>> i told my children i wasn't going to be a bitter woman. and her wedding was a joyful time. it was peace and fun. i have the memory. >> and we actually had a very good time. it was a very joyful time. >> i >> i i can remember walking with him and then saying, "well, we ended up doing this together after all, didn't we?" >> reporter: hard to imagine? not really if you remember that frank and nancy always put family first. for a long time nancy refused to believe the worst about frank. as the months passed, she had a change of heart, though she kept hoping she was wrong.