coming and sharing our grief and sharing our joy about the life of tommy blume raskin. hi. >> we're all here. >> so good to see you guys. how are you guys? how are you, guys? hi, beautiful. >> hi. >> i've lost my son. i've lost something so fundamental, so elemental in my life i am not sure at times that i even recognize the world. a little part of each of us died with him that day. in my case it was the belief that everything would have to be all right in the end. the beautiful and the true would