Joanne wear that on the show. We have a terrific show for you. Big Celebrity News from the weekend, including the latest kind move made by taylor swift. Its nice to hear about celebrities. Plus why fitness guru richard simmons, whom we love, hes one of the sweetest people on the planet, he was hospitalized but well have more about that in todays buzz. What if we told you you could look thinner by dinner without exercising or dieting. Well show you how to style yourself so you can look slim. Sometimes you put an outfit on and go this is the magic outfit. And if you were a fan of scrubs or clueless you know actor d oor Donald Faison. Hes a host of a new game show. And are you in a sexless marriage . Well tell you why thats not always a bad thing. And what you can do if youre not happy in that situation. Its called divorce. [ laughter ] i had a hoda weekend and i dont know how you do it. We havent stopped since last thursday. We did a couple of shows and then we went to a Beautiful Organization thats new called eagles wing led by a wonderful man named Bishop Robert stern and it held its annual jerusalem banquet. They gave me a beautiful award. But its not about that. Its what they do. They work for peace among arabs, christians, jews, muslims. Everybody with the common goal of finding peace and what we have in common. Sweet. Then hoda and i the next night went to the Celebrity Forum in Middlesex Community college in lowell, massachusetts. By the way we had a ball. We loved it. The people there were so many people and we took pictures with everybody and then we sat down and just totally unscripted, they had my stuff so it could have gone on forever for me. But you by the way are now stand up comedienne material. Hoda was on fire. Thanks for coming up to see us. Well, we came up. How about the people were wild . I didnt know there were that many wild people in lowell, massachusetts. We met every one of them. Then i was recovered from that and then i was honored to be the on rare grand marshal up the celebrate israel praarade. Thats the General Council for israel t parade and hes a beautiful man. Then i went off to chelsea piers last night and they gave me another award i dont do serve. This is jerusalem, by the way, its called the builder of israel award and i lost my crying about it. You know, when you get awards you dont deserve, its one thing, but when you get an award for doing what comes so naturally to you, it seems so much more than you could possibly ever deserve because i love doing the work i do. It was beautiful. And telling people about the land and all the people that live in the holy land and how much god loves them. Thats what i was doing last night while you were celebrating the third anniversary. I was in princeton on thursday night. Great people that the cancer survivors event in new jersey. People from the Princeton Health care system, so many awesome. So many people do so much good without the world knowing what theyre doing. Im sitting in the audience listening to these speakers and im thinking why dont people know about what these guys are doing . Well, youre telling them. And joel and i had our three year anniversary. It seems like yesterday. Joel cooked the steak and scallops and we had everything on the grill and we had cocktails. You made that. Tell us what was in them. I took mint and lotzs and lots and lots of lime. I muddled it, muddled it, muddled it. Then i put vodka then i took diet ginger ale and a little bit of sugar because you have to sweeten it and they were delicious cocktails. We had such a great congratulations. I cant believe its three years. And you know what he got me for my anniversary present . Fishing poles. How fun i kept saying i want to go fishing across the pier. So we got the thing with the real and blake was loving it . Blake was there. What did you get him . I got him a card and all my love. [ laughter ] hes come to not expect much, hasnt he . No. Theres news that came at the end of last week about muhammad alis passing. Hed had parkinsons for more than 30 years. 32 years. People who who knew him best said they knew the end was near a a lot of people there were so many people who when you think about muhammad ali, you think about the people he touched. Matt lauer always called muhammad ali his hero. Its interesting you immediately wonder how are they doing, outside of muhammad alis family. There will be a public phfunera on friday. In louisville. And matt will be there and president clinton. And billy crystal. They were dear friends. Huge loss. And way too young. And after suffering half of his life was spent suffering. It sure was. The french open was also a big surprise. Serena got beaten, which is such a bummer. I was so busy all weekend i saw nothing of it. Was it the semifinals . No, the finals. And then Novak Djokovic clench add career grand slam. Andy murray started coming back, there was a point where you thought he might come back but in the end it was djokovic. He laid down, he made a heart with his racket. Hes so great with the crowd. He brings out all the ball boy and ball girls. Thats so gracious. He has them wave to the crowd so they know what it feels like. Does he do that every match . I havent seen him do it at every match but at the end of this one he brought out all the ball girls and said look at the audience. It was a tender moment. Hes the first mens player since rod laver to win the grand slam. Miss usa happened last night. We have a brand new miss usa. Her name is deshauna barber. She was crowned last night. A 26yearold from washington, d. C. And