. Reporter then said ralph, still disoriented, he tried to sit up. I looked down the hallway. I could see pam, her legs. She was she was there. Reporter revealed by the first rays of a warm morning sun. Her head and her theres just blood over her and theres blood on the floor. I touched her cheek. And she was cold, cold, cold. And i ran out of the house. Reporter and that, said ralph, is when he saw his neighbor fahry and yelled for help. But who did it . Robbers or someone else . Normally, said Walsenburg Police captain vince suarez youre always going to look at the closest people to the victim. Reporter except, in this case, ralph was also a victim and clearly wanted to help find the killer or killers. Cbi agent jodi wright he was very cooperative, absolutely. Reporter so investigators spurned exhusband, gerry palmer. Actually, the next day was when the investigators called me. Reporter it was no secret gerry and pam did not get along after the divorce. A divorce which, by the way, she asked him to file, since, as a jehovahs witness, she wasnt allowed to. And so then you filed for divorce. I filed for divorce. Reporter accommodating to the end. To the end. Reporter and now the police were calling. And i told them id be more than happy to talk to them. Reporter if they come up to nebraska. I said, if you got about six hours, you can be here to talk to me. Reporter nebraska. Gerry had moved far away which cleared him, for sure. Of course, theyd need to look at shannon and aaron, too, given their falling out with pam and ralph. But they were cleared almost immediately because reporter they were nowhere around. Yeah. They were not involved. Reporter dead end. The crime scene people did find some things, mind you. Including a bloody fireplace poker that turned out to be the murder weapon. The marking on her head was the exact replica of the shape of the fire poker, the end of the poker. Reporter they cataloged everything they found. Broken glass in the back door. They even took the knobs off drawers and sent them to the lab hoping the intruders left dna or fingerprints on them. And then, quite unexpected, something remarkable turned up, came right through the front door of the local newspaper. So what did you think when you first read that document . I felt i had my own little version of the pentagon papers in a way. Coming up a letter that has everyone in town talking. I remembered reading it and putting it down and thinking, no, it didnt say that. When dateline continues. Yeah, two years in a row. Well ill be. Does that thing just follow you around . Like a little puppy the awardwinning geico app. Download it today. Booking. Com offers free cancellations, so youre free to decide if the trip youre on. Hahahahahaha . Isnt really the trip you want to be on. Hahahaha. Hahaha. [mountain woman and key laughing together] she could be my little frec me but miniaturer sleeping on the sofa till she tackles and i tickle her the whisperer i could be your listener telling me your stories while im showing her her signature, the scribbler whispering what are you doing up . whispering mom said i could have a midnight snack. Well, i say its late, and you need to go to bed. Why . Because i am the boss. Youre not the boss, moms the boss. Well, technically, we are cobosses. Technically, moms the boss. Mmmm. Shhh. The family favorite. Yoplait. Its a grand name, perhaps, for a weekly paper in an out of the way little town. Th but then walsenburg was once the hub of Huerfano County and thriving coal mines offered endless promise. Now, antique stores like pam and ralphs fill the gaps left behind by departing commerce. I think in all small towns, you see maybe a certain degree of selling the heritage because theres nothing else left to sell. Reporter so, no surprise, said the World Journals eric mullens, the invasion and killing at the candelarios place was a very big deal for the weekly paper and for the whole town. We didnt know who was out there. Reporter people like the candelarios neighbors dena and mark. I was afraid. I didnt even want to go to my paint class that i do in the evening, because i was afraid to be out. Reporter a lot of people got guns. A lot of neighbors told me, i went out and got a gun, you know . I want to protect myself. Reporter everybody knew the candelarios had a nice house filled with vintage su theres a Little Jewelry in here, guys, that pam kept. This is her dresser. Reporter some of which were missing, as ralph told the police during a videotaped tour. Well, the television is gone. Okay. Reporter the candalarios had been about leave on vacation so maybe the intruders thought they were gone and were surprised to find them at home. But who . A citizens tip supplied a possible lead. He brought up individual names that he believed that were involved in this homicide. Reporter ramon baros and jose ninajualpa, known drug users. Both had rap sheets, a history of breaking and entering and assault. One informant said ramon was trying to sell jewelry the day after the murder. So you have a responsibility to