policies that better supported thriving families. and economic and familial community security. >> it's also so clarifying in terms of -- there's something about the advocacy and behalf of the unborn that it doesn't ask anything of you. when you don't have to do anything, you just have to make sure some other people have -- are banned from an abortion. but then we got this test where is we all have to do something here. all of us have to give a little. can't go on trips. can't get together during thanksgiving. kara reception at the white house, even though it's a happy day. that's the thing you have to give up. you have to go get a shot in the arm. and it is like, literally over our dead bodies. as soon as it required a thing. as it soon is it required you've gotta pay a little bit of something, forget it. >> i think one of the things is worth pointing out --