family. >> the techels were a church going family and seth's mom, lorraine, remembers the compassion shown on a relief mission to mississippi after hurricane katrina. >> he just stood and talked to these folks for hours and hours. they became very good friends. i have a lot of memories like that of seth. >> helping people. >> yeah. >> and lisa wanted to help people too. she followed her father into law enforcement first as a reserve deputy and then as a jailer in a neighboring county. >> i told her that she would have my blessings if she wasn't just an average cop. i wanted her to be a really great cop because i didn't want to have to worry about her inefficiencies maybe endangering her life. >> after years of hearing patrons at the bowling alley joke about when the two of them were going to get married, seth and lisa made the inevitable official. >> how did you find out they