one of them is it pits communities of color against each other. but the other is, there's a tremendous psychological impact. that's what i wanted to explore in the book. that's what i began to explore and this as. that when we rise people to believe that they can only be exceptional, or if this image, they learn to suppress. this is what happened and my family. you learn to suppress and hot everything that doesn't fit with an image. and that has severe psychological and social impacts. and my family, it really affected our ability to create vulnerability and intimacy with