he had folger jim, ranging in age from 4 to 12 to look after. >> how did tell the children? >> that was -- i think, to this day, that is the most difficult thing that i've ever had to do. i believe i called the schools, and let them know that i would be on my way. >> lindsey, the only girl was the eldest of the loveless kids. >> i remember being in school, i remember getting a call from the office that i was getting picked up. in my mind i thought, maybe my mom went to the hospital. it's fun. >> but, once inside the principles office, her father broke the news. >> he told me that my mom had died. i just remember from then on, my world crashing down. >> did you say, what's it happened, what's going on? >> i'm sure asked what happened. i just remember crying, and not