sometimes there's fraught, conflict and sometimes those jobs require conflict and you're a grownup and a certain amount of that is expected but what i read in that letter is there was something else happening. >> so you have to compartmentalize and we live in a highly pluralistic society. and we have to figure out to way to work together on occasion. and when i observe my colleagues across the aisle, many of whom i consider good friends i come to the conclusion they're incredible self-denial or in abject fear of what the president will do to them or he has a demonstrated record of viciously attacking people when