steve harvey said nobody say district of columbia. Avoid the word columbia. [ laughter ] she happens to be an army officer and an it analyst for the department of commerce. She joined the military at 17 and shes a logistic commander for the quartermaster detachment unit in ford meade. Her parents and siblings serve and they said pachl runs in our family. And amanda was watching and said thats what she was pulling for. And she goes on to Miss Universe with our blessings and love. So matt damon gave the commencement speech at m. I. T. And you always wonder what hes going do at that kind of thing. He decided to reveal how he came up with the idea for the mood view good will hunting which is a great movie and ben afflecks name came up. Take a look. First, youre going to fail sometimes and thats a good thing. For all the amazing successes ive been lucky to share, few things have shaped me more than the auditions that ben and i used to go on as young actors where wed get on a bus, show up in new york, wait our turn, cry our hearts out for a scene and then be told okay, thanks. Meaning, game over. We used to call it being okay thanksed. But as the great philosopher Benjamin Affleck once said [ laughter ] judge me by how good my good ideas are not how bad my bad ideas are. You have to get ready to sound like a total fool. Not having an answer isnt embarrassing, its an opportunity. Dont be afraid to ask questions. And they won their very first oscars for that movie. That was crazy. Good for them. And this weekend they both won the guys of the decade award at the 10th annual spike tv guides choice award. Nice. [ laughter ] we have a shoutout. The star of odd mom out on bravo will be here. And wed like viewers to tell us when they fell like the odd mom out. If you havent seen the show, you have to see it. Its funny and ridiculous. We have a pos tse in the bac we have my friend andy medina and one of his best friends from colorado boyhood. And the two lovely ladies on the end are our auction winners. We have a big day. We want to thank everybody. 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No, you know, it seems like they were really going to go the distance. They talked about marriage in the past. I thought they were engaged. Yeah. Theyve been on and off for so many years so im not sure what happened there. But demi was spotted out saturday night at a ufc event looking happy. Sometimes they break up before the statement comes out to have time. Maybe shes just over it now. Who knows . Maybe they both are. Who knows . We wish them the best. Taylor swift did surprise action at someones wedding. I love this story, its so darling. Taylor swift crashed a new jersey couples wedding. The story behind it is quite lovely. The grooms sister, her name is ali, reached out to taylor swift a few months ago. Their mother had died and he was a big fan so the sister worked it out that taylor could come perform at his wedding. So she just is that her playing on the piano . Was she in the neighborhood . Yeah. Wow she just came for the wedding. She has time now that her and Calvin Harris arent dating anymore, i guess. This is really sweet. And just the fact that someone reached out and they were able to ultimately get to taylor swift. As a normal person, how would you find taylor swift . Thats impressive . Facebook. Twitter, yeah. All those social medias. You can do it. Richard simmons, weve been hearing some things that seemed scary. Whats the latest . Tmz reported he had been admitted to the hospital for bizarre conduct. He was released saturday and he released a statement that said he was dehydrated. So part of the statement was basically said drink plenty of liquids, its summer. So it sounds like hes recuperating. It says thanks to everyone who has reached out with love and concern after hearing i was in the hospital. I was dehydrated, needed fluids and now im feeling great. Summer is here, drink plenty of liquids. The first day in israel i got dehydrated, i was in the hospital for 11 hours. Its scary. We send our love to richard. You dont realize how much you actually drink water. Has he been photographed outside of his home . Have people seen him . At the beginning of the year there was concern he was missing but he did call into i think a show and say he was fine so its been a bit of a bizarre year for him but hopefully hes on the upswing now. Finally a weird story on twitter, jack black. I was looking and he was trending at one point and i said oh, my gosh, you hate when people are trending. But someone tweeted that he had passed away. So his bands twitterer account tenaciousd was attacked and they posted something about how the 46yearold had died but then they quickly got control of their account again and posted that hes alive and well and i think they were actually a few musicrelated twitter accounts that got hacked over the weekend, bonn iver and Keith Richards as well. And mark zuckerberg. Not a great weekend for twitter. Yeah, change your password. Exactly. 