by then, amanda and jon had found a little solace. here in long view, the community that didn't forget. >> we felt like that was her adopted family. >> which is why they decided not to take her remains back home to florida with them. she will stay here in long view with her name carved in stone. >> it's a funny thing, isn't? it that it would be important to have a stone up above the place you're lying down with your name on it. and yet, it is. >> it is, exactly, you never think about it. but it's important to have that. because you are never forgotten, and you know, your name is there. >> lavender doe no longer. eternally, dana lynn dodd. >> so that he was to go by her graveside and still put flowers, and things like that.