and how she was feeling and i did ask questions to try to see if she had positive support of dating relationships. i know too well the manifestations of sexual assault trauma and the damage that it can do in the aftermath. i was trying to make sure she was working her way through it the best she could. i thought i had learned enough and had enough personal experience to help her but i was wrong. i have heard charlotte and her lawyer and understand what she's saying, but they read into comments i made and draw inferences that i never meant. they ascribe motives i never had. and simply put, they heard things that i just didn't say.