Bringing real position to this holiday favorite. Nderline test text1 italics test text1 plain good evening, we begin with another look at a poignant story of love and sacrifice in the face of overwhelming odds. A young couple learns their child will be born with a debilitating medical condition, world anyway. Its been a tough road and its still not easy, but now these parents have a medical marvel on their hands. Heres abcs david wright. For brandon and brit nigh bul, the first serious curveball of parenthood came the day after their 17 week ultrasound. These are his legs. His hands and feet are in the air like this. Reporter the scan where the couple first found out they were having a baby boy. The ultrasound tech was acting strange. She got really strange. When she got to his head and was measuring it, she didnt say a word. Then the very next day, the phone rang. They told me he had spina bifida. How did you process it . I dont know. I couldnt really believe it. Turns out the initial diagnosis was wrong. But the scan showed a severe the brain almost nonexistent. Miraculously, jackson survived, hes now just over a year old. The doctors didnt expect him to. In fact, it was the sort of pregnancy where doctors as gently as possible mentioned the word termination. Abortion has much charge. It wasnt until 23 weeks that it was brought up. About the option. That we had the option to terminate in the state of florida until 24 weeks. To put it bluntly, many families faced with that scan would not have brought this baby into the world. How many fingers do i see . Jacksons parents, gave him a chance. Where do they come from . I cant say. But i bet theyve come a long, long way. But in a way, this is the essence of that debate. It can be. Some people take it that way. But we dont try to take it that way. They did think about termination. I would feel terrible doing Something Like that. Was going to suffer, or he would be in pain, or my life was in jeopardy, then my thought process might have been different. Were christian and we believe in what we believe in, but we still are going to do the best thing for our family, for brittany, and ultimately for jackson. And this is jackson today. Sorrily disabled, but thriving. For us, this is normal. We dont have another child. This is the first one. Even just bathing him is a task that requires both parents. Want to play with your toys . This one or that one . Where do you put his happiness . Hes happy almost all the time. Hes just like any other baby. Cranky often. There you go. Good job i know were by fine. Other babies. Heres what his brain should look like. Instead, this is jacksons only a year later did neurologists come up with a proper diagnosis. Microhydro ensefaly. This doctor saw him in august. How much of the brain is there . Very little. Will he ever be able to talk . I would be shocked if he could. Will he ever be able to walk . Independently, very unlikely. Theres no prognosis. It this far. Do you have any sense as to how long he can survive with i dont know. I dont have a crystal ball. It really depends on the medical complications. Such a good boy. Hes only made it this far with the help of his parents. Jackson gets nutrition through a feeding tube. Burping him involves removing the excess fluid from his stomach. Seizures. Even when hes really calm. Sometimes hell just go into a slight seizure. I dont think so. He was irritable when i saw him, and theres nothing about this that causes pain, per se. Reporter pain and suffering are not necessarily the same things. In the end, the doctors themselves say that science alone cant answer that question. And what is his quality of life . Again, i imagine but i dont have a full appreciation of that, but i would ask his parents. How hes able to see the lights on his toy is baffling because the ser eastbound rum is so small as to be nonexistent. Mommy cant do it for you. Ill remind you, you put your hand and you press it, like that. Reporter and yet his parents, who spend so much time with them are convinced their son is in there. Its so cute when he gets so he grins. Yeah, its a cute grin. It is cute. Every day we spend time with him. Every day we play with him. Every day we say i love you. A hundred million times. Maybe a little exaggeration. But probably over a hundred times a day. No exaggeration. Can you sit up like a big boy . We say mommys here, daddys here. Youre so strong, youre so smart. He hears those things every day from us. Maybe im biased, but i believe positive reinforcement, talking to him, loving him that was a big yawn, buddy. I think hes responding to that very well. Reporter not only that, they feel he loves you back. They hear him saying so in videos such as this. I love you. And even if others may not hear it, these parents feel it. But brittany and brandon also hear from the neigh sayers. When they post his photos and videos online, people write the and we cant fathom would think Something Like that about an innocent child, especially one with special needs and two, actually hit the send button. Hes a lucky boy, you guys seem like great parents. We try. We try hard. Jackson is lucky, because many parents would not have given him that chance. It hasnt been easy. A lot of his treatments, including that trip to boston are not covered by insurance. Theyve had to resort to a go fund me campaign which is covering most of their bills for now. Every decision weve ever made for him has been about his happiness, his comfort, no matter what that meant, and no matter what the cost. I feel like jackson is doing so well and can teach the medical world so much. And we realize that jacksons life has a purpose, whether you are faithbased, or scientific and want to see more about medicine, learn more about the human brain. And at the same time, we realize the reality of jackson. That were probably going to outlive him. Were just trying to give him the best life possible. Knowing that it might be a short one. We realize that. So every day is precious. Jackson, almost 16 months old now, is still showing improvements. Here he is taking his first picture with santa. Ordinary people struggling with an extraordinary burden, and doing it with love. Im david wright for nightline in tavares, florida. Up next, shes not afraid of the dark side on shoz like scandal and how to get away with murder. Questions later but Shonda Rhimes said she crippling secret. And later, Whoopi Goldberg, message. And that was amazing. 