more than 400 people who came to honor and remember dar. >> she was so full of life, and she he had a lot more to give. >> we can't bring her back. >> your wife's been killed and you've got a 10-year-old son. >> yeah. >> what did you tell him? >> i told him that someone had hurt mommy. and he goes, is she in heaven? and i said yes. >> it seemed that no one in coldwater could comprehend what had happened, including steve and joanie pierce, close friends of both tom and dar who learned of the murder from tom himself. >> i said, the three of you were always together, and he was crying, and he said, i know, i know. i should have been there for her. and then i said, if you would have been, the three of you would be dead now instead of just dar. >> but just 24 hours into the investigation, detective jim