social media addiction, pornography, all of those things that very quietly happen but change the face of a country. >> and the increasing isolation of so many people, underlays that all. >> it reinforces that. you put sandy hook as number one. it is -- there are two memories etched in my head of being a white house correspondent. that day at the white house. >> i think sandy hook for me is by far the most important thing that happened this decade because it showed that -- i think that we were willing to accept as a people the deaths of children in schools. we were willing to prioritize our gun rights over protecting children in elementary schools. the fact that we're okay with this and that nothing changed after sandy hook said so much. and now when you see all of these kids who were so used to activ ive shooter training. that was a big deal. >> you know what strikes me