long time at all. >> they got married within weeks of dating. >> she appeared to be happy, i didn't question that. she had married her pilot and so i thought her fairly tale is coming true. >> the air force sent todd to japan soon after the wedding. it was an exhilarating time for kathy. getting married, heading off to an exotic place. >> she was excited about moving to japan and she was going to be an english teacher. >> later after todd left the air force, she remembered how his friends were there for him as he tried to figure out what do next. >> she was supporting him in whatever different career he was going to choose. >> it was a difficult time for todd. >> we did spend thanksgiving with them one year and todd had put on a lot of weight. i know wasn't that working and he was depressed. >> but today always had a knack for making money and he figured it out, got into the booming wifi business.