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You may not recognize our guide, but chances are, youve been inside her racy day dreams. This cant happen, not anymore. Theres been hanky panky in here too. Theres been a lot of interesting hanky panky on that desk. Stop. No. Imagination can build. Shondas imagination reaches roughly 30 Million People a week with greys anatomy, with murder. Her world, shondaland. Over the last 12 years, shes created bold female characters that dominate in typically maledriven industries. Much like shonda herself. But one big difference, shonda was painfulfully uncomfortable in the spotlight. Im a writer, im supposed to be behind the scenes. And everybody else in front. Despite being invited to every glamourous party in hollywood, shed make excuses saying she was too busy. Until her sister provoked her. I was going on and on about the invitations id received and my sister cut in and said, are you going to say yes to anything . You never say yes to anything . And those words stuck with me. So this became a campaign to say yes to things that scared you. To say yes to things that freaked me out. For a full year shed take on all the things shed worked so hard to avoid. It began with an invitation to appear on jimmy kimmel, who shed turned down so many times before. I tip my white hat to you. What you started saying yes, what happened . Its the doing of the thing that undoes the fear. But it was more than public appearances that she would say yes to. Lets talk about the f word. You call yourself fat. I did. I got on the airplane to go to new york, and i couldnt get the seat belt buckled. You can call the stewardess and ask for an extender, and i decided i was going to die because i wasnt going to say it that moment was lifechanging. I hit this point where i said, i work hard in every other area of my life, why wouldnt i throw myself into being healthy in the same way . At one point, losing 137 pounds. Shonda said she was finally feeling comfortable in her own skin. But with every yes, she struggled more to find time to spend with her kids. Shes also frank about motherhood and the dirty little secret working mothers are often too afraid to talk about. That you really cant have it all. I was literally at my daughters first debut in her school musical, and i missed sandra o. Last filming ever at greys anatomy. It was not a question for me where i was going to be. But that was a really important moment at work and it was a big deal that i missed it. A big deal in part because Christina Yang was shondas get out of my er our feelings and our sense of relationships are very similar. Dont let what you want eclipse what you need. Hes very dreamy, but hes not the sun. You are. So when christina left gray sloan Memorial Hospital and her lover to pursue her keer career, it was a major statement. One of the other things you talk about in the book, she doesnt want to get married. No, she doesnt. 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Olay regenerist renews from within, plumping surface cells for a dramatic transformation without the need for fillers with olay, you age less so you can be ageless so when you think of the holidays, you think santa claus or frosty the snowman, but at its core, its about festivities with family and friends. So tonight our friend Whoopi Goldberg is ringing in the holidays for nightline from her living room. Reading us a classic christmas tale. Ho ho ho. Hello. Im going to give you my christmas, because i really like it, and its my favorite thing to do just before i go to bed. So lay back, or sit back, or just sit, if youre a puppy, or cat. twas the night before christmas when all through the house, not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse. The stockings were hung by the chimney with care in hopes that st. Nicholas soon would be there. Now the children were also nestled snug in their beds, while visions of sugar plums danced in their heads. And mama in her ker chief and i in my hat had settled our brains down for a long winters nap. When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter, i leapt up from my bed to see what was the matter. Away to the window i flew like a flash, tore up the shutters, and the moon on the new fallen snow, gave a luster of midday to objects below. When what to my wondering eyes should appear, but a miniature sleigh and eight tiny reindeer. With an old driver so lively and quick, i knew in a minute, it must be saint nick. He whistled and sought shouted and called them by name, now dash e dancer, prancer vixen, cupid, donner and blitzen. Now dash away, dash away, dash away all, which i assume meant, hey, go to the top of the porch and then go to the top of the wall and then get out of here. Thats what i think that meant. As dry leaves before the wild hurricane fly, when they met with an obstacle mountain in the sky. So up to the house, to the top quarters they flew, with a sleigh full of toys and Saint Nicholas too. Up on the roof, the prancing and pawing of each little tiny hoof. As i drew in my head and was turning around, down the chimney st. Nicholas came with a bound. He came down the chimney, which i personally think would have been a little hot, but hes saint nick and so, magic happens, but dont try that at home. I think trying that at home is a bad day. Anyway, he was dressed all in fur fake fur. Just saying. From his head to his foot and his clothes were all tarnished with ashes and soot. The bundle of toys he flung up on his back, he looked like an old peddler just opening his pack. His eyes, ooh, they were twinkling, his dimples, how merry, his cheeks like roses, his nose like a cherry. And his beard of his chin was as and the stump of his pipe, well, he didnt actually have a pipe. The stump of his starbucks, he held in his teeth, and the coffee encircled has head like a wreath. He had a broad face and a round little belly and it shook when jelly. He was plus sized, plump, a right old elf, and i laughed when i saw him in spite of myself. Now i wasnt laughing at him. I was laughing with him. He was going, ho ho ho, so we were laughing together. So a wink of his eye and a twist of his head soon gave me to know i had nothing to dread. Well, i do have some things to dread, but i wasnt dreading seeing him. Thats what that means. And he didnt say a word, he went straight to his work, filled all of the stockings and turned with a jerk. Nose and giving a nod, whoop, whoop, up the chimney he rose. He sprang to his sleigh. To his team he gave a whistle and away they all flew, like a down on a thistle. But i heard him exclaim as he drove out of sight, Merry Christmas to all, and to all a good night. The night before christmas,by clement moore. And goodnight to you, whoopi. And for all of you out there, thanks for watching abc news. 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