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Today Pocono Raceway will take another crack at running the nascar sprint cup race. Rain and fog postponed the event yesterday. The race starts at noon. Im vai sikahema. Well have a full hour of news coming up at the top of the hour. You can always get the latest news and weather with the nbc 10 news app. Have a great day. Its funday monday and if you overindulged a little bit this weekend and your clothes arent fitting just right, well help you out. Youll look thinner by dinner. Here are fashion tricks that will help you looking long and lean is style expert jenai milan lucic yanni, shes the coauthor of get it a beauty, style and wellness guide for getting your it together. You guys are on the cover. Is this a real thing . If you if i can exact right outfit you can look thinner . Its just about little tricks and modifications you can make to something that you might like to give a slimmer appearance instantly. So printss are a thing and you would automatically think smaller prints would be better, i would imagine, than bigger . Well, loving printing this season but sometimes a large print, as you can see on jen, is really just really doing nothing for her shape. So we want to get her a print like a knew knew. Right. So flowy tops are so in but by choosing this print thats more a vertical print going downwards, its much more flattering. Obviously leggings are an allseason stayable. These are from yummy. I love them because they have built in shaping and all over compression so theyre instantly slimming her. Can we show a side by side for a second . And showing that little skin at the ankle, too, helps create a thinner appearance. And then i gave her some wedges because as we know we love wedges, they give us a little boost. These are from crocs, superaffordable for under 60 bucks, a hint of print and giving her that boost making her look thinner. Thats great. Thanks, jen. So lets talk about accessorizing. Sometimes you think and we have kianna. And thats her before picture. Shes got no jewelry on there. Well, sometimes, believe it or not bigger is better and you can change your shape, give the illusion of thinness with the right accessories. This great dress, she looks super hot in but i added this printed bag from reed thats emphasizing and drawing attention to the narrow part of her body and just by giving her earrings, even drawing the eye up really just helps her outfit pop and make her look thinner. The side by side, kianna, nice. You know she likes it. Shes working it. Swimsuit season is upon us. Yes, yes. And that makes most of us cringe. A lot of women feel comfortable in a tank keenny or one piece because of modesty but maybe its not necessarily doing something for their shape. This is jennifer. I love cutouts as a visual fashion trick. This is from yandi. Com. Its under 35 and its really flattering her figure with the cutouts, the color blocking. Its whittling her waist, drawing the eye inward. Shes so skinny. And i gave her another boost on the bottom. These from r from vionic designed to correct your posture. So we have to have flipflops on the beach but we dont want to look so flat. Really cute. That is awesome. Is there another we have another jen. Tell us about her before picture. Rompers are, like, a major trend this year this is Jennifer Lopez for kohls. Shes very athletic. Its nipping her at the waist. What did you do . I wanted to make her legs look longer. Nude heels and you can choose a pointy toe version, a peep toe. It doesnt have to be exact to your skin tone but just a more kind of nude appearance but shes still got the sandal type look. And i love the pulled back hair. Its sleeker. Its all about accentuating your assets and highlighting those thinner parts of your figure. Those were awesome. Thank you, ladies. 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[ cheers and applause ] his fans know him best from his nine seasons on the mitt medical comedy scrubs where he played zach braffs best friend, the hilarious dr. Christopher turk. Now hes the host of the Game Show Networks newest series called winsanity where contestants compete to organize fun facts in numerical order. So donald, were going to play were going to totally play. How do we play . Im going to give you well start off round one with three numerical facts, place them in order from low toast highest. Well start right now. Okay, wait, the average thats 500 the average number of calories in a bottom of chardonnay. That will be the lowest. And wedding is highest. Wait yes. Dont you think . Pizza slices is highest . No, no, hoda, no look, i want this to go to the next round, im going to bring this down here and im going go thank you. Think it through. Lets look at it. The average number of calories in a bottle of saturday nay is 600. Not mine, not mine. The number of pizza slices the average american eats in a lifetime is 6,000. Oh, is that all . Now the number of weddings each year in the u. S. . Maybe 40,000. Id say two million. Holy cow. A lot of people getting married [ cheers and applause ] now what . So now im going to give you two more facts. And you have to place them well get our audience to help them. You have to place them within the facts youve already stacked. Ill the this here. Hold on, let our audience help. The number of National Parks in the United States. Lower do you think its lower than the average number of calories . Yes. Ill move this up like this. Are you sure . Move it its lowest, hoda. So the number of lights on the 2015 Rockefeller Center number two move it up. Boom and boom. Are we right . Lets find out right now. So you said the number of National Parks in the United States was less than the average number of calories in a bottle of chardonnay. Do it, Donald Faison. Well find out right now. 58. Its 58. You guys were right. So the number of lights on the 2015 Rockefeller Center christmas tree. What did you think it was . I think i remember it was 13,000. 