long gone, that said, and unofficial search for clues was just beginning. online message boards buzzed with theories from the far fetched, to the implausible. through it all, rebecca sister mary didn't buy the official finding of suicide. was she fragile, was she easily upset? was she the kind of person that would fall apart after a crisis? >> not at all, if she is very upset to where she doesn't want to deal with the situation or feel like she can't handle it, she will go work out until she can come up with a solution and then she will come back to deal with the situation. if she doesn't think she can, then she will move on. >> so when detectives said that voice mail, the one jonah sent to rebecca with the grim news about max may have caused rebecca to hang herself mary wasn't having it. >> i was not about to have my sister's name smeared and the world remember her as this