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More fuel to the fire. A new report casts doubt on what nfl commissioner Roger Goodell knew and when he knew it. Ray rices former team returns to the field. Palin family brawl. A reports of a house fight in alaska involving sarah palin and members of her family. What police are saying about the incident on friday, september 12, 2014. Announcer from nbc news, this is today. With matt lauer and savannah guthrie, live from studio 1a in rockefeller plaza. And good morning. Welcome to today. 7 00 out on the west coast. Im matt lauer along with al roker, Natalie Morales and we wrap up homecoming week the one and only Maria Shriver. Glad to be here. I know what its like to be homecoming queen. We talk about throwback thursdays. This is throwback friday for us. No, we want to go forward. Nothing back. We have known each other since i was 25. Thats right. A long time. Yes. I have stories. Were going forward. I didnt hear the younger man me line. Right to the top story, Oscar Pistorius convicted of culpable homicide. But avoiding the more serious charge of murder. Jeff rossen has covered this case from the beginning. He just spoke to Reeva Steenkamps parents. Jeff, good morning to you. Reporter hey matt, good morning to you on the west coast. More of our interview with the steenkamps, their first reaction since the verdict but first what happened with high drama in court this morning. The case stretching nearly two years, the trial six months long. All came down to this moment a short time ago. In a nutshell pistorius has been cleared of murder but guilty of a lesser crime, being negligent. A short time ago the judge extended his bail and actually let him walk out the front door. Mr. Pistorius, please stand up. The final verdict. Everyone holding their breath. The bottom line, did Oscar Pistorius intend to kill, did he murder his girlfriend, model Reeva Steenkamp . Heres the judge. The accused is found not guilty and is discharged. Instead he is found guilty of culpable homicide. Reporter it is a major victory for the defense and a massive blow to the prosecutor t judge virtually ripping the states case apart. Evidence led by the state in respect of this count was purely circumstantial. She believes Oscar Pistorius that he thought there was an intruder and the judge went further today, saying pistorius didnt act like a murderer. The conduct of the accused shortly after the incident is inconsistent with the conduct of someone who had intention to commit murder. He called 911, he called security, although he could not speak as he was crying. He prayed to god to save her life. Reporter after the verdict the judge allowing pistorius to walk out of court, his bail extended, the blade runner not saying a word as he pushed through a crush of cameras. Oscars uncle reacting to the verdict, not guilty of murder. On behalf of his family we would really like to show our deep grateful we are for the judge, that has found oscar not guilty of murder. Thats a big burden off our shoulders. Reporter sentencing set on october 13th, a few minutes ago im just back from an exclusive interview with reevas parents. The first reaction since the verdict. They say this is not justice for riva. I ask what had sentence they think would be for pistorius . I really dont care what happens to oscar. Not going to change anything because my daughter is never coming back. He is still living and breathing, you know. And shes gone. Forever. I just dont feel that this is the right sentence. You know. They believe his story and i dont believe that story. Thats the difference. What was going through your mind . There were so many mistakes made. It didnt add up. I think it was disbelief. On everyone. Yes. Following the case. All over the world. Wanting to know what happened. She died a horrible death. Horrible, painful, terrible death. And she suffered you know. And he shot through the door. And i cant believe that they believe that it was an accident. Reporter they told me they dont want revenge, they just want the truth. They feel like Oscar Pistorius is holding back, like they didnt get the truth in this trial which is all they wanted. They told me they want to meet with Oscar Pistorius in private to talk, matt, he reached out to them at some point. They werent ready. They are ready now. All right, jeff rossen, thank you very much. Lisa bloom is todays legal analyst. Good morning to you. No premeditated murder, instead culpable homicide. Are you surprised . Im a little bit. I think preimmediate tatd murder is tough and the judge had good reasoning 0 on rejecting the reasoning that he intentionally killed Reeva Steenkamp. The middle charge, murder, thats pretty controversial that she rejected that. There is a concept which i think were going to hear about. The judge said he didnt intend to kill her but under South African law if you intend to kill one and kill another under that theory thats murder. Even if that person is deemed a threat to your safety . But the judge didnt find that he felt that this alleged intruder intended to kill him and therefore shot in self defense. I listened closely, she didnt say that. I was going to ask you about grounds for appeal, the prosecution under South African law can appeal this. The defense can also appeal and say there shouldnt even have been a conviction on culpable homicide. In the u. S. The prosecution cant appeal. I think the defense is going to argue on appeal that a lot of their witnesses didnt want to testify because this is televised. The first case in south africa that was. The judge is known asing tough when it comes to sentencing. But theres a lot of leeway here. Anything from no time in jail as jeff explained, to 15 years. What do you think is going to happen . If were going to make predictions look at the fact she let him out on bail. I would say in almost every case in this decision when she had to choose between a conflict between the prosecution and the defense she went with the defense. She clearly leans toward the defense in this case. Im going to expect a low range in sentencing, if anything from zero to 15. I think on the low end. Lisa, thank you very much. Lets go over to maria. Now to a manhunt in ohio after three inmates escaped from prison. One of them a 19yearold serving a life sentence for killing three students in a school shooting. Kevin tibbles has the latest. Good morning. Reporter good morning, maria. The entire state of ohio is waking up with a collective sigh of relief this morning after a young killer who opened fire on his own classmates was recaptured after a daring prison break. I can now confirm that we have heard from officials involved in the search that t. J. Lane is now in custody. Reporter words of relief from the police in lima, ohio early this morning. As they announce that School Shooter t. J. Lane is in custody after escaping from prison thursday night. Lane was one of three inmates who escaped from the allen correctional institution. Police say the men who escapeden foot who were unarmed, but considered dangerous. The reason that he didnt get farther is because of the perimeter. This is an ongoing investigation. Well give more information as it comes about. 911. We got shots fired. Gun shots. Multiple gun shots. We need help badly. Reporter on february 27, 2012, lane opened fire in the Chardon High School cafeteria, unloading at least ten shots from a. 22 caliber handgun. Three students died in the shooting. Three others were injured. During the trial he was defiant wearing a tshirt with the word killer across his chest, smirking at families and making obscene gestures. He was sentenced to life in prison without parole. In the town of Chardon Police moved quickly to protect the victims families while School Officials canceled all friday classes. Want to thank the community, the outpouring of support. I know things will get better as they have before. Reporter even with lane behind bars its worth repeating the schools in chardon will remain closed today. Here in lima the official investigation as to how these three men got out of jail will get under way, the Authorities Say that t. J. Lane was picked up no more than 100 yards from the prison behind me here. Back to you. Kevin, thank you so much. Interesting. The Baltimore Ravens were back in action last night even as the scandal surrounding their former star ray rice deepened. Nbcs National Correspondent Peter Alexander has the latest on that. Nice to have you in new york. Good morning. Welcome to you as well. The ravens two games into the 2014 season. And think about this. If this latest video of rice punching his then fiancee was not released rice would be on the field next weekend. Instead he has been kicked out of the nfl indefinitely and the league is under tough new scrutiny. The ravens returning to action, most eyes are on whats happening off the field. The role of commissioner Roger Goodell. Espn reports that ray rice told goodell three months ago he punched his then fiancee in the face. A claim that contradicts goodells statement this week. When we met with ray rice and his representatives, it was ambiguous what actually happened. Reporter he said the latest video was inconsistent with what rice told him. A source with knowledge of the meeting tells espn rice made it clear he had hit her and he told goodell he was sorry and that it wouldnt happen again. The nfl Just Announced an independent investigation sphereheaded by former fbi director Robert Mueller and overseen by art rooney of the pittsburgh steelers, who stressed our sole motive here is to get the truth. The findings will be made public. Bottom line is there are two owner who is have franchises worth over 3 billion, together, i think its very important for them to make sure that whatever comes out is accurate, is transparent and rapid. Reporter outside the ravens stadium a surprising number of female fans wearing rice jerseys including one who blames the victim. She struck him first and any woman who can hit a man can be hit back. Reporter thursday nights broadcast had a different feel. Cbs sports in light of the rice scandal changed its pregame show. Dropping a comedic segment and its opening sequence street music by rihanna, herself a victim of Domestic Violence. The nfl is under for other cases, the panthers owner broke down publicly this week. My stance is not one of indifference. I stand firmly against Domestic Violence. Plain and simple. Reporter critics are furious that greg hardy is allowed to play despite being convicted of threatening his exgirlfriend in july. Hardy is appealing the conviction. So about this investigation, Roger Goodell promised full cooperation by the nfl and employees, investigators and workers at the casino where the video was made dont have to cooperate. As for goodells status earlier this week before the independent investigation was launched the giants owner, one of the guys overseeing the investigation released a statement saying the idea that goodells job is in jeopardy is, quote, misguided. A long way to go on this. Though questions remain about whether he can survive this situation. Actually weve got carson in the orange rooms were going to ask a blunt question. We are. Theres the survey. A lot of angles to this. Well be specific. Should Roger Goodell step down . Yes or no. Log on now. Well have results asap. Thank you very much. We were all talking about that sound bite. She deserves to be hit. Wow. Horrific. Complicated subject. By the way, coming up well talk to robin givens speaking out about her own experience with Domestic Violence and the wake of this scandal. Meantime, natalie has the latest on the president s vow to take down isis. Good morning. Secretary of state john kerry arrived in turkey overnight hoping to enlist its support in the escalating fight against isis. His Mission Comes as the cia reports that isis may have as many as 30 thou,000 fighters ina and iraq, times more than previous estimates. Thursday kerry said ten arab nations agreed to do more to stop the militant group. We should mention chuck todd will take a closer look at the strategy to destroy isis this sunday on meet the press. New details on the u. S. Governments controversial surveillance program, yahoo says the government threatened to fine the company 250,000 a day back in 2008 if it did not comply with demands to go along with the u. S. Surveillance laws. The outline says yahoo s unsuccessful court fight were released when a judge ordered the unsealing of some court documents. The company said it will continue to fight requests that it considers unlawful. And american doctor infected with ebola has been given blood from fellow doctor who has now recovered from the disease. Physicians treating dr. Rick sacra say he has responded well to aggressive treatment including two blood transfusions from dr. Kent brantly. His blood carries antibodies. Now to a story picking up a lot of steam on the internet about a Wild House Party and heated brawl reportedly involving the palin family. According to the Washington Post bloggers revealing details of the incident last saturday in anchorage and Police Confirm there was in fact a brawl then. Allegedly it all started when track palin spotted one of willows exboyfriends. No indication that any of the palins will face charges. Some breaking news in connecticut. Firefighters still trying to put out the hot spots after a fire at a connecticut factory. Large explosions were seen shooting out of a building in bridge port that house as Roofing Company and a perfume recycling company. Fishing areas in the Long Island Sound were shut down over environmental concerns. No serious injuries reported. Frightening moments in baseball thursday night as two players in two separate games got hit in the face by a pitch. Take a look. This is in milwaukee, miamis giancarlo stanton, hit in the face. The ball was said to be traveling about 88 file a8 mile hour. He suffered facial lacerations and fractures and dental damage. Here in new york, it was the yankees designated hitter Chase Headley who took one in the chin. He would walk off the field under his own power. President obama and the first lady surprised some kids in washington on thursday by showing up for a charity event. It wasnt the guest appearance, however, that one little girl was hoping for. Take a look. I really wanted it to be beyonce. I understand. Malia and sasha would feel same way. But then i realized it going to be here. Thats even better. I appreciate you saying that in front of the press. I know its not really true but thats okay. Id rather see beyonce. I think she makes up for it. Kids say the darnedest things. They were helping fill back packs for the needy. Shes honest but comes out in the end and makes up for it. Beyonce, president. They told me you were beyonce this morning. Mr. Rokers got a check of the weather. They told her i was jayz. You know, the mind boggles. I digress. Weve got amazing video to get your mind off of that. Look at this. This is in horn lake in mississippi. Just south of memphis. This car is sinking, there is a guy in it trying to get out. First responder is rushing out there as the car is sinking, he gets out, they reach him and pull him to safety. That is just amazing. Another reason why we tell you when it comes to deep water, turn around, dont drown. We look out west look at this. Sunday to monday if you are along the Southern California coast its going to be rough. Weve got heat advisories, excessive heat watches and heat warnings that will go into effect. Why . Look at these temperatures. In san diego, its going to be 95 on saturday. 