check into that . Yeah. Reporter pams daughter shannon found herself blaming ralph for not preventing what happened. I was angry at him. In my mind i was like, why didnt you protect my mother. Thats your role as her husband. Reporter and right about then the biggest scoop of eric mullens career landed right in the lap of the huerfano world ive been in news since im 15 years old. Ive seen a lot of things walk in the newsroom. But i have never seen anything like this. Reporter in through the front door marched Ralph Candelario with an open letter to the whole town. It was him explaining what he could remember after he had been treated up in pueblo for his injury and interviewed by the cbi. Reporter this is my story and this is what happened. This is my story. And this is what happened to me reporter to whom it may concern he began. And were including his typos exactly as they appeared in his letter. His memory was coming back. He wanted to explain and maybe shannon was right, he felt guilty. I am angry at myself for not finding a way to do more or just getting myself killed, too. Now he wrote he had an image of who his attackers were. Reporter i got a glimpse of that person, a tall dark man with yellow glasses, short curly hair, wide nose, large lips and marks on the sides of his face. The tall guy was talking on the phone in spanish, he said. One of the two felons who tip the call . Its hard to know. But one of them knocked him out he wrote, and when he came to, there was pam. But not dead as he first told the police. It says here she was still alive. She started to convulse, and i held her hand for just a couple minutes and she just went quiet. I yelled at her again and just started crying, and then the two men returned. I just broke down. I was crying and i was cold and i was freaked out. Pam was there with me just a few feet away. Things took a turn for the worst, he wrote. Then he pointed his gun at me and fired. It just clicked. I cant fully say what happened to me at that point. In fact, he was so scared he said he soiled his pajamas. He wrote that his ordeal began after he and pam went to bed on tuesday night. Not wednesday as he originally thought. It lasted nearly two days. He woke up on thursday morning. I thought my nightmare was over, but i looked down the hall and i could see pams legs in the kitchen. Thats when he ran out of the house and found his neighbor, who called 911. Of course, the World Journal printed all that, though the police werent too happy about it. And eric mullens . I remember taking it home and reading it and putting it down and thinking, no, it didnt say that, and picking it back up again. Reporter but remarkable as ralphs letter was, it still wasnt the whole story. Mustered up the courage and told the police while he was held captive he had asked to go to the restroom and he was sexually assaulted in the bathroom. Reporter well, why didnt he say anything about that before . His explanation was that he was embarrassed. From my understanding, it might be a bit difficult to talk about but the smallest details could be very important so keep that in mind. Reporter ralph agreed to show the investigators exactly what happened. And where. And he grabbed me with the other hand on my hip right here and he proceeded to assault me. Reporter so that was the whole awful story. But if ralph thought that sharing his new, more detailed recollections would clear the air, he was wrong. What did you think when you saw it . I was pretty blown away by what was written. Coming up back at home with detectives, ralph gets his own surprise. What happened to all the knobs . He was very upset that they were missing. Well, i really dont understand why the knobs are gone. A better question why would he care . Ults with advanced nonsmall cell lung cancer previously treated with platinumbased chemotherapy, including those with an abnormal alk or e. G. F. R. Gene whove tried an fdaapproved targeted therapy, this is big. 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No, said the cbis jodi wright. More like a coverup. Nothing in his statement matched anything that i knew to be at the crime scene. Of it. Reporter it wasnt really that ralph changed his story in his World Journal manifesto, not exactly. More like he kept adding to it. So he watches very carefully what youre doing and tailors his story absolutely. Reporter to match what he thinks youre finding. Yes. Reporter ralph kept explaining. Kept offering not less but more details. About, for example, the drawer pulls in his house, the ones investigators removed to test for fingerprints. In the event that one of the invasion persons touched them. Reporter now heres ralph with the police at his house just after pam was murdered. Noticing the missing knobs. What happened to all the knobs . He was very upset that they were missing. Well, i really dont understand why the knobs are gone. Reporter and he would know youre looking for fingerprints of these Home Invaders . Yes. Reporter but what if they didnt find any fingerprints besides his and pams . Well, in his letter, written a few days later, ra new detail that accounted for that possibility. All of a sudden now his attackers, he remembered that they wore gloves with l. E. D. Lights on them, which would explain why no one elses prints would be on the knobs of the drawers. Reporter you ever heard of gloves with l. E. D. Lights on . Well, we researched them. Because i had never heard of that. They do exist. Reporter in the letter ralph also changed the time of pams death. Backed it up by more than 24 hours. Why . Could that, perhaps, have been a response to this investigators challenge . She didnt die at 3 00 in the morning. Had to be earlier than that. And were going to know after today. Well know that. Okay. And thats going to come back to you. Okay. Reporter but that was when ralph reported that the invaders were in his house only a few hours. Now, in his letter, he remembered the ordeal lasting nearly two days. And do you remember we mentioned it a while back that broken glass in the back door . Thing was the glass fell out the door, not in, as youd expect it would do if somebody was breaking into the house. The police, of course, brought that up with ralph. And what did he write in his letter . I went out the back, and the rear door glass was broken. Some pieces fell out when i opened the door. Ralph even had answers to questions he wasnt asked, like why was the fireplace poker exactly where it belonged by the fireplace . Normally if you used a weapon, youre going to find it somewhere around where your victim is. Uhhuh. And it looked like the poker had been put back in its original place. Reporter heres what ralph wrote. I picked up the poker to stir up the fire. I saw blood on the end of it and put it down. So investigators studied ralphs manifesto for clues and, thanks to the huerfano World Journal, so did everybody else in town. Neighbors like mike and dena. It sounded like a novel to me. A bizarre one, at that. Reporter shannon, who had been angry at ralph for not protecting her mother, read the letter and began to have thoughts that were much more disturbing. I didnt get through more than page and a half and i threw it. And i was like, this is [ bleep ]. This is the worst. I could barely stomach to finish it. Reporter and aaron . Shannons exhusband . Ralphs son . Aaron went to a very dark place indeed. Oh, you have no idea. You were 11 years old when your mother disappeared. Yes. Coming up secrets in the basement. I had been going through some of my dads stuff in the basement. I found a box of stuff that supposedly she had taken with when dateline continues. For depression. Trintellix may start to untangle or help improve the multiple symptoms of depression. 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His parents had recently his dads house, aaron went home to find there was just a note on the coffee table that was in kind of sketchy handwriting. But it, you know, nevertheless said, i love you, my boys, and im taking off. Reporter his mother dena was simply gone. Aaron was devastated. What did your father suggest may have happened to her . That she possibly had moved to missouri. A guy that she had been talking to online for quite some time, you know. Maybe she ran away to be with him. Reporter a missing persons case was opened, but nothing came of it. Aaron and his brother moved in with ralph fulltime. But aaron couldnt move on. She had to have left some trail somewhere. Barely a teenager, he taught himself every web search engine. Looked for years, but found no sign of his mom online. And a terrible suspicion took hold of him, hardened into Something Like certainty. His father must have done it. And after that, it became more of, okay, well where would he put her body . Reporter he was maybe 13 or 14 when he thought about his old coal mines around walsenburg. Did you actually go out and look . Oh yeah, oh yeah. I went through a lot of those mines myself. Reporter alone . Mmhmm. Reporter youre looking for the remains of your own mother. I cant imagine what that i cant explain it. Its always been there, that fire that just drives you to do something. Reporter and then one day i had been going through some of my dads stuff in the basement, and i found a box of stuff that supposedly she had taken with her. It was a denim jacket that her mother had given her, a passport, a drivers license, a cell phone were down there. Reporter wait a minute. What was that like . That was kind of the final straw. Reporter and naturally, if she was gone, she would have taken those things with her . Exactly. No, that was kind of the final piece of the puzzle. Reporter he left it there. And emerged a changed person. Shannon told us aaron wouldnt talk much about his mother when they were married, but id find him up at night just over her stuff, just over papers and he just emotional. Reporter going through her papers . Just going through, like, her stuff, whatever little bit and pieces he had left of his mother. He couldnt even handle. Just it it wrecked him. Reporter and when aaron heard pam was dead . My