[laughter] >> taking one for the team right now. >> this is unbelievable. >> chloe, you kind of sounde shocked. you are one of eight girls, is there a pressure on you an your sisters to date a certain way, or anything like that >> i kept my dating life s secret from my parents >> you didn't tell your parent who you are dating >> no, i was living in new yor for eight years. when i came home, i neve talked about it. i never dated in high school college i dated one or two vietnamese guys, but that' pretty much it when i moved back to open my business, i was just working i my 30s, and so my mom, when bring someone home, it will be fine >> can i say, it's funny because for my generation, i feel like the expectation wa that i would date and marry white guy. i grew up in arizona, and so that's pretty much all i was around my parents oddly did not see to care either way in, fact if anything, i thin