13 degrees above normal. High pressure is going to building in with 104 temecula, palm springs 107. Sunday, los angeles, 97 degrees for a high. Thats 15 degrees above average. And monday, more of the same. Temperatures approaching over 100 degrees. Were going to get to your local forecast coming up in the next 30 seconds. When change is in the air you see things in a whole new way. Its in this spirit that ing u. S. Is becoming a new kind of company. One that helps you think differently about whats ahead, and whats possible when you get things organized. Ing u. S. Is now voya. Changing the way you think of retirement. Welcome back. 7 20 the time right now. Were looking at clear skies in the south bay, the east bay starting to clear out as well. Its going to be warmer than yesterday. Even San Francisco, you get to 81, our warm spot without a doubt is the trivalley up to 102. Well start to cool off for the upcoming weekend. Our next chance for rain next week, tuesday night into wednesday across the bay area. You get reaction to the orange room. On that note on the today survey should Roger Goodell step down, 60 yes, 40 no. Weve got a huge influx in the last couple minutes on that. Now you know the people who stand outside the apple storement we think they are crazy. That might be on to something. Lets go to the orange room. Last night pacific time midnight when you could preorder either the iphone 6 or the 6plus. People met trouble. You probably saw this screen. Well be back. Its fixed but last night it was trouble. Didnt matter where you were. There was this. Andrew didnt matter what kind of device, you met that same screen. They worked through it. Here is christopher. He bought his iphone 6 plus. He tweeted that out. If you wonder between the 6 and the 6 plus, how are they doing . 6 plus seems to be what everybody wants. Its largely unable here, and ive got matts credit card so im going to preorder mine now. Anybody want a 6 plus . Al . Maria . Youre in . You grabbed my Blockbuster Video card. Not going to help you. Well figure it out. Back to you guys. All right, carson. Coming up robin givens on the turmoil that victims of Domestic Violence face and why so many choose to stay quiet. Well talk to her exclusively. Something you may have noticed popping up in stores, is it really time to start shopping for christmas . No. No. Say it isnt so. First this is today on nbc. I gotta have that bag. Italian leather . 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You see the mobile command unit behind me, theyre taking pictures, preserving the area around that sidewalk on that block, that very much before burger king. Around 2 30 this morning, Police Officers found a woman in her 40s lying face down. She had apparently been beaten to death. Thats what they think right now, with blunt force trauma. Police do have two persons of interest in custody, as well as several witnesses they say are being very cooperative. But so far we dont know much else. They are waiting for the Coroners Office to come out and then the medical examiner will have to take a look at the victim and see exactly what happened. For the traffic, no real impact here. Steph, thank you. Thats at oakland and commercial streets near the casino matrix. 7 27 on your friday morning. Lets see whats going on with the weather. The fog still stretching across most of the day right now. Weve leader out inland valley and even all the way through the delta toward concord. This is going to retreat as we head to the morning hours. A very hot day coming our way. 93 in the south bay. East shore 82, San Francisco 81 and north bay 99. The trivalley one of our warmest today, 102. We are talking about the chance of our first rainfall of the season coming in next week, wednesday night. Keep that in mind. Well be watching that very closely. You can see on our maps, 101 and 85 northbound and then also in the trivalley coming to the pass, but once you get through that, moving smoothly and you can see the Golden Gate Bridge is socked in with fog. Same ol, same ol with the Golden Gate Bridge. Triple digits, wow. Well see you in 20 minutes. You live in los angeles and youre very physically fit. Have you ever tried spinning . No, i havent tried it. Of but i know a lot about it. Exercise bike and you get the heart rate going. Sure im fit enough to do it. Oh, absolutely. You can teach a course in it. Oh, thats great. Neither one of us should be happy about that. No, my hair your hair im glad you said that. Wow. Oh oh, my god. Maria over the years. Thats fantastic. Maria over the years. I thought that was me now. Maria is here on our final homecoming day. Okay, enough of this now. Savannah is not on maternity leave, she is hiding out in marias hair somewhere. But great to have you here. So funny, matt. Really. Youre so funny. Just as bad for me. Anyway, good to have you here. Thrilled to be here, always great to see my little sister. Younger self. Were going to get caught up on some headlines. The judge in the Oscar Pistorius murder trial has found the former olympian guilty of culpable homicide in the death of his girlfriend. Pistorius will be sentenced next month and faces up to 15 years behind bars. A 19yearold serving a life sentence for a deadly shooting rampage at an ohio school is back behind bars this morning. Tj lane escaped from a prison just south of toledo last night, along with two other inmates, setting off a massive manhunt. All three were recaptured overnight. An american aide worker being treated for ebola at a hospital in nebraska. He is responding well. Dr. Rick sacra has been given an unidentified experimental drug and has received two blood transfusions. Straight ahead, an exclusive live interview with actress robin givens. She is opening up about her own experience in an abusive marriage with mike tyson and what she hopes can come from this latest highprofile case of Domestic Violence. Good to have her here. Certainly is. Weve got a lot to get to. Why dont we start with a look at the weather. All right. Besides the stormy stuff, weve also got some chilly weather to talk about. In fact, boulder, colorado, tying the record for getting its earliest snowfall this morning, about. 10 of an inch. Look at this cold. Freeze watches, warnings and advisories from seattle and washington. I should say from Washington State all the way into wisconsin as far south as nebraska. Bismarck right now, 39. 27 in denver, casper. 33 in denver. Afternoon temperatures warm up into the 50s. But they stay chilly as you move into the day today. Thats whats going on around the and thats your latest weather. Maria . Al, thank you so much. Now to our exclusive interview with actress and activist robin givens. In the wake of the ray rice scandal, she is opening up about the abuse she endured during her volatile marriage to boxer mike tyson. She penned an essay for time. Com called why i stayed. And here to talk with us. Thank you for coming. You talked in the essay this is a watershed moment for people like yourself who have been in Domestic Violence situations and really for the country. Why do you think that is . Because we can see it. Weve got this video, and i know that its very difficult. Its appalling. Its heartwrenching. Its shocking. But we get to see in many respects whats gone on behind closed doors. We cant pretend that its not happening. And i think so much of what ive talked about in my life or what ive heard women talk about the past 20 years when ive talked to them, its one of the things, its hard to be believed. Right. Being believed is an issue. You told me last night that this is still a very emotional issue for you. It is. Coming here to talk about it, you have to relive it. Yes. Its amazing, because the past kind of becomes very much a part of your present. I feel attached to her in many respects. And its im speaking for myself. I dont want to speak for her. But i understand her. But are you talking about janay . Yes, but i would like to think ive been a voice for a lot of women. I would like to think there is a purpose. Even talking to you, part of me didnt want to get involved in this conversation, quite honestly. And it took my 20yearold son you told me your son encouraged you, youve got to get out there. What do you tell your boys . Youre raising young men about violence, about women, about why women stay, about why they leave. I think i really wanted to give the world two healthy and happy and whole husband and fathers. And i think there is something to being a gentleman. And my man is gentle. My older son is very involved in the conversation. Hes very involved in social media. And i think in many respects, because of social media, this conversation will never be the same. You cant hide it so much anymore. I think of my experiences. If it had been on tape, those elevators, being dragged in the hallway. If that had been on tape, then its a different conversation all of a sudden. We should say, we did approach mike tyson to see if he wanted to comment and he did notment do you think it would have been different for you, had the video been there and had we seen what you were trying to say . Absolutely. Because i think its hard for people to wrap their minds around this. I think its hard to be the woman and wrap your mind around this happening. I think its hard to be a person listening to somebody. You dont want this to be true. Are you surprised when you hear a woman like we saw on the news earlier this morning saying, hey, she hit him first, she deserves it. Its im not surprised, because ive heard it. Ive heard, what have you done, what did you say to him, stop saying that. Why is it that the victimizer becomes the victim . Why is it that we want to protect these men . What is it about our society, what is it about us as women that feels the need to protect them . Well, you wrote yourself about saying after it happened, you went from dont talk to me again to wanting to protect him. I think that we talked about it being complicated. Thats first of all, the embarrassment one feels. You feel embarrassed with yourself, first and foremost. Its very difficult to share. And a strange thing happens. You want to then start protecting the person and consoling the person that really youre in fear. Its a very its a strange inner turmoil. I have to say this. We cant allow this to happen. This cannot be acceptable on in any way. This is more than a male female issue. This is a human rights issue. Somebody said he would have gotten a pass even if we hadnt seen the second part of the video. Do you understand why janay stayed . I do. I do. Look, for me, i got it was hard for me to say this happened to me. And in many respects, i was more it was terrible that i said it. Youre not supposed to tell. Yeah. So i think that shes got a lot of things that she is dealing with. You want to protect your man. You want to stand by him. Real quick, i have two daughters and i told my daughter last night i was going to interview you. And she said, what are the signs, what did you miss, what did you avoid, what can young women learn . The thing that i avoided i thought certain things i thought it was love. I thought being picked up and put in the car, youre coming with me tonight, i thought that was love. Having somebody in my hotel room and jumping out of the closet and going, whoa, you must really you feel the warning signs deep inside in your gut. And youve got to follow that. But maria, i have to say wholeheartedly, in 2014, this conversation has become a different conversation, because of that video. However difficult it is for this poor woman, she will help myself and other women. Just be believed this is indeed possible. This does happen to women. Do you think this will just be like so many stories were talking about this week but next week it will be forgotten . This is what ive always felt. When men get involved in this conversation, not just women when men are involved and when men say, this cannot happen. Its not cool, were not accepting it. And i think that because it happened in this way with football this manly thing, standing up and saying, no way, this aint right, it stops here. It is a gamechanger. And youre going to continue talking about this, trying to explain it. I am. Trying to help other women. I am. Because it helps me. It helps me be understood. It helps me understand myself. And it gives purpose to a very difficult situation. Robin givens, thank you for having the courage to come and talk today about all of the work you have done in this area. Thank you. Matt. Thank you very much. Coming up, something new to worry about. If youre not getting enough sleep, could that trigger some false memories. And up next, are they serious . Halloween is just a month away. Why are some stores already decking t altuzarra for target available september 14th. We are a collection of smalls. A home saved. A hero homebound for a new opportunity. 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I mean, shopping for the stockings and the christmas presents this early . But indeed, if you head out to the stores, youll see that the displays are already going up. Or, as is the case here at roberts winter wonderland, none of this has ever come down. These displays have been up for 41 years. Retailers like kmart, walmart and hobby lobby say the reason holiday displays are up, even before summer officially ends, is simply a response to customer demand. I love christmas. Reporter donna butrne is out buying for her grandson. For christmas, along with his check. Reporter this goes on the tree. According to the National Retail federation, 20 of all americans have already started their Christmas Shopping. And by halloween, that number is expected to double. 600 billion is on the line. So if youre a retailer and in the holiday space, you want to get in front of the 40 of americans who are ready to shop right now. Its too early for christmas. So just to be clear, this is not a christmas commercial. Reporter in a nod to those who groan, this gets earlier every year. Merry birthday, everyone. Reporter this year, more americans are carrying more debt on their credit card than in six years. 