First Response was how did he do it . Reporter and then he told the cops about his mother. Now you may have a serial killer on your hands, serial killer of spouses. Yeah. Something like that. That was the thought. Reporter two wives, one missing, the other dead. And the one thing they had in common was Ralph Candelario. But suspicion alone wasnt enough, wasnt proof. So the investigation continued. Yes. Reporter in an effort to confession, they sought help from the one person whose presence back at the hospital made ralph break down and cry, shannon. Cbi had me call him. Bugged my phone and tried to get him to tell me what happened. Reporter she must have been so nervous, by the way. She was terrified. It was probably one of the hardest things shes ever had to do. Ralph . Hey, this is shannon. Reporter but shannon did it. Ive been waking up having panic attacks. I cant deal with this. I want to know what happened. Can you tell me anything . Yeah, the only thing you know that i know is that a lot of stuff was stolen from the house. Okay. Reporter ralph stuck to his story. A deadly home invasion. And then i found her. Yeah. And thats you know yes. And i try to deal with that. Reporter shannon pressed ralph for details. The one guy that hit me that i saw from the front was taller than me. Okay. And he had a dark complexion. You know, he had marks on his face. Reporter and then, something that didnt sound quite right. And i dont know and thats and then i just saw him for, like, a split second. Reporter a split second . Remember in his letter ralph said his captors held him and abused him for nearly two days. In my mind, if youre not going to tell me what happened, and youre going to dance around the issue and tell three different stories, what are you hiding . Reporter investigators, wondering the same thing, tried to find answers in the evidence. On a laptop, they found hits for match. Com just days before the murder. So somebody had been visiting the site at least. That would have been our suspicion. Reporter well, its got to be either pam or ralph . Right. Reporter and then they found ralphs real life mistress. Yes, he had one. And she said they carried on for to pam. So now shannon thought back to the last time she saw her mother. Because i asked her if she was happy. Reporter so what did she say . She realized that she had given up her family because she had destroyed this relationship with me and kelsey. And shes gotten into this new marriage. Telling me that she just wasnt as happy as she should have been. Reporter lots of circumstantial evidence. Almost enough. Not quite. And then, the antique rugs. I was searching the kitchen area and found in the washing machine two smallsized rugs. And the rugs were still very wet. And they were balled up to one side. Reporter but when ralph saw the rugs during a walkthrough with police, he didnt seem to recognize them. I mean, ive never seen these rugs. The minute we heard hed never seen them, we knew the rugs had importance. We just dit reporter they sent the rugs to the lab. And months later they heard back. What did you find when you tested them . Pams blood was found on the rugs. Reporter they had caught ralph in an obvious lie. He must have put those rugs into the machine himself hoping to wash away the evidence. Finally, they had enough. Almost nine months after pams death, officers went to the antique store with an arrest warrant. 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Taking jardiance with a sulfonylurea or insulin tell your doctor about all the medicines you take and if you have any medical conditions. So talk to your doctor about jardiance and visit jardiance. Com. And get a free consultation with a certified diabetes educator if you qualify. It took nine months of painstaking police work before investigators finally had enough evidence to arrest Ralph Candelario for the murder of his wife pam, but theyd have to find him first. Ralph was on vacation or maybe on the run. I initiated some phone calls with ralph so that we could try to track him down. Reporter they tracked his cell phone and caught up with him. Driver, get your hands in the air. Reporter in northern california. Walk back to the sound of my voice. Back to me. You all right . Yeah. Reporter charged him with first degree murder. Pams daughters were relieved when they got the news. All i could think to myself was finally. Reporter what was that like . It was like yea, then it was like this is reality all over again. Reporter meaning, of course, reliving the crime at the trial. Im antsy. Im eager. Reporter you want to go and testify . Yeah. I want there to be over. And i know that i need to cope with whatever answer comes. Your opening. Yes, your honor. Reporter then here it was, february 25th, 2016. Already ralph had managed a victory, had tied prosecutor ryan brackleys hand, in one way, anyway. Well, we try to tell the entire story about Ralph Candelario and Ralph Candelarios life. Reporter in other words, the very suspicious disappearance of dena, the first wife, whose body