Today with Kathie Lee Gifford and hoda kotb live from studio 1 a in rockefeller plaza. Hi everybody. Hoda woman are we live . We forgot what it is like. We have forgotten. Did you know it hasnt changed . Its booze day tuesday. Can you believe we are saying september 2 . No. You know who is glad we are back . Sheila, marie, debbie, belinda, joan and mary. And dont forget julie. They have been tweeting us letting us know how they felt. In no uncertain terms. Kelly is a facebook fan and sent us this picture and said my husband brought me coffee in bed and turned on kathie lee and hoda. He knows the way to my heart. Can you just imagine . You know what, nothing has changed. So hoda had a great time. You look radiant and beautiful. You jr, too. Hoda actually does. Here is a picture of hoda on vacation. Went to this really great place in mexico with boots we will call him still. He did not wear boots on the beach, i hope. This is one of those places you cannot talk about it because its that gorgeous. It is a place called the rosewood. You land in cancun and go on a 30 minute ride and you are there. They take Customer Service to the max. You are laying on the beach and someone shows up with a bucket of ice and water. And then 30 minutes later when it starts melting they change the ice. I was literally looking at the guy and they kept changing it back and forth. Beverages go in the ice. Yes. And then they take them out and replace it with fresh ice. Without asking. Tell us about the glasses. Nothing costs a nickel but you are on a plan of some sort. They come up to you, see your sunglasses and they take them off and they take like a windex while you are on the beach. They are cleaning and putting them off. My friend and i kept looking at each other going whats going on. We were so excited. How about the drinks . They make the best drinks. There is this tequila drink. You sip tequila which is so thrilling. You sip it. Usually she just downs it like shots. They have like a bloody mary mix but so much better. You take a sip of tequila and and a sip of sangrita and te kill la this went on for days apparently. Days and days and days. I heard the scream. I was just north of you in texas. I thought i heard you screaming. A girl walked up to me on the beach, by the way, she said you will not believe this. She said my husband gave me two choices of a vacation, either we go there to this place in mexico or the today show and see you guys in new york and she said i chose this beach place and i cant believe you are here. Where is kathie lee . She got both things. She got everything she wanted in life. And then to wrap up the vacation we came back i did a sneak attack, i came with my dog. And boots. We are hiding. Oh, my gosh. Thats so nice. They love their auntie. It was so much fun. That was a bow on the vacation. Well, i was the week before you. I cant say what i was doing because i was there with my stuff, signing it. And then a couple of places i was with my stuff. Thank you everybody who came by to get your signed stuff and see the stuff and drink the stuff. Then i went from there to a place where i cant talk about what i went for and i cant talk about the person who was doing what i went for that i cant talk about. Arent you sick of being muzzled . This is so unlike you. It just takes a minute to get warmed up. Everybody is talking to ricky things will be revealed later and be big and exciting things. Nobody wants to talk to me because everybody is talking to ricky gervais. Rickey didnt win the emmy. He will down the road. You guys saw that a lot of these stars naked pictures were leaked, not his [ laughter ] have you guys when i take a picture on my phone, click, then i go home to my computer, the picture, hocuspocus is on my computer. And then i look on my ipad and hocuspocus there it is, too, because it is on the cloud. Nobody understands this cloud. I know. I think thats where everybodys emails that are missing are on the cloud someplace. These naked pictures, as you guys heard, jennifer lawrence, kate upton, some of their naked pictures were apparently taken off somewhere and sent out to everybody. So the fbi and apple are investigating. Rickey has to chime in. He got in a little bit of trouble for comments he made on twitter about the tweets. Celebrities make it harder for hackers to get nude pictures of you from your computer by not putting nude pictures of yourself on your computer. People got mad. He later deleted the tweet called it a joke and sparked a huge backlash, i dont know why, saying the comments saying it blames the victim. Saying we shouldnt put our credit card online because if someone takes our credit card online, its our fault for putting it online. Everybody thinks they are so cool to take naked pictures of themselves. There was a time when you had to take your film and give it over to somebody, to a drugstore. Nobody would take the naked pictures. That is why god invented a polaroid. Thats what other people, i wont say who, used to do. People would take the polaroids. And then shake it. And watch the nude pictures come. It is so much more fun. I suggest that they, if they if they are hell bent on taking naked pictures of themselves and sharing them, go back to the polaroids because then