28 billion. One reason why major retailers have started holiday Layaway Plans earlier. The National Retail federation says there we go. Reporter the average american will spend 536 on gifts this year. I think the iphone 6 is going to be on the list. Reporter for adults, there are 104 shopping days left. Jingle bells reporter but for kids is today christmas . Yes. Reporter today . Yes reporter christmas is always just around the corner. Christmas is in four minutes . Yep. Reporter four minutes from now . Yep. Reporter and gifts are always in season. I want a dress. I want a little pony. A wrench. Reporter what do you want for christmas . Those kids at the United Methodist preschool there in miramar, florida, were hilarious. I did get a chance to ask them individually after they gave me that sound of what they want. And all the boys want legos and the girls all seem, aside oh from the pony, want to have something from the movie frozen. So finding something from elsa now, real easy. Later, im not sure. Guys, im going to disappear back here into Roberts Christmas wonderland. May be getting into the spirit. All right, kerry. Thank you very much. You know whats more aggravating than the fact that some stores were already displaying christmas things . Whats that. The fact that roker has done 45 of the Christmas Shopping already. Oh, my goodness. I did actually order stuff for you guys. Really . For us . Me too . I was on the plane and i saw something. Is it still going to be g sa apparently . Wait until you hear what he had to say to ellen. First, these messages. Oh, theres an Energy Crisis happening, alright. A human one. And its time to fight it. Quakers good energy is just what you want. 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And im sitting on it. The bay. A good friday morning to you at 7 56. Im sam brock. Police in san jose are investigating the citys 26th homicide of the year. They say a woman was found on the sidewalk this morning near the 101880 interchange near the casino matrix. She has not been identified but they say has suffered from blunt force trauma. And bart crews are still fixing train cars with defective wheels. A train fell off of a moving train on Pleasant Hill late last month. They investigated and found 20 cars had defective wheels. The last time we saw christina loren, she was spiking footballs at levi stadium. Now shes back to her normal day job of telling us whats going on with the weather. How are you doing . Im doing great. We have a hot day ahead. Hardly any low clouds, even at the immediate coast. In San Francisco our temperatures are soaring already. Were at 62 degrees on the east shore, 60 in the south bay. As we get into the afternoon, 81 degrees in San Francisco, that a warm day coming your way. Now we have made it the allimportant weekend, not as hot. Temperatures will steadily drop as we take you into next week. Might get a loyal shower activity as of next wednesday. No serious crashes to tell you about. One incident that could slow you down from San Francisco toward san mateo is a crash at 92. We like friday light. Well see you in 20 minutes with more news, weather and traffic. Its 8 00 on today. And coming up, daydreaming or just sleep deprived . Why skimping on sleep could actually lead to false memories. Plus, mad about mindy. So danny . Yeah. Whose diamond . The very funny star and writer and producer of the Mindy Project on life, love and laughter. And is your pet getting a little pudgy . Well show you how to slim him down and get in shape at the same time. Today, friday, september 12th, 2014. Good morning, today im here and today is my 16th bird. Happy birthday, mom, in illinois. Im at the today show for my 50th birthday we love nick jonas hes 94 years young today were back now, 8 00 on a friday morning. Its the 12th day of september, 2014. Im matt lauer along with al roker, carson daly, and Maria Shriver. So happy to be here. Its almost like a campaign out here, shaking all these beautiful peoples hands. The babies and all of that stuff. Americorps volunteers, all these great people who serve in our community. So exciting. I love that were happy to have you here on a friday morning. But its just a preview. Were going to get more next week. You have a special series. I know you always want more of me, yeah . Were going to be talking about the secret lives of teens, we will be talking about internet addiction, anxiety, Prescription Drug abuse. Lots going on. Anybody who is a parent of a teenager should tune in. Im in that category now. Ill be watching that. We will be watching that next week. Lets go inside. Natalie has a check on the top stories. Good morning, once again. Olympic sprinter Oscar Pistorius remains free on bail after being found guilty this morning of culpable homicide in the shooting death of his girlfriend. Today, National Investigative correspondent jeff rossen is in pretoria, south africa. Jeff, good morning. Reporter hi, natalie, good morning. A bombshell in court this morning with the judge clearing Oscar Pistorious on murder but finding him guilty on manslaughter. He faces anywhere from zero days in prison up to 15 years in prison. Just a short time ago, i had a chance to speak exclusively with reevas parents and their reaction to the verdict. I think she died a horrible death. Horrible, painful, terrible death. And she suffered. You know . And he chucked through the door and i cant believe that they believe that it was an accident. Reporter Reeva Steenkamps parents say they dont care if Oscar Pistorious goes to prison for a long time or not. They dont want revenge but they want the truth and feel he hasnt given them the truth. His hearing is scheduled a month from now and he faces 12 days in prison to up to 12 years in prison. Firefighters are still trying to knock down the flames at a factory in connecticut. Large explosions were seen shooting out of the building in bridgeport that houses a Roofing Company and perfume recycling company and fishing areas in Long Island Sound were shut down over environmental concerns. No serious injuries, however, been reported. Even though his wedding day is fast approaching George Clooney is still making women swoon this time by professing his love for his bride to be. Take a listen. And i will be married in italy soon in a couple of weeks. I love you very much. Clearly head over heels. Clooney was speaking at a dinner in tuscany, italy. And did confirm his wedding will take place ice, quote, in a couple weeks. I volunteer to camp out there. Its 8 04 right now. Another check of the weather with al. Married two years. Weve been talking to jack who is a world war ii vet. 94 today. Yes. You just got married . Yes. Two years ago. Is this your bride . Yes. How are you . Im good. I spent five years in europe in the big war. God bless you for your service. Thank you so much. We appreciate it. Thank you. And congratulations on the wedding. Very nice. Lets check it out, see what weve got for today. A lot of heavy rain making its way from iowa on into nebraska. St. Louis, you may see some showers later today. Then clearing skies. A high of only 59 make that 63, dropping down to 59 degrees. And you see wet weather making its way from texas into southeast. Georgia state in the pacific northwest. Some nice weather here in the northeast. You devil you. All right. Thats whats going on around the country. Heres whats happening in your 8 05. Happy friday to you. Beautiful conditions at the coast for today, but its going to be hot everywhere else, and even San Francisco another day with highs in the 80s, as the only cooling were getting is right here at the immediate coast. We have thick fog out there this morning, most of which is burning off right now. Were in the 60s and temperatures will warm rapidly in the afternoon. Up to 93 degrees today in the south bay. 99 for the north bay. East shore at 82 degrees. Hot spot, 102 for the trivalley. Hope you have a great weekend. Weather. All right, al, thank you very much. Coming up next on trending, something new on the runways of fashion week. Makeupfree models. Also, well catch up with a multitalented mindy kaling. And is your pet looking pudgy, by any chance . Creative exercises to get your furry one and yourself into shape. Altuzarra for target available september 14th. Sweets become salaries. 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I dont know if its a controversy. I think its an attentiongrabbing thing, these women were willing to go on there without their customary makeup. They dont need it. They look better without it. Here we are talking about these gorgeous women. I cant believe we got the whole topic shut down. We just wanted to see these women. No, not at all. We have you oh, sweet, al. Flattery will get you nowhere. You all remember that adorable little apparently kid, 5yearold noah ritter. He became a superstar after he made an appearance on the local news at a county fair in pennsylvania. Well, he stopped by the ellen show and she had Something Special for him. Take a look. What if i told you we had a dinosaur here today . Thats me youre going to like it. Look. Wow okay. Im pretty sure thats a guy in a costume. Im pretty sure hes right. Apparently. So cute. Oh, hes great. That would scare my kids to death. How much sleep did you guys get last night . Five hours. Six. We all know skipping on sleep can wear the body down, but we can add one more to the list. Less than five hours of sleep leads to false memories according to a recent study in psychological science. Among the 193 folks tested who got five hours or fewer sleep in one night, they were significantly more likely to say they had seen a news video, but actually they hadnt. Can you believe that . Lets bring in mindy kaling of the Mindy Project. Hi, guys. Has this ever happened to you . Can you give us a moment . Sorry. Im glad you asked. Yes. No, of course. I get four or five hours of sleep. You guys dont get very much. Did you ever have something you thought happened actually not happen . I thought that i dated prince harry. Really . Im not so much sure that didnt happen. I think it happened, but im not sure. So the jury is out on that. The jury is out. How are you . Do you remember this . We should find out. Is he here . Theyre having a moment. I know. Wow. Cozy. I dont smeneed super models. Ive got a beautiful woman right here. Way to go. Beyonce is not here. Mindy is going to stick around. Well talk about season three. Yes. So cool. That is whats trending today. Were back with more mindy in 30 seconds. Back with more mindy as we promised. The star writer and executive producer of the Mindy Project, back for a third season. We last saw her on the roof of the Empire State Building get her somewhat perfect sleepless in seattle moment with coworker turned Love Interest danny. But from the looks of things, its not quite a fairytale. Take a look. Danny . Yeah. Who is diamond . Who is diamond what . Dont put that put that back. Dont go through my stuff, mindy. I dont go through your stuff. Dont go through my drawers. Yeah, but i dont have pink thongs with diamonds on them. Does this belong to your exgirlfriend . She must have been really thin. Dont worry about her. I dont think i could fit this on my arm. Dont put it on your arm. Just drop it. Its okay to have things from your ex girlfriend. I have a box of my ex boyfriends hair. I keep it for curses. Voodoo thing . Im a witch on the show. Nice to see you. Nice to see you, matt. I was thinking last night in preparing for this second, i remember when you came on when the show started. Do you think people have any understanding, viewers, how much work goes into Something Like this for you . I wonder. I think that i think some people know i created the show. But yeah, its okay if they dont. Its okay if they sort of think im the girl who is the star. You dont want people to watch thinking, wow, this looks like hard work. Thats not the intention. But nobody waved a magic wand and said heres a hit show. You have built this from the ground up. Yeah, i have an amazing team of writers and actors who help the entire way, but, yeah. The First Episode of the new season is called were a couple now, haters. Yes. That sounds a little passive aggressive to me. Its aggressiveaggressive to me. Whats that mean . Do you theres i think some people this character has always wanted a boy friend and romance, but is the kind of person the minute she gets a boyfriend isnt gracious about it. She is like see, everyone, now i have a boyfriend. Shes not shes not very gracious. And this particular boyfriend, dannys mom is played by the amazing rea pearlman. What is the relationship like . We thought the show would be not as fun if mindy got the handsome man of her dreams and all her problems are solved, so rhea perlman, wonderful actress, hates my character and thats funny on the show. Do you understand that really what you have created here, being the creator of this program, you have created an Online Dating service for yourself. Yeah. Some of the boyfriends you have cast in the past, bill hader, ed helms, seth rogen. Great looking guys. Is there a guy youll write a piece for . Willie geist. Okay. Hell be here in a second. Love him. Mcavoy. The rock. I like the rock. Social media. Did you really recently tweet out, does anyone have an apartment to sub let . Yes. What were you thinking . Im here with a bunch of my writers. I just take my writing staff with me. And i wanted a place for all of us to stay together, like the real world. You went online and asked people, do you have an apartment to sublette . Thats like going online saying who wants to go for a walk with me in central park at 2 00 in the morning. Which i would do. You and the hosts live in a house, right . Absolutely. The today show house. You and savannah and her baby and natalie. You all live together in a house. I thought thats how people do things here. Sounds dangerous to me. To be asking for things like that online. I wont do it again, matt. Im sorry. I appreciate it. Come back for not only this season, season four, five and six. Thank you. We love the show. I love being here. So much fun. And i wont take offense to the fact you want to date willie geist, not me. Too many women are into you. So it has to be yeah, just baling yourself out. You can catch the season premier of the Mindy Project next tuesday on fox. Maria . Thank you so much. Now to our special seasonlong series of nfl films, together we make football. Nbcs josh elliot has made his way to santa clara, california. Brandnew facility. Josh, good morning. Reporter good morning, maria. What a beautiful stadium it is. Were going to take a look all weekend long. We want to acknowledge right now that certainly the nfl has been squarely in the headlines all week for reasons as disturbing as they are shocking. Again, something we are aware of and very much respect. But something we have learned in traveling all around the country for the series is the really positive effect this game has had on so many people. People like hang nguyen who arrived a vietnamese refugee and who used the game first as a way to make sense as her strange new home and in a way to tap her inner passion. Levi stadium is very much a work of art. Outside. And within. The team commissioned a 200piece art collection. Oh, dwight clark, my favorite. Reporter it included three paintings by local artist hang nguyen. I grew up in a very grew up as a 49ers fan. So having my art in the stadium is like coming home. Reporter as the child of refugees who fled vietnam the day before the fall of saigon, hang has taken a most unlikely road. We left vietnam in 