has never been found. But ultimately the judge denied that motion, and we went to trial without that piece. Reporter youve already heard about the prosecutions evidence. Ralphs open letter to the huerfano World Journal which, said prosecutor matt durkin, had been exposed as an elaborate lie. That letter was in itself a very sensational story, but it was inconsistent with all of the physical evidence in the investigation that had occurred to that point. Reporter which the prosecution listed in detail for the jury to hear. But theres always more than one side to a story. Defense attorney dariel weaver told the jury that when she read carefully through all the prosecution material, heres what jumped right out at her. When you take a good hard look at their evidence, when you see that theyve interpreted the evidence to fit the conclusion that they drew in the first 12 hours of this case, you see that all it is is assumptions and suppositions and cut corners. Reporter but, said the defense, if the jury looked at facts and not assumptions, theyd see ralphs story about what happened to pam had to be true. Remember those two men fingered as possible killers . They had records, drug offences, burglaries. She walks in on a burglary. Burglaries arent uncommon in walsenburg especially with all the drugs around. Reporter then, said the defense, one of the bad guys saw pam and he hits pam in the head hard. Hes standing there in the kitchen, fire poker in his hand, wondering what to do. Reporter the robbers must have thought pam and ralph had already left on vacation. This family was supposed to be gone. That was the talk around town. Reporter so, for the jury it came down to whose story to believe. Prosecutors said the police cleared those suspects right back at the beginning. But nothing could clear ralph. And nothing could soften a truly shocking allegation ralph murdered pam because divorce would get him disfellowshiped, cast out, from his church. Pam wasnt leaving. And so he had only one option left. Reporter if he became a widower, hed be free to marry again. It was, said the prosecutors, one of the more disturbing motives for murder theyd ever heard. So his religious beliefs were more important than somebody elses life . Ralph candelarios life was more important than anyone elses life. Reporter so the jury got the case. And they worked till the end of the day and then through a second and then a third. Tick tock. Whether they convict him or they dont is going to be a different set of emotions. Reporter and then in the middle of the third day we the jury find the defendant, ralph leroy candelario, guilty of count number one of first degree murder. Reporter guilty. But the end of ralphs story . Oh, no. On the day set aside for his sentencing ralph decided the plot needed one more twist. The jail issued him a safety razor to clean up for court. Ralph used it to slash his wrists and throat. His own son was not sympathetic. Well, you know, the sucker would rather go out than face his destiny that way. Reporter suicide attempt, delaying tactic, whatever it was it didnt work. A day later the judge ordered ralph back to court. People versus Ralph Candelario sentencing. Reporter and ralph, bandaged up, got another day in the spotlight. Your honor, i have maintained that i have been innocent through this whole process. Reporter and then a keen observer might almost have heard the jaws drop around the courtroom. Pam will be resurrected. We will be able to see her again. We will be able to watch her laugh and sing and do all the things that made her such a special person. And in that regard, i put my hope in that future. But until then, i am going to file an appeal for this particular motion. Reporter for now his future is life without the possibility of parole. I had never had a weight so heavy lifted. It was exactly. It was wonderful. Reporter i got to say, by the way, dont want to embarrass you, but i have found that investigators of homicides are the biggest softies on the planet. Were not supposed to let that out, but once in a while it happens. Reporter youre not supposed to care as much as you do, but you really do. You do. Oh, absolutely. You become very attached. Those girls are special. Pam had a part in that, and theyre hopefully theyll be able to live on her legacy. Reporter and ralphs legacy . Because of him, aaron will go on searching, hoping to learn what happened to his mother. Yeah. I will be looking. Probably in oh, in some way my entire life ill always be asking questions. Reporter and shannon he needs to realize this isnt over. He didnt just murder someone and have nothing afterwards. He left behind family. He left behind a disaster. And if im the only thing to remind him of that, then thats what im there for. Thats all for now. Im lester holt. Thanks for joining us. Narrator good times. Thats the best i can give you. [squealing] hes the worst drawer ever. You just lost. Shoot narrator and the chance to send one lucky contest home with 25,000 simoleons. 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