17,000 l. E. D. S. Gotcha, here we go. Boom. You dont have to be you just have to be in the ballpark. Wait, theres . Heres the final one. Lets put it up here. The number of times the average person blinks in a day. Thats hard. I think it goes i think its in between here. What does the audience say . They say between lights and pizza. I say between pizza and chardonnay. Well, youre playing the game, theyre just here to help you out so if thats where you want to put it kat wants it here. I say 30,000 times a day. Audience, do you agree . No . Yes . That doesnt really help. Reveal it. What do we have . Boom. [ applause ] very good. You blink 8,000 times . Thats the facts correctly and for that, you get two w balloons. You guys are winners winsanity every thursday night starting june 9 on game show network. Oh, there we go. 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I actually think its a matter of perceptions but because you know were all busy and, you know, you can still be attracted to your partner, you can still be interested in your partner and still very much in love. But not necessarily having sex. On the other hand, you could be lying next to somebody and feel a million miles apart and feel very desperate. So to me thats when its sexless. Its age as well. Well, it could be a stageoflife issue but theres a difference between not having a lot of physical explicit sex acts versus a lot of other intimate touching, sensuality going on in a relationship. What do you do when one member of the couple wants to have more sex and the other is just done with it . What do you do in that situation . The first issue is really that we dont talk about it. We think were mind readers. So we wait until a problem has festered for a really long time before we discuss it and then its an explosion. I think in this culture we have this idea that desire should be spontaneous and sex should always just happen. Should be natural. And i think that thats very much of a hollywood pressure. I think often if you take the time to be with your partner, to connect, to put your body through the motions to get aroused, arousal, we talk about this in the article, really comes before desire. We think of desire as the beginning of sex, its actually sometimes a little more like the early middlesex. What does that mean . [ laughter ] so its the pregame . Very important. Putting your body through the motions and letting your mind follow. Putting yourself in an environment where it could happen. A very sexy context. And pregaming is important no matter what. We have to turn on our minds as well as our body and if we feel disconnected in all other aspects of our life with our partners, the sex piece will be challenging. I think you also mentioned its something about dont be combative, you wont get what you want that way. Say Something Like you look so cute to me right now instead of we havent had sex in six weeks. I always say we frame the problem as a sexy solution. Tell your partner, instead of saying we never had sex say i had this sexy daydream about you, i dont know where my unconscious is going. You fill in the blanks because the language of sex is arousing and sexy. How do you know if its a dry spell like, wow were just out of sync or whether you have a real issue . I think sometimes you have to look at your partnership and think about do i really like the person who im laying next to . Because thats obviously a much bigger issue but there are times you just feel disconnected like two ships passing in the night and you cant get on the same page versus i dont feel something between someone anymore. Is there a difference between having sex and making love . Well, i think you can just go through the motions and get caught in a routine. I think theres a certain ben pitt to that but i think there is sex that is new or novel or emotionally connecting. Did he say yes . [ laughter ] yes, i did. Well, there are all different kinds of sex and they serve a purpose and at some point in our partnership, relationship, ideally you experience all those types. Youre right. Okay then. Thank you both very, very much. We appreciate it. Youll want to hang around for what, hoda . Our favorite things are coming up. But first, this is today on nbc. You wanna see something intense . New pantene expert gives you the most beautiful hair ever, with our strongest prov formula ever. Strong is beautiful. Summer done rite. Beaches, parks, and roller coasters. Unless, you never get there so save time by shopping for everything you need at rite aid. Like tide, pantene, bounty and crest. Save big at your local rite aid today and save more time for sunshine. 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Its one, two, three, five. Ilia, its one, two, three, four. No, mommy. Thats one, two, three, five im not going to keep going back and forth with you, its one, two, three, four, five. Five. Yes how precious is she . Oh, my gosh i agree with her. Theres no four. Tomorrow find out why the guys from flipping boston will have you floored . And nbc 10 news starts now. Right now at 11 00, someone shot a local teen early this morning, and the victim had to take matters into his own hands when it came to getting medical help. Good morning, im vai sikahema. At this hour, Philadelphia Police are searching for the man who shot and pam osbourne is live. Youve been reaching out to the police. What are they saying . Reporter vai, right now were still waiting on an update from police, but i can tell you that northwest detectives spent the morning interviewing the three people who were inside of the car with the victim at the time that he was shot, and right now police are working to identify those two suspected