you can either stick them in a drawer somewhere or burn them tear them up. Or put them in a scrapbook. Those polaroid pictures and the cameras are coming back. This is why, im convinced. After ricky got totally pounded with the tweet he responded with a tweet with him with a picture in the tub saying anyone who retweets this erotic photo of me should be ashamed of themselves. If you love him like we do, the man doesnt have a mean bone in his body. He wasnt trying to blame the victim. He is stating the truth. If you have never taken them they are not going to show up. Sometimes people take pictures of you like erin andrews situation, then thats very different. We are sorry that anybodys privacy was invaded. I felt we were going to talk about brad and angelinas wedding, but i was told we are talking about beyonce and jayz instead. You know how everybody hears rumors. When are they getting married . These two pulled it off. Pulled it off. Im so happy that they did. The pictures are awesome, by the way. This is her wedding gown, a versace. When she turns around you will see in other pictures that her kids had a hand in decorating her veil. And the back of the dress, too . I havent seen. I think it is just the veil. They stitched in doodles that the kids made. The older boys walked her down the aisle. One of them baked the cake. There were only 20 something people there. They pulled it off and i think it is a lovely thing that they did. They have that special, special time. No one is talking about whether they sold the pictures to people. And hello. They usually make some announceme announcement. They are usually very generous and give the money to charity. Very, very happy to see them. We want to give our love to joan. Joan rivers whom we adore and everybody is praying for her. She is tough. We heard news that we cant confirm but e is basically saying she is doing better and getting stronger. We hope that that is absolutely true. We also want to send our love to Carrie Underwood who announced she is pregnant with her first baby. That is called life, hoda woman. Im happy to see you. Im glad you are still so happy. I am. You are starting to get people like, ugh, she is so happy. Gagging. Do you want to know what your man likes in bed . What is this . He likes my polaroids. We are going to open up a little more. Our guys tell all. Brad and angelina werent the only celebrities getting married. Totally got overshadowed. Guess who got married . I was supposed to cover people once. Brad and jennifer aniston. We are back with todays buzz. You cant be there for your kids 24 7. Thats why lysol has partnered with over two million teachers to educate kids with Healthy Habits programs. Like how to fight germs. So you can worry less, lysol will take the school shift. Thats healthing. Celebrate back to school with Healthy Habits week. So factors like diet can negatively impact good bacteria . Even if youre healthy and active. Phillips Digestive Health support is a duoprobiotic that helps supplement good bacteria found in two parts of your digestive tract. Im doubly impressed phillips Digestive Health. A daily probiotic. When he first joined the army, i was very nervous. We didnt know what they would have him doing. But, bobby always had a plan. 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They had their phones removed from them which lets us believe we will see the pictures somewhere exclusive. There were camera crews there so there might be a tv wedding in the making. Of course. Why keep something private and special . That is so yesterday. Brother mark was missing. There are rumors that he does not get along well with jenny. His people say that is not true. He did put out an Instagram Video wishing them a happy wedding. I think was a little odd. Maybe he couldnt be there. Hes working constantly. He said it was his daughters birthday party. That might trump it. There you have it. Another wedding. This is a much, much fancier wedding. It is just outside of miami and believed to have cost over 5 million. He proposed to her. Actually really adorable. He did it with his two sons from a previous marriage and the proposal was will you marry us. She was very aware she was marrying into the entire family. I always fall for that stuff. She was wearing an 8. 5 carat engagement ring. She gets to keep it. Not like on the red carpet. They said i do finally this weekend. And evan ross and ashley simpson. Another one. Up in connecticut. Diana ross has a beautiful estate. They got married at diana rosss home. She sang after they got married. She did . I didnt see helicopters or anything buzzing around. It had sort of fallen off the radar a little bit. Ashlee hasnt made a record in a while. Certainly this weekend everybody was talking about Jennifer Mccarthy and brad and angelina. Lets talk about beyonce and jayz. A photograph of them in l. A. Together at a Music Festival hugging and kissing. What i love about this. At the vmas, looking beautiful at the vmas everybody thought that moment was staged. They clearly knew camera crews were there, so all the rumors about their wedding, their marriage being in trouble people thought they might have staged the vmas. That picture is not staged. It is a genuine moment. People are