absurd >> and somehow, you know, it's that whole veil around women's fertility, what women ar experiencing monthly honestly, i know we say this but if men were experiencing periods we would have a week off. [laughs] they would all be synced up, w would have a week off ever month. it would be call menstruation, day or week. and we would be talking abou it so openly but because femininity has all of these veils, they'll, after veil, after veil we feel like we can talk about things like miscarriages >> there is an expectation tha we are, we go through life moving on. you know how we say all th time check on your stron friends? and we are all our stron friends. because of the fact there is this expectation that you ar supposed to just keep on moving why would you crumble? you are going to crumble because of that. it's happening to plenty o