1975. I was 11 years old. Hang was 1. We didnt speak any english. Reporter football became a universal language that helped her family assimilate to american culture. The 49ers made things so much easier, because then we could go back to school and go oh, yeah, did you watch the niners game this weekend . Reporter in 1981, the 49ers won the nfc championship and the young girls heart. Caught by clark reporter with a catch. This play happened, and we were all jumping up and down. We were like, oh, my god and it started my love for dwight clark and joe montana. Reporter hang and her seven siblings reenacted the play every day. Sometimes the cornerback would throw it at the receiver and we would be like no, you have to throw it really high so i have to jump up to get it. Once you solidify that memory and all those good feelings, i dont know that anyone can replace that in your heart. Art has always been a part of my life. When i was doing the pieces, i wanted to create something that was personal to me. Knowing that it was going to be in the stadium, you know, i wanted to also make it really vibrant. I wanted it to have lots of reds. Reporter hang has painted much more than a canvas. For a family of immigrants, she has painted the american dream. You gather to watch the game, you gather to go to the game. You gather to play the game. I love football, because it brings families together. It brings communities together. And were joined now by hang nguyen, who would go on to become not just a football fan, but a very accomplished artist. We should say three of your pieces are actually here in the stadium itself. We asked you to paint a very special one indeed. And im going to do the reveal. We asked you to paint one that really meant a lot to you, to pick a moment from San Francisco 49ers history, and, of course, there can be only one moment. And thats the catch. Dwight clarks big touchdown reception from joe montana. What is when you see that, what do you see . I see the hero of the catch. Dwight clark. And i also as you saw in the segment, my siblings and i used to recreate the catch, you know, in home. The only sad thing is, i never got to be dwight clark. So this painting let me cast a gi girl, a young girl, as the hero of the play. And obviously, it meant something to you personally as much as it meant what would go on to me to this franchise. I am no expert. It is gorgeous. We do have a local art critic of some renown. Okay. So if he could now join us, get a real sense of what of this painting. How are you . Its dwight clark. Oh, wow. Its very nice to meet you. My goodness. I love your painting. I think its beautiful. Did i do justice . You did. You did. You did an outstanding job. Oh, my gosh. Reporter this is the moment. And i know you get this a lot. But what is it to know how much it meant to her . Well, its just an honor. I mean, its a big play in my life. But its an honor. I loved hearing her story, and its an honor that it meant that much to her that she would draw this and tell this story. Thank you for that. Reporter dwight, you come bearing some gifts. I do. We know youre a huge 49er fan. So we would like you and three guests oh, my gosh. Reporter to come to the game on sunday night at levi stadium. Wow. Reporter and then thank you. Youre going to be part of history now because youll be on the sideline for pregame when the 49ers take the field. Oh, my gosh. For the first time. All right . But you only get to do that if you wear number 87. Yes again, while she gathers herself, we want to thank you, divide, for being here. And we also want to hear your stories. Please log on to today. Com. Tell us your story and perhaps youll win a chance to attend super bowl xlix. Maria . Thanks, josh. You can catch the 49ers take on the Chicago Bears sunday night on nbc. Coverage starts at 7 00 eastern with football night in america. Gosh. Girl getting good friday morning, 8 26. Im sam brock. If you were watching the today show, you just saw Dwight Clarke make a cameo. Were learning more what fans can expect at the 49ers first home game at levis stadium this week. The executive producer of the sunday pregame show told us exclusively, Patrick Monahan of the band train will be singing the national anthem. Kickoff on sunday is at 5 30. Pretty cool. 8 26 right now on your friday. Lets see whats going on on the weather front. Many folks hoping for good weather for the first game. Lets talk about the traffic right now. In fact, were looking at conditions on 101 right now in san jose. Traffic is pretty heavy, but this is going to lighten up the next couple hours. Also, lots of red coming through sunnyvale and as we mentioned, this is the time of day we see the stackups there. Lots of red on the map there approaching dublin and the bay bridge approach is starting to lighten up, but still stop and go past west grand. Sam, back to you. My apologies, did look nice outside and well get you a weather update in 25 minutes. Well see you then. Were back now, 8 30 on a friday morning, the 12th of september, 2014. Weve got a nice smiling crowd out on the plaza. Lots of folks from out of town. Were happy to have them here in new york city. Also happy that Maria Shriver is giving us a hand with savannah on maternity leave. Such a good time being here with you. So far so good. And by the way it could get crazy. Hoda kotb will be here next week co hosting. That will be nice. And also later on, if you have a pet, and the pet might be overweight, were going to show how to slim your pet down and yourself in the process. Thats pretty cool. And speaking of cool, a special performance from mr. Nick jonas. Hes preparing for the release of his solo album. Speaking of music, we have a special treat for you coming up here monday on today. Alicia keys will be here to debut her new single. We are here, live in the studio. I cant wait. I love her. Also next week, tuesday, were celebrating a big anniversary. One year first birthday for the orange room. And were going to do something cool tuesday. Today. Com, vote for your favorite orange room moment. A live stream. Were going to do a big web show. Take you behind the scenes. And well look back on the year that was really groundbreaking for the show and myself here. The introduction of the orange room and the today show family. Happy birthday. Thank you very much. Are you going to get a cake . Well get him something, yeah. Absolutely. An incredible addition to the program. Thank you, matt. Thank you very much. We all know about the ice bucket challenge. We have seen that a couple times. We want to introduce you to a couple guys here, jim dolan, chairman of Madison Square garden in new york, which means he owns the knicks and the rangers. And legendary guitarist from the eagles, joe walsh behind him. And jim, youre here because you have been challenged to take the ice bucket challenge by none other than patrick ewing, Legendary Center of the knicks. And youve taken this challenge. Youve decided to go with this . I have decided to do it, yes. Okay. Most people either get the ice water or they make a donation. I understand youre also going to do both. So thank you for that. And before we get you soaking wet, who are you going to challenge to do this . Were going to challenge the eagles fans. All eagles fans . Just eagles fans planning on coming to the concert at Madison Square garden on the 18th. By the way, can i mention the connection you have to the eagles. Youre a musician as well. Youve got a band called jd and the straight shot. And youre going to open for the eagles in a couple days . Yes, at the garden. This is my producer, as well as, you know his name is joe walsh. Is he a better businessman or musician, joe . Businessman. Not only does he insult you, gets to dump ice water, as well. Are you ready to do this . I am ready. Are you ready to do it . I would just like to say that a lot of people in new york would like to drop buckets of various things on jim. Im happy to make this possible. All right. Joe, we appreciate you doing this. Im going to take that hand mic from you. The hat too. So think refreshing thoughts, all right . Joe, do the honors. Never gets old, jim. It really doesnt. How did i do . You did fantastic. Great welcome to new york. Cant wait to see the eagles, jim. Tell everybody to come to the show on the 18th. Kazoo records. And if we do 100,000 gets donated to a. L. S. We need 5,193 kazoo players. At the garden . On the 18th. You heard it from the man himself. Lets get a check of the weather. All right. Besides being awfully chilly out there, lets show you what weve got going for today. Wet weather along the eastern seaboard. A lot of heat out west. Southern california this weekend into early next week going to have recordsetting heat on saturday. Gorgeous weather in the pacific northwest. It continues on sunday, sunday and look for more wet weather through the southeast. Again, much of the country looking awfully darn good. Thats whats going on this morning we are watching fog clearing nicely in San Francisco. You can see from our live Sky Camera Network in the city by the bay, that fog already starting to retreat. Thats a sign its going to be a very warm day. Temps near 80 there. At the Golden Gate Bridge, fog expected to lift there. Plenty of breaks if you have to be outside today. Warmest location, trivalley, temperatures near 100 degrees. Also for the south bay, throw to mid 90s there. Work, ride to recovery. You rode 365 miles from boston. Way to go. Way to go. Stay strong. And, of course, we want to talk strong. You have to talk sunday night football night in america thats right. Its the brandnew levis stadium, santa clara, california. The 49ers taking on the bears sunny, warm, 82 degrees you talk about strong its sunday night football night in america back to you. Mr. Roker, thank you. Coming up next. For the love of pets, from spas to workouts, how you and your pet can slim down together. But first on a friday morning, this is today on nbc. N nbc. Okay. We are back wrapping up our special series for the love of okay. We are back wrapping up our special series for the love of pets. This morning we are tackling health and fitness with pets. Yes, pets need to worry about this, as well. And here is an expert. Todays jenna wolfe is here to talk to us about that. Good morning. Welcome. Great to see you. Yes, believe it or not, obesity is not that uncommon when it comes to your pets. We overfeed, underexercise, and the next thing you know, its time to hit the gym. This is toby and penny. Recently these two adorable dachshunds were homeless, sent to a shelter after their owner passed away. With one overweight and no offers for adoption, the two, now inseparable were sent from the shelter to the morris animal inn to get in shape. They look for the cutesy dogs. And because hes overweight, he might have a little bit more difficulty. Reporter Deborah Montgomery helps run the inn in if morris town, new jersey. Toby showed up weighing in at almost 30 pounds. An estimated 43 million dogs in the United States are overweight or obese. Thats just over half of all u. S. Dogs. Its really important just to stay active and be healthy so they live longer. Reporter facilities like the inn are popping up around the country. Frolics dog, a canine sports club in alexandra, virginia, has a 6,000 square foot exercise facility encouraging diet and exercise. Everyone is looking for new and different ways to exercise their dogs. So we wanted to provide a great option for yearround indoor dog exercise. My dog essentially is a personal trainer and i probably need it more than the dog does. Reporter its the latest trend in doggy daycare. And like our gyms, the dog versions are just as chic. Treadmills, stability balls, even a membership fee. A monthly membership for 50. Reporter back at the morris animal inn, an allinclusive facility. The folks are on a mission to keep the dogs and cats healthy. With an indoor swimming pool, whirlpool, yoga classes. Yeah, thats dog yoga. Salon treatments. Gourmet, lowcalorie meals. And lest we forget, since were trying to be fit, the allimportant scale. I know its kind of embarrassing to get on the scale now, but in a couple weeks youre going to be so proud. Reporter toby has lost some weight since he started his diet and exercise plan, a great sign hes getting healthier. After the morning weighin, its off to the gym. Wait. Did someone say gym . Exercising the mind, the body and the soul. Perfect. With a good workout leaving everyone, and i mean everyone, dog tired. A lot of breathing coming from my left. A lot of heavy breathing. And we are happy to report that toby has now lost five pounds since getting on his weight loss program. Thats great even for people. Even better news, toby and penny will stay together. Both were adopted by the schneider family. They have since taken the dogs home and promise to keep working on tobys weight. This whole weight loss training was fantastic for them. Its a really neat concept. We are bringing in trisha montgomery, founder of canine gym, dedicated to health and wellness of dogs and this started with your vet telling you to get it together. Not only was your dog overweight but your vet said that to you too . That is correct. Can you imagine hearing that . No. Its about us as we get more and moro obese. We have to get them up and out and moving. According to the association of pet obesity prevention, its an epidemic for both of us. So we created canine fit club and its all about working with out with our best friends. So you tell people to come to the exercise classes and bring their dogs. Okay, guys. Lets do it reverse lunges, guys. Were working out flexibility. Its the same as a lunge, but actually provides a little less stress on our joints and knees. The dog is doing it when you take your dog for a walk, youre focusing on the front legs of the dog. 55 of the muscles. You want to work on the 35 of the back muscles, as well, hind legs. Great job. So its incorporating every move with your best friend. But these dogs dont look overweight to me. Oh, the one in the back. Its all about getting healthy. Okay. Okay, a little stepovers. Keep moving, come on. Matt lauer looks like he wants to get going. Good job here. They always say everything starts in california. I have not seen this. Very cool. Trisha, thank you very much. By the way, can i make a little announcement that concerns the today show family . This one right here, jenna wolfe, is going to be joining the weekday version of our show as our fulltime lifestyle and fitness correspondent. Were going to be seeing a lot here. That is the good news. The bad news is youre going to be leaving your fans on the weekend show. I am. But ive done weekends now for it seems like 108 years. So im finally going to know what a friday night is like after 6 00 p. M. And spend a little more time on the weekends with your evergrowing family, which is good news for you. Welcome aboard. Im so excited. This will be fun. Good news, bad news. You get to see more of me but then you get to see more of me. Love working out. Five pounds on a dog is 35 pounds on you. Up next, a Live Performance from nick jonas on a friday morning. First, this is today on nbc. The toyota Concert Series on today, brought to you by toyota. 