saying they staged the thing in the elevator. Do they need to stage anything to get people to buy tickets to see them . Absolutely not. People are desperate like hoda and i are need to do that but they are not on the desperate stage. Lets talk about down tound abbe abbey. They put out a trailer. I feel a shaking of the ground i stand on. Look at that. Love it is the queen coming in or something . Certainly that is a big moment. Wow. Let me tell you a little bit about this trailer. It started on british tv at the end of september so they are going to see all of this before we do. It is going to sneak out. It is meant to be fantastic. It is 1924, lots of changes. I really do want to catch up. Thank you. Dont worry, your hair will grow back. You look very cute. One cookie for your kid and one for yourself. Which ones to beat and which ones to eat. And want to know how your man thinks . These sexy studs give you insight. That is just wrong. 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A morning kind of show. Morning . Next up, comedian and actor, rick younger. Who is a real escorted person. Followed by comedian. Knight. Last but certainly not least and so sad, the divorced and single bob guinea still with guinea and grimes. Always. Go across the street for questions. Im debbie from new jersey. I was wondering if you could be a woman for the day how would you spend it . I would never leave the house. Family show. What is the answer . I would probably stay home and explore my womanhood. I would be so fascinated to get some answers from the inside out. I would do the primping that women can do. The first day would be totally staying home and just enjoying being a woman. Chuck . Im speechless. No. I know what i would do. I would find me a billion aaire and get married that day. Single guy, what would you do . If you are a woman i would take that opportunity to read all of the romance novels and see the movies, the guilty pleasures. You cant do it as a guy. You can watch the notebook. I would go to ladies night. And get drunk. I hope that answered her question. Next question is, are guys just more quiet in bed . This is from tiffany. I have only been with my husband. But he is so quiet. I have been with him for 17 years. I dont know what he likes. How can i get him to talk to me in bed. We discussed things like this before. I dont think any woman wants to hear what a guy is really going to say in bed. I would be thinking about im so hungry, i cant wait for this to get over, i want a banana split. I think however you introduce the sex kind of stays with you. Maybe that guy was first introduced to sex in a way where he had to sneak it and be quiet and that is why he is quiet. Deeply rooted. Normally what i have to say is i have a cramp. Well be back. We are learning so much today. This is sad. We are back with today on this booze day tuesday. We have the single star of satisfaction, blair, and of course our favorite married once but single now so sad bob guinea. Lets go across the street to the nbc experience store. I am joyce from florida. I would like to know why do guys always leave the toilet seat up . We like the blue mark it makes around your butt when you fall in. Easy for the next time we go. Why do the women leave the toilet seat down . That is a lot of work. You go a lot more times in the day. I just been peeing sitting down. That way everybody is happier. It is easier. It is so easy. Dark, you sit down, ugh. Do you do that . No way. You just sit down like this is nice. What is going on with you today . Why do we pee standing up . Why . Because we can. Now that i know that i can, all these years of doing it, im like, yall, this is so nice. Here is a question from barbara from new jersey. That was weird. He is on a roll today. Im telling you. My husband is better with our kids than i am. It worries me that he doesnt respect me as a mom. Do i really need to worry . You do if you are having that feeling there is cause for concern. If you feel he doesnt respect you as a mother then something is wrong there. You need to have an open, honest conversation like how do you really think of me as a mom. Maybe have a counselor present. Maybe have somebody there to help you mediate because that is going to blow up. Believe me. You have a lot more men who are active as fathers. What happens is each parent is trying to tell the other how to do the thing the way that they do it. I think parents need to accept that, hey, as a father, this is how i do it. If my wife does it differently that is how she does it. Also, you have to have my wife and i do have different coparenting styles. We coparent. That means that we have to get together and talk about what our strategy is. And be consistent. I heard my kids say, you know what, i dont think they are on the same page here. Weve got an opening right here. Lets drive that wedge like kids will use that against you. I think it is important as parents to let the kids know that this is the source that you are on the same team. That is why i like to smooch up my wife in my sons presence and let him know this is my lady. To the woman that asked the question, i think her husband should be there and if she feels that he is that good of a parent and she is not meeting the