later they looked at the tapes of cara recorded during that drive to the station. did she appear to be emotionally battered or anything? >> i mean if you watched the in-car camera, she's just kind of casually talking with him about being in the law enforcement community and knowing different people. >> yaz was on my husband's softball team. >> it was just kind of, you know, general conversation. she didn't seem so upset in that video. >> it was around 2:00 a.m. at police headquarters when cara revealed why j.j. was at her place that night even though he'd left her, moved out three weeks earlier. it was quite a story. remember, cara met a new man after the breakup with j.j., also a sheriff's deputy. his name was scott, scott holderba holderbaum. for a week or so you are seeing this guy. >> it was fun. i was giddy. i was like a school kid and nye teacher in the room next to me,