I approached and said what would you think about denise and i coming in helping you guys . He said that would be great. They moved with in with us for six months, sold all their possessions, tried to save up money. We did not know any lithuanian at the time. We were studying it and trying our best but it was definitely a shock. They returned home after a year and soon welcomed a son, seth, and daughter, julia. In 2002, the family went back to lithuania, which became their second home on and off for the next eight years. That is a big undertaking. Right, i think it was very hard for denise to leave her Family And Everything she had known and to go over to a strange country with a toddler and the baby. It was a traumatic experience for her, i think. This is because really nathan wanted to do it . Right. She was supporting him. It was not really her calling. She was basically being a wife