parents he should be there to talk with her about it and incorporate her in whatever he thinks she is excelling at. These problems are deeper than they need to have an open, honest conversation. It might help to have a professional help. Jillion griffith asks this. My boyfriend of three years and i are a very jokey couple. We have tons of fun with each other and are goofing around. There are times when i would like to turned off. It is hard to feel sexy with an air of humor constantly around. How do i get him to understand i have times i want to feel more than just the funny girl. Thats a tough one. I love humor in a relationship. To me, its my lifeblood. All the time . Not all the time. There has to be a moment where you turn to someone and tell them how you feel for a hot second. I think that is important. The buck naked slow walk through is more serious than the the run through is more serious. You are getting older. You can sitting down and instead of running you are walking. Im going to go sit down and pee. Banana split. Thank you. Come back and see us. The young violinest is so good we literally plucked him off a new york city street to play for us. Guess what we are playing. Beat it or eat it. You will be thinking twice. Wild woman. You think you know a woman. You cant be there for your kids 24 7. Thats why lysol has partnered with over two million teachers to educate kids with Healthy Habits programs. Like how to fight germs. So you can worry less, lysol will take the school shift. Thats healthing. Celebrate back to school with Healthy Habits week. Beroccaaaaaaaaaaaa [popping fizzing sounds] support both mental sharpness and physical energy with berocca. Proud sponsor of mind and body. So factors like diet can negatively impact good bacteria . Even if youre healthy and active. Phillips Digestive Health support is a duoprobiotic that helps supplement good bacteria found in two parts of your digestive tract. Im doubly impressed phillips Digestive Health. A daily probiotic. Beat it. It is time to play a fun game we like to call beat it or eat it. September is child obesity awareness month. It got us thinking of all the goodies we give our kids we are guilty of mumblinging all day. Nbc news health and diet editor is here with the skinny on snacking. Today we all like to snack. We want to make better choices. Nothing is off limits. Lets start with something that must be beaten because it has much more fat, about the same calories. Is it four Little Cheese pizza bites or four Chicken Nuggets . Which one has more fat . This is what i want to hit. This is what i want to hit. Too pretty. Kathie lee is wrong. Is right. You want to beat the Chicken Nuggets. I actually want to eat them. Two thirds less fat in the little bites. There is very Little Cheese in thi this. Lets move on to something that is salty. Which one must you beat because it has more calories . Is it three cups of light popcorn or a serving of baked Tortilla Chips with salsa. Hoda would be right. You can eat this. Always stick with light popcorn. Or air pop popcorn. Even though baked chips is almost the same calories as regular chips. You might as well have some. Baked chips have more calories. 125 or 75. Lets turn to something when you are looking for cookies to go with a glass of low fat milk which one do you beat because it has more calories and sugar . Is it the chocolate sandwich cookies or honey grams. You both are right. You want to beat the chocolate sandwich cookies. One more teaspoon than this. Dont be fooled when it says honey grahams. Which must be beaten because it has more sugar . Fat free strawberry bar or organic nonfat yogurt. I hate to do it. You go. You would both be wrong. The strawberry fruit bar. It has actually a teaspoon less sugar. Both have modest sugar and would be an okay choice. If you are trying to trade the sugar stick with the low fat chocolate bar. We will look at sandwich snacks. Which one must you beat because it has less protein . Less protein. Is it a Peanut Butter and banana sandwich or turkey and reduced fat cheese sandwich . Less protein. Beat the one with less protein. I will go with the other one for fun. Beat with enthusiasm. There you go. Hoda would be right. They both have some protein. This has twice the protein. You love that. A good snack but looking for more protein stick with the turkey. On to something. Which one must you beat because it has less fiber . Beat the one with less fiber, the apple and Almond Butter or whole wheat pita chips and hummus. Which do you beat because it has less fiber . Kathie lee would be right. The wholewheat, you have a double duty fiber load. Last one. Also National Healthy breakfast month. What do you want to beat because it has more fat and calories . You cant beat that. Its already beaten up. Head hoda would be right. You can have some waffles and low fat syrup. For more on choosing healthy snacks go to klgandhoda. Com. Smart, shy, athletic, why labels can be bad for your kids. The 11yearold who tugs at your heartstrings right after this. Have you guys heard about probiotics . For Digestive Health . Yeah. And did you know trubiotics is a daily probiotic that helps in two ways . 