8 46. Back with singer songwriter nick jonas going solo with his album due out in november. And hes here with his single called jealous. Its good to have you here. You have been honest. You said this song was inspired by an incident between and you your are girlfriend. Did you get jealous . I had a moment. I think whats great about this song, it Oscar Pistorius up the conversation that men are afraid to have. Jealousy happens. We try to make it fun. When people get jealous, usually with a significant other, either reacts by saying isnt that cute or getting mad. How did it go in your case . We wrote a song instead. Is it a makeup song . Never mind. I dont want to know. Ladies and gentlemen, nick jonas. I dont like the way hes looking at you im starting to think you want him too am i crazy have i lost ya even though i know you love me cant help it i turn my cheek music up and im puffing my chest im getting ready to face you call me obsessed its not your fault that they hover i mean no disrespect its my right to be hellish i still get jealous cause youre too sexy beautiful and everybody wants a taste thats why i will still get jealous cause youre too sexy beautiful and everybody wants a taste thats why i still get jealous i wish you didnt have to post it all i wish youd save a little bit just for me protective or positive girl call it passive or aggressive i turn my cheek music up and im puffing my chest im getting ready to face you call me obsessed its not your fault that they hover i mean no disrespect its my right to be hellish i still get jealous cause youre too sexy beautiful and everybody wants a taste thats why i still get jealous cause youre too sexy beautiful and everybody wants a taste thats why i still get jealous youre the only one invited i said theres no one else for you cause you know i get excited yeah when you get jealous too i turn my cheek music up and im puffin my chest im turning ready to face you can call me obsessed its not your fault that they hover i mean no disrespect its my right to be hellish i still get jealous cause youre too sexy beautiful and everybody wants a taste thats why i still get jealous cause youre too sexy beautiful everybody wants a taste thats why i still get jealous nick, thank you. In this case is going to be back. The music premier is november 11th. Up next, the final round in our one direction fan challenge. But first, this is today on nbc. All right, everybody. Ill just Start Talking, assuming were live. Its this final morning of our huge one direction fan faceoff. It is down to these two lovely young ladies. Jay see rees from indiana and from texas. Todays challenge begins with a video clue. Heres our screen. I want you to watch it and listen very carefully. Here we go. Congratulations. Im so sorry we couldnt be there with you. Youll be very excited to know well be seeing both of you for our special live concert on the 17th of november. Well see you there okay. Did you hear that, girls . Yeah. Both of you. Thats right. Were sending you both to universal orlando resort. Youre going to be part of the live one direction performance on today. Thats monday, november 17th. That is the same day as your beloved new record release. Youll be there for the fun of that and also are going to stay at the allnew cabana bay beach resort and experience what more could we give these ladies . Everything universal, orlando has to offer. Girls, youve been fantastic. Congratulations to you both. Thank you. Way to go. All right, guys, back to you. That is pure kwig willing right there. Thats great. Carson, welldone. Thank you very much. Lets get todays birthday wishes from mr. Willard scott. Hey, willard. New york, new york what a heck of a crowd. You guys are beautiful. Beautiful. St. Charles, missouri, be one of the great towns of america. Alyce gould is 100 years old today. We wish her a very happy birthday. Tilly auerbach. She swims and does the yoga bear. Hey, booboo . Yoga is big with older folks. They really love it. This is cliff arrested clifford lea, sprau berry plains, tennessee. He is a mechanic and farmer. That is his trade. Eating strawberries. Here is more marvin fischer, 100 years old today. Philadelphia, pennsylvania. What does he say makes him young . A daily shot of crown royal. Thats a town in canada. Well, thats it, folks. We sing, we dance, we have fun. And here they are. Willard, thank you very much. Good opportunity to say thank you so much to Maria Shriver. Thank you. Thank you guys. I really had fun. Always great to be here. More of the show ahead. What do you have . Mea far row joining us, talking about taking a turn on broadway. And our todays take marias great interview with robin givens and how some of the ravens fans have been reacting to the ray rice scandal. A lot ahead. Maria, thank you very much. A break. Youre watching today in the bay. Good friday morning to you. Its 8 56. Im sam brock. Part of the San Francisco flower mart will be sold after all to a Los Angelesbased real estate firm. More than half of the association that owns the land voted to sell yesterday. Opponents are worried the iconic San Francisco business will be turned into a tech campus. Well have to see what happens. Heres the thing, obviously, big weekend, especially for football. A warmup might be in store. Lets check out the weather front with anthony slaulgter. We are looking at warm temperatures across the board because of the offshore winds. Weve already cleared out in places like concord, san jose, morgan hill. Temperatures are going to be hot. 81 in San Francisco. 93 in the south bay. Warm spot, the trivalley, at 102. Take it easy. From nbc news, this is todays take with al roker, Natalie Morales, willie geist and tamron hall. Live from studio 1a in rockefeller plaza. Welcome to today on a beautiful friday morning here in new york city. It is september the 12th, 2014. A great crowd outside as we always have on an especially nice morning. Im willie geist. No, youre not willie geist. No. Youre the mindy kaling crush. Mindy kalings main squeeze. Mindy loves willie. Ive heard reports. On our show a while ago talking to matt about season three of the Mindy Project. And i guess this is an ongoing thing between you two . I wouldnt call it that. Something you want to tell us . Take a look. Shes a fan. Is there someone out there right now you have a crush on youre going to write a piece for or a role for in the coming season . Willie geist. Yeah, good, okay. Hell be ear in a second. Love him. Notice you were the first out of her mouth. Youre going to be in the new season, did you know that . She had come over and put her arms around me. Obviously, it was just a place holder. Yeah. Until you she was trying to get close to me. Through me. Through me. Notice matt was not feeling any of the love, though. He got nothing. Look at this he got burned. She instagrams a photo of her outfit, saying hope willie likes it. So do you like it . Of course i do. Who doesnt love mindy kaling. She is cool, smart, funny. I love my wife a lot more, though. I heart mindy. She is so amazingly talented and fun. Awesome. There is nothing hotter than a beautiful, funny woman. So true. Smart woman. Totally agree. I am just lobbying to have a part in the season. I think we all are. Mindy, i think todays take. The cast in there. Yeah. The whole group. Because we all love you. Even though its on fox, its produced which universal television. Wow. Its still part of the family. Still part of the family. Yeah. Shes the coolest. Mindy kaling is great. And i hope comes back and sees us. Real soon. Okay. Enough of that. Lets talk about some Serious Business here. Were talking about the Baltimore Ravens played last night in the wake of this ray rice stuff. Usa todays cover of the sports section, check this out. Female fans stand by ray rice. A lot of women last night wearing the ray rice jersey. The ravenssteelers game in baltimore. A lot of people shocked that a lot of women were wearing those jerseys. At the game, two women defending ray rice. Listen. She struck him first. And any woman who can hit a man can be hit back. I love ray rice. Hes done a lot for baltimore. Even though i dont condone what he did. Okay . Im not saying that what he did was right. But yeah. I dont know what to say. I think it says it all right there. Yeah. And i think actually Maria Shriver had a wonderful interview with robin givens earlier this morning. And robin had written an oped in Time Magazine about Domestic Violence and why i stayed. Its really interesting to hear her perspective when she talked about why she stayed with mike tyson for so long back in 1988. Take a listen. Are you surprised when you hear a woman like we saw on the news earlier this morning saying, hey, she hit him first, she deserves it . Its im not surprised, because ive heard it. Ive heard what have you done, what did you see to him. Stop saying that. Why is it that the victimizer becomes the victim . Why is it that we want to protect these men . What is it about our society, what is it about us as women that feels the need to protect them . Fascinating point. Its true. And she made the point, again, that she views this as, you know, having the video out there. This is a watershed moment, because it is in some ways helping women see. You know, this is generally what happens behind closed doors. And if women are victims of domestic abuse, they now are seeing this and acknowledging, this is real. This is very much a problem. And she says this is a gamechanger when it comes to talk about Domestic Violence. And coming to realize, like, i shouldnt be living like this. But you worry when you see reaction like that. Yeah. At the stadium. That people who are women who are victims of Domestic Violence, they are they afraid, because are people going to take them seriously. Right. The only reason all of this happened was because of two pieces of video that came to light. If those pieces of video had never come to light would have been behind closed doors. To robins point about protecting the aggressor, thats exactly what happened in this case. The Baltimore Ravens, the nfl, everybody said lets figure out how to handle this as a pr crisis. Not as a crime. But as a pr crisis. Remember, they put out that awful tweet where janay palmer regrets her role in the incident, blaming her for this. And the press conference where she said that, pretty much. She regretted she played a part in that. Yeah. It was hard to watch. We were talking about this earlier this morning. We have been talking about this every day now for a week. I hope something good comes out of it so that all of our daughters and sons now know as a society this is how we feel about it. That we dont tolerate it, its not okay, not acceptable. And i do too. But i always worry, whenever there is a crisis we talk about it for about a week. Right. And then Something Else happens. And we move on. We move on. We forget about it. I hope this is not the case. Yeah. And adding to that, i thi think maria asked that question to robin. She said do you think this is finally going to make a difference or is it going to be a story we just talked about and move on and forget about it . And she said because men this time, especially men in the nfl, are expressing their outrage and theyre so shocked and horrified and because were all talking about it, man and woman alike are saying the same thing. Perhaps this time it will make a difference. And, you know, well see. I hope so. I really do. It was a wild night in baseball last night. Wow. Speaking of sports. Crazy. Three batters in the big leagues last night getting hit by pitches. First lets start with the worst. This is marlins superstar, could be the mvp of the national league, giancarlo stanton, takes a fastball in the face. Hard to watch that. In the face oh, my gosh. He was taken off the field on a stretcher. Taken to the hospital. Suffered multiple facial fractures, a laceration, has dental damage. Obviously needed a bunch of stitches. Brewers pitcher mike fires, his next pitch actually hit reed johnson on the hand. Next batter, same pitcher, is hit. My gosh. Ended with both teams clearing the bemplgs, the marlins saying what the heck, man. Fires apologized on twitter saying im deeply sorry about what happened tonight. I cant imagine what you and your family are going through, talking to stanton here. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I feel horrible. And hope for a speedy recovery. That is absolutely horrifying. Every Baseball Players worst nightmare, when you stand in that box and face a big guy who can throw 95 miles per hour. Yeah, they said that pitch was probably about 88 miles per hour. By the way, happened here to the yankees, as well. Chase headley was hit by a pitch the bottom of the ninth inning. He was able to walk off the field on his own. But seems like this is happening more and more. Same thing, though. This was in the face. Took this one in the chin. Yeah. Hard to believe he was able to walk off. Big old cut on his chin there. Terrifying. You hate to see it happen to anybody, but stanton is truly one of the two or three biggest stars in baseball. Hope he has a big recovery. Absolutely. So i cannot believe this, but i saw this past weekend an ad for christmas. No. Yes. Kmart ad, right . Yeah. If you missed it, check it out. Hello, america. Its too early for christmas. So just to be clear, this is not a christmas commercial. However, lets say you have an event in late december that you need a lot of gifts for. Like maybe your entire family is having a birthday on the same day. Kmart, no money down layaway. Merry birthday, everyone. Very clever. But according to National Retail association, about 20 of americans have already started their Christmas Shopping. By halloween, they expect that to double. Dont be so horrified. Youre in the 20 . I have bought some presents. Have you . I have. I think its good. It shows thought. Shows youre thinking about people all yearround. I hate getting caught at the last minute. Drives me nuts. You have to admit, if something catches my eye and reminds me of somebody, i do buy it. And ive done that for savannahs baby. A couple things that ive already started. A couple. But normally im way behind. Do you think you know, the decorations and all that stuff and i have a problem when i was at the drugstore the other day and luke was asking for the candy corn. And its only the beginning of september. For halloween. And im like, the candy corn is going to be stale by the time halloween comes. Im not buying the candy corn this early. Doesnt matter. Its like a twinkie, never goes bad . Give me pebbles and just call it a day. Theres no reason for candy corn. Candy corn is terrible. I dont like candy corn. Candy corn is to me only second to all of the pumpkinflavored stuff out there. Have you had the pumpkin latte yet at starbucks . No and by the way, there is no pumpkin in the Pumpkin Spice latte. Its the cinnamon and the yumminess. Who determined we all want pumpkin i love pumpkin. Al is really worked up. When we did the story about the Pumpkin Spice latte, we sent this email, do you know whats in a Pumpkin Spice latte . Next time we need do you know theyre coming out with Pumpkin Spice oreos. No yes, oreo people, youve gone too far. But thats only isnt that just for now, for just for now. Like a limited release, right . It starts with just for now. And then it keeps going. Its like the mcrib. No, now wait. That i support. By popular demand. Thats heresy. Everybody loves the mcrib. That would be like that would be like expecting beyonce and getting the president. Well, thats exactly what happened. That happened . That happened, in fact. Now, this happened, speaking of pro segue here. President obama and the first lady were visiting a school in washington to help fill backpacks for needy kids. A little girl, they said there would be a surprise guest in the class. So she is like, yay, surprise, thinking beyonce is coming. Take a listen. I really wanted it to be beyonce. I understand. Malia and sasha would feel the same way. You thought we were going to be beyonce . But then i realized it was going to be you. And thats even better. Oh, see there . Well, i appreciate you saying that in front of the press. I know its not really true. But thats okay. I would rather see beyonce. Shes got a future in politics. Good pickup. Man. Honest on the one hand, but on the other, realized shes got to make up for that. Nicely done. They were packing backpacks for the needy. You know what would have made that backpack better . A mik mcrib. I would take a Pumpkin Spice latte. Just saying. Lets see whats going on as far as your weather is concerned. Showers and thunderstorms going on in the midwest. In fact, from des moines, iowa, on into omaha, weve had some heavy rain, some flooding going on. Also down to the south, south of this stationary front, heavy thunderstorms north of san angelo, dallas on into texarkana and shreveport. Were going to be watching a lot of rain, especially between Corpus Christi and brownsville. 