she was buried in her army dress uniform. and in order to do the open casket, they had to cover the throat. so they used her air defense artillery ascot to -- you know, it connects on the back and so that they would be able to do the open casket. ♪♪ >> lynn's mother asked me to go and buy a baby blanket. it was a little boy. and so i went and bought a little baby blanket. and so for the memorial when they laid lynn out in her uniform. the point was there that not just one person had died in this attack, that two had died. >> reporter: 4-year-old triston was there with his family and his mother's friends barely comprehending the tragic rupture in his life. do you remember how you felt towards him? >> i do. i felt sorrow.