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Everyone has has their label up. You were known as chatty. I was smart. I was hyper. I was energetic. Sometimes especially when parents are trying to distinguish among their children they will sometimes say this is billy. He loves football or she is so smart. It doesnt seem so harmful when they seem like positive labels. Where is the damage done there . Sometimes people, adults dont understand the weight of their words on children. Children can take a label like that and they can decide this is all i am. And they feel like they have to live they are defined by that and have to live up to that label. It limits them. If someone is defined as the athlete so your sister cant be athletic, too . Sometimes it places limitations on the child rather than letting them explore the possibilities. In my mothers family there were three sisters. Somebody described them as the smart one, funny one and pretty one and offended all three girls. You can be all three of those. Hoda. I will admit we called cassidy messy because you have never seen a messier child in your entire entire life. It was always affectionately. Have i done irreparable harm to my child . She turned out kind of sweet. I would not say you have done harm to your child. We see when labels are affixed they feel they need to live up to that label. She does. You want to give them room to change. If you call a child messy, maybe they feel like i am messy and they dont see the reason they need to look at doing something different. You do grow into it. I was messy and i am now totally and completely a mess. Even positive labels can have a burden. We know from research that when kids hear you did well because you are smart it can hurt their performance. It can make them less willing to take on challenges. It can make them more likely to lie. Why . Because they dont want to mess up the reputation for being smart. So what we want to emphasize is the process, things that are in the childs control like effort, strategy or perseverance. Kids are a lot of things. Kecalled we called her messy and she is our actress because that is what she always wanted to be. We want to give Children Room to grow. Thats the key thing. The miracle of children is we dont know how they will develop and change. Sometimes teachers say he is the class clown. If you are in school and you realize your teachers are labelling your child that can be an issue. If it is a positive label you want to thank your lucky stars and move on. But you do have the conversation with your child and and the fact that it is great your teacher called you smart. What mommy is proud of is the fact that you put so much effort into your school work and try so hard. If you get a negative label like class clown you pick up the phone and talk to the teacher because what you want to do is encourage the kind of behavior to change that label. We interviewed so many people through the years here who have been called class clown who became some of the greatest comedians in the world because they could not be contained. They were the class clown. You have to be careful. The key thing is we want to be our childrens biassed biographiers to tell stories about how they struggled and then try ummed triumphed. We dont want to label this young man but he is a fantastic violinist. Is this the only surprise . Stay tuned to find out. First this is today on nbc. There are all kinds of talented musicians out there. You may have run into this adorable 11 year old playing his violin right there on 5th avenue. His name is dylan. He has been playing since he was 3 years old. We wanted to bring him to the studio and get him out of the hot weather. Play a Little Something for us and all of you at home. Very nice to welcome you. How are you . Good. How are you . Great. You just set up there and play that violin . Yes. How do most people respond to you . A lot of them are surprised that i at such a young age and they are surprised that i play so well. Thats nice. Some of them think im cute. One person even i played for someone and they cried. Wow. Hes already got the chicks after him. You have a sign that says remember me, dylan im following in the foot steps of my idol, joshua bell. He played here when he was 14. There he is. You are going to play a Little Something for us. There he is playing. Wow. What are you going to play for us . I will play symphony espaniol. Please do. I was hoping you would play that one. Betting on you a little bit. Lets hear a little bit. Dylan you know who yes. We werent tricking you. No one was going to keep him from finishing. I was worried he wouldnt recognize me. That would have been embarra embarrassing. You sound so great. Im so glad that you invited me here because i have been looking for you. Everyone has been talking. I have had like five people tell me have you seen the kid with the sign. I have been looking for you. You keep moving around. Play with him, please. Asked me to come here and say hi. Do you want to play something together . I dont know too many. Bach. Of course he knows that. Who doesnt . Beaut, beaut unbelievable tomorrow big announcement. And have an awesome booze day tuesday at home. Can you please keep playing for us . Steve im here to help. You and i will get through this together. [cheers and applause]