3 inches of rain. In the east coast, Tropical Storm edward, not going to be any problem. Going to basically be a fish storm. But watch what happens. It makes weve got this little area of weather making its way across southern florida. Not quite going to be a tropical system, but its going to bring a heck of a lot of rain over the next 72 hours from Central Florida into the keys, anywhere from 3 to 5 inches of rain. Then it goes out into the gulf and may become a tropical system. Were going to keep an eye on that. Thats whats g good morning. 9 12 the time right now. We are still clearing out for most of our inland valleys. Youll notice places like concord already seeing full sunshine, even san jose looking at plenty of sun. The clouds still hanging on to the coastline, even from santa rosa down to San Francisco. The blue sky peeking on through. The east shore dealing with fog, but look at the highs later on this afternoon, 80s and 90s across the entire board, 81 in San Francisco, 93 in the south bay, and 99 in the north bay today. Jonas. How do you like it . Trying to have some fun, so al, youre keeping him out, man. Youre creeping me out. Up next, Jonas Brothers. Now nick is flying solo with a debut album and performance here on studio 1a. Well hang with him after this. If you can clear a table without lifting a finger, you may be muddling through allergies. Try zyrtec® for powerful allergy relief. And zyrtec® is different than claritin® because it starts working faster on the first day you take it. Zyrtec®. Muddle no more™. 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Were famous for our legs. At chicos and chicos. Com. A diaper pail. Next to a sunny window. In a home with triplets. With three cases of an upset tummy. Pinesol. He loves me, he loves me not he loves me, he loves me not he loves me warm and flaky in fifteen. Everyone loves pillsbury grands. Make dinner pop. For very dry skin, basic moyou need healing. T enough. The only lotion with healing microdroplets of vaseline jelly, new vaseline intensive care relieves very dry skin from the first application and deeply moisturizes to heal it in just 5 days. Clinically proven. Skin healed in just 5 days. Thats the healing power of vaseline. Nick jonas was signed to his first music contract when he was just 11 years old and the Jonas Brothers were formed. Now going solo. The debut album comes out november 11. Good morning. Good to see you. Were all good. So you did jealous earlier on today, which you co wrote. Is this a preview of things to come . Yeah. Basically, two songs were released. One of them called chains and jealous is the first time single. And the range of the album. So good. Really feel like im as experienced as i can be as an artist and love the process. Youve obviously spent your career to this point as part of the Jonas Brothers, the wildly, crazy popular Jonas Brothers. And now stepping out on your own. Is it strange at all to look back and not see your brothers there . It is. A little bit. There are times when im still getting used to it and trying to feel comfortable and all that. Luckily ive had a decent amount of time to rehearse and getting my legs back. Love my family and they have been really supportive. Joe came out to one of my shows this week, which is great. Saw my brothers baby about a week ago, which is nice. Things are good. And just excited about next chapters. Another track on the album, avalanche, which you perform with demi lovato, good friend yours. Yeah, demi and i have a really good friendship. This song in particular, we heard it, and didnt write it, but we somehow felt like it had a real depth for us and our relationship. And our friendship over time. And just about, you know, a friendship on the edge of breaking down. And some of the struggles she has gone through, nice to have this song to sort of rely on. I shouldnt have messed with you. You have a new show called kingdom october 8th and you play an mma fighter. I do. And you look built. You had to work out for that. The show is really interesting. Its really intense. Gritty drama. I havent even seen a lot of it. This is exclusive to us. Weve got the first video here. First look. Sanchez. We have an amazing cast. And i had to fight hard for this role. Just stepping out to new things and pop up in places people dont expect. I had to gain 20 pounds of muscle in the practice. Wow. Dont mess with you. Whats the Training Like there . Just go nuts in the gym every day . Yeah, it was about two training sessions a day, hour workout and then just eating as much protein as i could. And then the fight training on top. Dang not messing with you. All right. Nick jonas, again, the new album coming out november 11th. Good luck with everything. Youve got everything going on. Great. Still to come, two big stars hit the stage. Whoa all right. The play is called love letters. Well have more coming up after letters. Well have more coming up after this. I was not aware of how much acidity was in my diet. Letters. Well have more coming up after this. I was so focused on making good food choices, i had no idea that it was damaging the enamel of my teeth. I wanted to fix it, i wanted to fix it right away. My dentist recommended pronamel. He said that pronamel can make my teeth stronger, that it was important, that that is something i could do each day to help protect the enamel of my teeth. Pronamel is definitely helping me to lead the life that i want to live. 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Brantly was one of the two americans successfully treated for e bo la last week and he donated his blood for the treatment. A large number American Children are not getting basic Preventive Care and that includes checkups and vaccinations. Half of American Children have not visited a dentist in the past year. Netflix might be get competition. Verizon is ready to launch a Digital Video Service of its own over the middle of next year. They are envisioning a service similar to netflix and likely stream live channels and it could deliver content to smartphones. Burger king is rolling out its new burger in japan. The bun and cheese are blackened from the bamboo charcoal. Customers can order the diamond or the pearl version. The diamonds comes with a few more toppings. Looks interesting. We are back after your local news. That new guy is like a donut, tasty yeah but youll regret it. What about him . Healthy. Yeeeeuk the perfect man and the perfect snack, dont exist. You sure . Try dannon oikos greek nonfat yogurt. Perfect cause its healthy with 0 fat and 12 gr. Of protein and so creamy. Mmm. Could be the perfect. Oh ladies. Snack, john the perfect snack dannon oikos. Dannon and for an irresistibly indulgence snack try new dannon oikos chocolate and caramel on top. Youre watching today in the bay. Good morning, 9 26 on your friday. Im sam brock. Surfers, environmental groups and state leaders make another push today to open Martins Beach to the public. State lawmakers just passed the bill that would start negotiations to reopen the beach, but it still needs the governors signature. Today state senator jerry hill, who authored that bill and bay area residents will gather to share memories of the beach and urge the governor to sign the bill. The silicon venture capitalist who wants to split california up into six states has until the end of the day. According to the chronicle, tim draper still needs more than 200,000 signatures from l. A. And other counties, four other counties. If he doesnt get it, the six California Initiative wont make it on to the november ballot. A spokesperson told the paper hes, quote, confident theyll be reaching that goal. 9 27 right now on your friday a. Of the break, a look at weather and traffic. Welcome back. 9 28 the time right now. We are clearing out quickly. Already in santa rosa starting to see some sun. San francisco, not too much, but you can see the blue starting to show up. At the east shore, the fog is starting to lift, but its going to be a warm day. 93 degrees expected in the south bay today, 81 in San Francisco. Trivalley, one of our warmest today, up to 102. Lets switch gears and talk about traffic. Mike has the day off. This is in san jose. I want to show you 101 over towards santa clara, there is slowing because of construction at the 880 connector. Also the peninsula, slowing over towards redwood city and san mateo and the east shore, not too bad. We have an accident on 880 southbound up there near the 92 connecter. As we step outside, it is still heavy, sam, but this will probably lighten up in the next hour or so. Back to you. Friday and traffic shouldnt go together. They are inextricably linked. Thank you very much. Well be back in another 25 minutes with weather, traffic, and news. Welcome back to today on friday morning, september 12th, 2014. Im willie along with al and natalie. Tamron is off today. We were talking about this piece today. A post on xojane. Com. I wrote an article about marriage and all anyone noticed is that im fat. In june, minnesota writer galet breen wrote a story for Huffington Post 12 secrets happily married women know. But there was more feedback apparently about her wedding photo than the story. She offered a photograph. Reader posts included huff and puff, you love fat women and dont mary a heifer. She wrote, there are few times i think its okay to comment on a womans body in a complimentary or negative way. I think we need to stop that conversation to consider it taboo. Yeah. I mean, its outrageous that people feel they can comment. Just never comment on on body, period. What are they trying to accomplish . What does that do for anybody . Makes them feel better about themselves, theyre eating cheatos . We have had this conversation a million times. People feel theyre putting it out there and doesnt matter. Talking to somebody and about somebody, its gross. It hurts. And the writer went on to say how much it sort of emotionally destroyed her, and she cried about it until her husband put it all in perspective. She has a healthy, happy marriage. Right. And theyre idiots. Thats the joy. She is writing a piece about having a good marriage. Right. Anyway, if you needed a study, the university of the college of london conducted a study and proved that fat shaming does not work. But those who do experience negative comments like the ones we shared, they arent encouraged to lose weight. They may gain weight from comfort eating. I will tell you from experience. Its one of the things ive talked about. Nagging somebody about their weight, whether its a loved one youre not helping them. Youre pushing them away. We know. We know were fat, okay . We get it. Anyway, lets show what weve got going on. Lets look ahead to the weekend. Saturday, rain along the eastern seaboard. But western twothirds of the country going to be fabulous. There is going to be rain in southern texas, also as the system comes across southern florida, watching that, as well. Then sunday, sunday weve got much of the country with plenty of sunshine. Rain along the southeastern Atlantic Coast down into florida. The heat is going to be on in Southern California. Southern l. A. , 101 degrees coming up on sunday. And thats going to last into the early part of the week. Thats whats going on around yeah, were going to have some of that heat, too. In fact, today, temperatures hottest of the week. Expect triple digits in inland valleys because our winds today are coming from the central valley. Warm wind is going to push the fog back to the coastline, the peninsula starting to clear out, even in the east shore, need a few clouds. Highs today, 81 in San Francisco, 82 in the east shore, trivalley, 102. 92 in the peninsula and 93 in the south bay. We have cooler weather for the weekend and its next week a chance of showers. Weather. Now to the best night of the week. Sunday night football night in america. Were heading out west to the levis stadium, santa clara, california. Sunny and warm as the 49ers take on the bears. 