it has definitely slowed dow the pace that they are able to match you. initially it was okay, 4 to months i have been waiting for seve months but honestly, the waiting ha allowed me to get to a place t recognize that everything ha its timing i know that i have done what i could and to position myself and my family to be able t grow, and i am at peace with allowing that process. thinking about my journe through womanhood, there wer times when i had no want t talk to and you learn so much, you didn't know about othe people, the minute you start t open up. sometimes you just have to tak the first step you shouldn't be alone in this and i think you feel less sham because you feel less alone. but there is such a communit in sharing >> it's okay to decide to do something different. >> yes >> and it's okay to stop and just reevaluate. because you are conditioned need to do these things.