82 degrees. Thats going to be the best night of the week. Two legendary teams, sunday night football night in america. Legendary teams. We love you. Legendary actors. Yes. Now. Now to two legendary actors of stage and film. Mia farrow and Brian Dennehy in new york a muchanticipated revival of the romantic play love letters. Mia and brian, good morning. So great to have you here. Good morning to you. This is such a beautiful play and i think it peespeaks to obviously first love and how there is so much passion when you first start in a relationship. What drew you both to being back on stage . Mia . Brian first. Okay. They asked. Simply put. And first of all, the opportunity to work with mia again, whom i worship and is one of the great ladies of the theater. And this piece by mr. Gerny is an extraordinary piece. Its you cannot stage a play more simply than this. And yet its about everything in life. First love, loss, loss of opportunities, loss of life, loss of love. And yet its a heroic play. Its about its a beautiful play, and you all do you is speak it. The writer wants you to just hear the words. Hear the lines. And you will provide the emotions for yourself. And thats so its a great piece of work. Mia, one of the great things about the way this is put together, limited run with different pairs. So it will be you and brian and then weve got Carol Burnett with brian. Alan alda, stacy keach and martin sheen and angelica houston. A little different experience when you see this wonderful play. Yeah, i think thats right. And you can pick your stars to see. I think it will be very different. When carol takes over. I do one month, and she stepped right in with brian. I feel a little bit jealous. She played my mom in a movie and, of course, i love her to death. We both do. But, yeah, for me, the same thing as brian. A compelling reason to do a play, brian is in it. But also this is an exquisite play. Just perfection. Never been on broadway. Wow. So were happy to launch it there. And in the digital age where its so much about 140 characters of tweets and there is Something Special about letters. Tweaks and twerks. No twerks in this play. Happy to hear that. All about letters and the written word spoken. Yeah. And in those letters, as is true, checkoffs letters or lincolns letters or washingtons letters. And broadway audiences will find out in this very simple, but powerful production. And for people who really listen and care about all areas of life, its all there on stage. Sounds amazing. Cant wait to see it. Great to have you both here. Mi m mia farrow, Brian Dennehy. Next, the stories behind some memorable images of the as a student at devry university, a Business Career was my goal. My professors guidance, helped me find career success. At microsoft get started now, with our 20,000 merit based career catalyst scholarship. Classes start october 27. Visit devry. Edu 3d white brilliancele with the toothpaste and boost. M crest after brushing, our exclusive boost. Polishes your smile and whitens with 3x the stain lifting ingredient. For a smile that dazzles. Only from crest 3d white. [ male announcer ] no matter how things change. 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We have been talking about those incredible breathtaking lights. Could there be a better memorial . I think we all look and think is this so beautiful. There are 88 spot lights, 44 each, projecting these two columns. They announced a few years ago they would stop doing this but there was an outcry and now seems its going to go on forever. Its powered using cooking oil from local restaurants. Thats interesting. So a Real Community effort. I didnt know that. Were going to switch gears and lets talk some baseball. There was an incredible baseball catch. But not on the diamond. This pick. What i love about this, theyre all so happy. Normally when you see people grabbing for a ball, theyre going to punch each other. I back seat theyre going to share that ball. Until one guy gets hit. Obviously, this was a raysyankees game and the rays won. The yankees did win the next two games. Wow. Thats amazing. Cool picture, though. We have got to end with animals, of course. We always do. This is pug race. Pug racing. Huge. Oh, my goodness. Third annual pug and bulldog race in germany. 50 meters, 164 feet. I just want one of these dogs. This is so funny. Amazing. Only in germany, right . Mark, thank you so much. We appreciate it. Coming up next, hang ten to drop ten. A new wave in fitness. Book em, dano. Oh, yeah. Joy bauer. Looking good. Lose weight and look good doing it, right after these messages. My son is going to wash the family prius. He insisted on using the rain to save water. Fourteen years ago, i insisted on buying our first prius. Because like toyota, we both know theres a way to do things, and a way to do things even better. The prius. Toyota, lets go places. Fousugar. Only six . Ns. Six grams of sugar . Thats really good. Excellent, delicious. And yummy honey bunches of oats. Tasty yummy each year 17 billion toilet paper tubes are thrown away in the us alone. Thats enough to fill the Empire State Building. Twice. 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Its called surf, set, fitness, you can go online or look in your local area. Theyre popping up classes. I have to give a shoutout to my trainer who taught me a routine. Show us. We have to swim out and catch a wave. Okay . Thats a big arm workout. So now whats happening, youre getting your heart rate up, working your arms. Willie i see waves willie, grab on. Bring your knees up. Yep. Bring one leg and were going to pop it and now surf. Here we go all right. Surf it out. Now this works the core, right . Because youre balancing the entire time youre doing it. And then cross your arms. Lets do some squats. Now youre working your legs. Here we go. My turn. Get off. Natalie, how about this . Lets do some pushups. You can come down. Come on, natt. You can do it. Wait. Whoa whoa i give you a two thumbs up. Its really fun. Its hard and you guys can imagine being in a class with blasting music and everybody getting it. All right. Check this out. Weve got the beach, the ocean theme going here. Snacks, alternative stuff to what were used to eating. Seaweed is so hot right now. Whats great about seaweed from the nutrition standpoint, it has some vitamin c, omega 3s and very low calorie. These are delicious. This is called sea snacks. And then we have and this is a barbecue flavor. So good. And that is a teriyaki flavor. We have guinea over there for a sesame. And i thought this was really cool. This was 479 degrees popcorn infused with seaweed, and sesame. Seaweed is everywhere. I love seaweed. Really tasty. Its really good. And, again, real low calorie. Okay. Youre seeing protein everywhere, all kinds of dressings. Chips. Protein is sort of like the nutrition golden child right now. It stabilizes your blood sugars and keeps you feeling full. Dont you have to be careful . Just because they slap protein on something, it doesnt necessarily mean its good. Definitely. Definitely. And im glad you said that. So the company that im showing you here are clean. The ingredients are nice. And they have added some protein in different shapes and forms. So that you get salad dressing, for example, four tablespoons, about 100 calories, which is lowcal, four tablespoons. Ten grams of protein. If you want to try this. This is a whey protein. In a caesar dressing. Okay. These chips, whats really cool about this, the first ingredient, whole beans. So instead of regular cheese doodles, youre getting a decent size serving for 120 calories and 5 grams of protein. They also have chili lime. Good crunch. If you can believe this, 21 grachls protein. What . They are also adding the whey protein. And these are baked too, right . Yes. And regular potato chips have no protein. This is quest. And this is a Company Called if. Which is kind of cool. Theyre using egg whites. I am very biased to the cinnamon sugar. This has about 5 grams of protein. And ips stands for intelligent protein snacks. I love this stuff. Can we find these easily . I feel i dont see this stuff in my Grocery Store. Do you go to the Grocery Store . I do. You can find them at whole foods, walmart, trader joes. I would tell people to go on the website and look toe store locators. Theyll tell you exactly where to get them in your area. What is this thing here . Im not telling you yet. These are beverages that have a secret ingredient thats a little bit out of the box. You guys sip it and tell me what you think it is. Let me be the guinea pig, right . Hmmm, interesting. I dont know, but i dont like it. Banana . Strawberry . Whole grains. Oh, its grain. So people are trying to get whole grains into their diet. We know theyre good for us. Fiber. So these companies, the one you tried has quinoa in it. This is nuwi quinoa smoothies, this has barley and oats and whole wheat. This is under 200 calories. Some people may like them, al. Not bad. I honestly like them. Really . Come on. This one is a good vegan milk alternative. So for people that are either dairy sensitive or trying to stay away from dairy. Thanks for looking out for us. Joy bauer, thanks so much. This is today on nbc. These are really good doing her pushups. Im redeeming myself. I can do pushups. You are about the fittest person i know. 30 31 she keeps doing them. Erica hill, whats coming up this weekend . Well, natalie, i think youre going to need a snack later. The perfect segue on today. You guys likely know dylan and i especially like food, we love to cook and eat. So we decided to combine those things. Go a little slower. Take your time. We went to benny hanna where you can learn to be a chef. And we flipped rice bowls. Get out. Yes. Shrimp into the hat. And i did it. At 1800dentist, were about one thing. Helping you find a dentist youll want to go to for the rest of your life. Weve helped over 8 Million People find that dentist, and we can do the same for you. Call 1800dentist today. Good morning, everyone, 9 56. Im scott mcgrew. Police in san jose investigating the citys 26th homicide so far this year. They say a woman was found on the sidewalk near the 101 880 interchange. She has not been identified, but investigators say she suffered bluntforce trauma. Two people of interest have been taken into custody. Bart commuters will not see relief from crowded trains any time soon. Crews still fixing several train cars with defective wheels. Those defects were discovered after a wheel fell off a moving train in Pleasant Hill late last month. Bart did an inspection after that incident, found 20 cars with defective wheels. This could take another two weeks to get all of those cars fixed. Well, lets get your weather check with anthony. Good morning. Good morning, we have looking at a warm day, in fact, we have cleared out across the coastline, San Francisco looking at blue skies, even across the north bay, blue sky there. 81 in San Francisco, near 99 in the north bay, east shore, youre up to 82. Even the south bay, very warm today. 93 degrees. Warmest will be without a doubt the trivalley, 102. Anywhere you go, take it easy, remember to drink water if you have to be outside. Lets switch gears and talk about some traffic. This is san jose on 101, you can see it really starts to slow because of construction near the 880 interchange there. Otherwise no accidents through palo alto on 101 to san mateo. Few spots of slowing and here is the bay bridge toll plaza. Lanes really looking good for this time of day. Of course, this friday and well keep you posted on the weekend forecast at 11 00 today. Scott . Lots about the 49ers, as well, at 11 00 and another local news update in half an hour. From nbc news, this is today. With Kathy Lee Gifford and hoda kobt from studio 1 a in rockefeller plaza. Hello everybody, welcome to friday, hope youre going to have a great weekend ahead. You know what, im taking it easy. You need too. I am taking it easy. Im on my way to california for a fast two days to go visit my stuff. If you know what i mean. Uhhuh. We have a chalked full day here. Susie horman, she is no nonsense, whos wrong with you, youre not saving your money. Every time he finishes talking, i feel depressed. I do. Because she makes me feel like oh my gosh, its over. Im so far behind. Danny is here, if you like that sort of thing. Im kidding. And mason jars, wait until you see. And you need to see a shrink . Maybe. Were going to talk about when therapy is necessary and when its not. Okay. Okay. Here are pressing and important questions. And it has to be solved today. We are going to solve it. Is it okay to show your bra straps, like that . Now we do it often here accidentally, or at least i do. So one of our producers was at a party, and she snapped this picture. Ive seen this before. I thought it was a fashion statement. Okay. So something, i was like i thought if they were clear then i thought people were weared colored ones and thats now trendy and cool. We went to the source to find out is it trendy or a mistake. Who would know better than the Costume Designer for girl. When they wear costumes. We didnt actually ask her. We just read what they wrote. Anyway. Heres what they said. Their response is, or her response is, there is a time and a place for it, at the beach, its fine, but its not appropriate in other places, especially the workplace. But that wasnt a workplace, that was a party. And if your bra straps are showing make its sure make sure its a fashion statement. Moved in a started that. She says the beast, its okay to flop around, everything hanging out, but dont show your bra straps. You didnt need to do the hand motions. This is whats wrong with the world. Show the world your junk, but dont show your bra strap. The support, the things that support your junk. Thats interesting. Youre right, but wed love to know what you think. Go on your facebook, our facebook, or maybe well revisit on monday. Forget about it. I looked at this and said the signs that your relationship is on shaky grounds, by these standard, we have two feet in the Divorce Court right now. Huff post again, these are the signs that your relationships on the shaky ground. Think about these. Number one, you go to bed at different times. Yes. Now some people do it out of necessity. You have to wake up at the crack of dawn. And he doesnt give a rip. He doesnt care. Right. Heres what happens. In that little window of time before you crash, you talk, you catch up on the day no. You dont . What goes on. Were watching the news. And you have the tv in. Not in our bedroom, we watch downstairs in our family room. I take bambi snow and i get out of town if you know what i mean. Go not next one. If you no longer know each others pass words. I never knew it to begin with. Okay good. This is very important. You stop arguing and you start feeling ambivalent about your partner, you dont care. You stop arguing because you know youre never going to win it. You know. Nothing changes. Hes set in his ways, im an old bird myself. You start to accept one another. But there is a point where you dont care, you know when apathy creeps in. Its like it doesnt matter. I didnt care, im not worried. Nothing upsets me anymore about what you say or do. See this is what they say. The sign of the trouble in relationships is not the intensity of the hatred, i didnt know we were talking about hatred, but apathy. I think if youve been married a long, long time. You reach a certain place where you realize that this person is unique, and if you love them one youre going to accept certain things, and you learn to laugh more. Or else you do go to Divorce Court. You laugh about it. Or therapy. And theres a difference between accepting them and not caring. Apathy is like you do what you want, im not interested, im not going to fight this. When you stop caring, and doing for them. And effort. Then they also say when youre out alone, all you talk about are the kids. A lot of people do that. When frank and i are alone together, thats all we talk about too. Really . Pretty much. I dont know why you said no you dont. I have no idea. Alone. I just jumped on it. I felt like being difficult. Remember yesterday about listening . Yep. You know what a great statement for the listening thing is . What . Here it is, if we could all do this, be here now. Yes. Wherever you are, dont think about your phone, im only with you, im not thinking about oh my weekends starting soon. Im with you. I am all here. Thats what youre thinking, trust me. Heres video thatll make you happy on a friday. Okay. So this is pure excitement. This is a little dog named groefr, a pug love him already. The owner filled the playpen with plastic balls and favorite toys and then hilarity ensued, take a look. Oh my god, hes so happy. Oh, look at him. He doesnt real how germy it is in there. Oh my gosh, hes running in circles. Oh my gosh. Hes going to be i cant handle it. That is the cutest thing. That is so cute. All right. So theres a whole new thing about modern grandparents, hoda. What did you call your grandparents . Grandmother and grandpa. Me too. My kids do too. In the new People Magazine which features a tribute to joan rivers, i cant wait to read it. Theres a sweet photo of susan and her daughter ava and her new grandchild. And she doesnt want to be call grandma, shes not, she goes by honey. Thats kind of cute. Other famous grandmas have chosen to go by different names as with el. All right. Now goldie haun likes to be go go. But he was a go go girl. So cute. It totally fits her. Lalo, we dont know why. And i fell in love, i love marie oz. Monday, i love them, and i love maries nutrisystem commercials. Thats your girlfriend, marie. All right. So nay. This one is adorable, i dont know if youve seen it. Check this out. The first time i heard the word grandma, what . At my age. No way. But then, you hold him in your arms, oh, and everything changes. This is my first grandchild steven, and i want to be a part of his life for a long, long time. Yeah, i can own that. Im a glamma. I fell in love with that. Ive never heard that before. Thats cute. Cute baby. And not too soon, please, lord, glamma. I love it. Ten years or so, good. Yep. All right. You know what time its for . Ihoda . No. Okay. Friday funny. Two elderly couples were enjoying a conversation when they asked how the memory clinic. Outstanding fred replied, they told us the latest psychological techniques, vizization, great, wonderful, what was the name of the clinic . Fred went blank. He thought and thought then a smile broke across his face, and he said what do you call that flower with the long stem and thorns. You mean a rose. The then he turned to his wife rose and said what was the name of that memory clinic . We used to love to go to my grandma because she had sclerosis. She would come out with things that were so hiser it call. One day she said to my daughter, what was the name of that man . And daddy would go who mama, you know the one. That man. That man. Yeah. The one hes you know yeah. And my daddy got to frustrated, no mom, i dont know what man. You know that man, your father, what was his name. Thats funny. Kate says yes, it is funny. God bless you. Johnson baby we celebrate new moms. Our first, johnsons baby of the week is caroline joy gregory born at Camp Pendleton on august 4 lt. Third child, but the first baby that dad was able to see being born because he was home from deployment. Next baby of the week is ahria powell born on july 21st. Her parents offer this, take millions of pictures because they grow up so fast. They sure do. Next to a baby born on july shth, his name is Brock Christian white. So cute. This is the first baby for the parents who say it sounded like their any son was screaming mama after seconds of being born. Final johnsons book is Brooklyn Spicer everett. Born in jacksonville, florida. And her parents offer this advice, the first two weeks are the harders, try to remember, you will make it first. Actually the first 21 years are. And if you want to submit your baby for our johnsons baby of the week contest, go to klgandhoda. Com. Time for a shotout of the fan of the week. If you think you deserve to be recognized. You guys are such terrific fans. Tell us why you should chose you to be a fan of the week. Youre getting a trip to the krib yans. If you dont like us, lie, you could win a trip. Make a song. Did i just suggest people lie . See how you are, see the affect youre having on me . You did that on your own. I am stunned. Bobbys buzzing with some red hot fall trends to ease you into the season. And how much should you be saving every month for retirement . Suzeorman. No. Oh no. [ man ] i think this is a good time to tell you youre doing okay, mom. I can call you mom, right . I know we havent known each other very long, but you seem like a real keeper. Youre not perfect. But youre trying. Anyway, i want you to know how much i appreciate you. You know, right . How much i love you. Youre doing okay, mom. Mom usually throws. A gogurt in there. Well moms not here today so were doing things dads way. Which means i get. Two. singing snack time and lunch. singing snack time and lunch. Gogurt because lunch needs some fun. Its part of a hersheys bar. We break it. We bite it. We sneak it. We smoosh it. We savor it. We love it. Hersheys is mine, yours, our chocolate. And for many, its a struggle to keep your a1c down. 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But the realtime to start thinking about that is when youre young. How much should you put away and what should you you have in your nest feg youre a boomer . Here with all the answers is suze orman. Its very popular as you are, okay. Did you just hear the opening of the show you said that the time to start saving is when you are young, hoda. It was in the copy. Okay. Still young compared to frank. I mean, its never too late to start. Yeah, everything has changed. The way, i mean my mom worked for years, shes able to retirement and they have a great retirement program, but a lot of people dont have that. Heres the difference, years ago when you retired, you did, you got a pension, paid your health insurance, things werent as expensive as they are now. Today you have to fund your retirement, you have to pay your health insurance, today the cost of school, education, everything is so out of sight that if you do not start saving for retirement when you are young ish. Ish. And vibrant and have a great job. Youre going to really have to work. The other thing is were all living longer, you guys. Do you know that the average length of life was 65 when they first brought out Social Security . They never expected people to live long enough to collect Social Security. If you can wait until youre 70 to retire, and then start collecting, most people are going to have to work, this is not me with anything, im just delivering what i think is true, i think most people are going to have to work until at least 70 and shouldnt probably take Social Security until 70. Fulltime . Wow. This could help people. Myself included. Okay. When youre starting out in your 20s, how much should you stock away per month if you want to save for retirement and in your 20s, youre not thinking about retirement, youre thinking about buying a car. The key is the sooner you begin, the more the money has to compound which means it earns more the more you will have. You start in the 20s and stay until youre 65 and do 500 a month. You would have about 1. 8 million. Is that enough . It could very easily generate 90 thours taxfree especially in a roth or Something Like that. Could you live on 90,000, only if your expenses are not high. Right. Its always about those expenses. Is the 401k good enough. A lot of people invest, they max it out. Most dont know semitruck a 401k and ira. Me personally, i would only have a roth if your Company Offers it. I would only invest up to the point of the match, they give you a dollar, you put in a dollar, they give you 50 cents, after 6 they dont match. Then do a roth ira if you qualify because you do not want to pay taxes later on when you withdraw it. Youve paid taxes to get the money to put to invest. Now let it grow taxfree. If youre 30 and you start saving 500, those of our viewers. Remember you started innier 20s and now 1. 8 million. Lets say you start at 30. And you do 35 years, youre only going to have like 900,000. Thats 50 less. Only 10 years, 50 less. How are you going to train kids who want to have the new cards clothes. That trip. Its not the new kids today. The kids are understanding. They are seeing their parents suffer. You know that the main people that are calling into the suze orman are saying im worried about my parents, theyre in their 50u6 now. What am i, chopped liver . And they are all worried that their parents spending Credit Card Debt that they wont stop and so the kids are learning not to be like their parents. Its too late in your how or 50s . Its not too late. When you are in your 80s. So what should you be doing in your 40s and 50s. Your main goal rather than saving, obviously always up to the point of the match, if you have a mortgage, and youre going to stay in that house. Make sure it is paid off by the time you retire. Yeah. Okay. Good advice. Who knows what milks going to cost. Who knows. If anything, its unbelievable. Suze, youre so smart. Youre smarter than us. Im not. New season of the show premiers october 4th. Thats what i call a hit show. Dont spend any of the retirement money on decor. How to reinvent. We mark it fine. And bobby thomas gets us mad for plaid. The looks for fall after this. Ar Car Insurance companies . Yes. But youre progressive and theyre them. Yes. But theyre here. Yes. Are you. There . Yes. No. Are you them . Im me. But the lowest rate is from them. Yes. So thems best rate is. Here. So where are them . Arent them here . I already asked you that. When . Feels like a while ago. Want to take it from the top . Rates for us and them. Now thats progressive. Call or click today. You know. Theres a more enjoyable way to get your fiber. Try phillips fiber good gummies. Theyre delicious and an excellent source of fiber to help support regularity. Mmmm. These are good the tasty side of fiber. 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Already near 70 degrees in San Francisco. Later on, near 81 degrees there. 82 in the east shore. The peninsula, very warm at 92. South bay, 93 for the day. North bay near 99 and the trivalley near 102. We have cooler weather in store for the weekend. Not all that cool, just by a couple degrees, but next week near average and finally the first chance of the season for showers wednesday night, into thursday. Well keep tabs on that. In the meantime, no major accidents to report. Traffic starting it to lighten up, especially 101 coming through palo alto. Through the peninsula, san mateo seeing slowing, but looking good. Our final check of the bay bridge toll plaza shows wide open lanes, a few spots slowing, but fog already lifted and temperatures are going to warm. More about the weekend forecast coming up at 11 00. More local news, as well, coming up on the big show. Well see you then. Were back with more on today on this friday. Its time for the love and dating views. When our resident male advisor answers your relationship questions. He is today contributor and host of iheart kansas radio. Hath you, hello. Hi. Yes, it is. All right, our first question comes from an email from becca, she says i dated a guy that recently got out of a three year relationship. The idea of being his rebound is stressing me out. Im ready for a serious longterm relationship and i dont want to waste my time. Am i overthinking this . Say something to him, what should i do . I think every woman wants a man who knows himself. One of the things that in a strange way i admired about George Clooney is at least he was honest. Least he said it, and i think so many women are used to dealing with men that are not honest. If hes still hung up on it, you at least need to know. How are you going to know, ask him why they broke up. What was it . It was about the person, the good question is was it to do with the woman youre with or the stage of your life . Well its a bit of both, which one it was more of. So busy with work. Then you know those excuses are the common denominator. You have to talk to him about that and get to know him. But it might be a way of keeping the relationship from going deeper. Its just convenient for him to say, im really not over it. He may be over her. Thats what men do. The wounded card. Im so heart. I want to have a sexual relationship with you, but i dont want you to take it seriously. Ice god because you can have it both ways. Were on to you now. Okay, now we have a skype question from ashley. Ashley, whats your question . Hi, im ashley. Im 26 years old, and matthew, ive heard you say that its public to meet men everywhere we go, well, im always holding my head up, always smiling, i have a positive attitude, i like to let people know im into it, how do i get guys my age to go past just text messaging and asking me out . Good question. Okay. Every guy wants that combination of being able to chase you, but also feeling like hes going to get a yes somewhere in the process. You dont want to be too easy, but not too difficult. Just smiling and positive attitude wont do. I remember very recently i was walk tlaug hotel lobby with three guy friends, and there was a group of women walking in the other direction, and a couple of them smiled, and they gave us every sign that they wanted us to talk to them. And we still didnt. Why . Why didnt you . Because were idiots. Were guys. We go they probablimented to talk to us. Heres what they did do, walked past and one of them turned around and said, in her head i said im going to give it one extra thing. She went where are you guys going . And just saying where are you guys going, we walked straight back, talked to them, we ended up spending the night and having a great time. Not like that, hoda. You have a very steady no, it wasnt like that. No, or yeah you do . Chose your words carefully. This is the problem with men and women and the relationships. Thats the point, they went that slight extra mile. And i always say, just go one millimeter further than you normally would and youll be surprised what the results are. Go for it, sweetie. Thank you. We have one last question from kathleen, i volunteer with a guy, and i like him and want to get to know him better. What should i do to take the next step . One who shes friendly with outside of work . I volunteer with the guy. With this guy, first you want to Start Talking to him, but a nice way would be to call out the fact that you dont know each other well. Look and say we never really talk. I dont know anything about you. And then, just in line with what we said, give him that hint that you like him a little bit. But dont say should we go get coffee . No. I recall we never speak. Its like this cute guy over here, and we dont know each anything about it. 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Mason jars have been around as long as i have, maybe longer, since the 1850s. That was good. Thank you. Lately weve been seeing a lot of them used as design accents everywhere from weddings to catalogs. Here with ideas is the editor and chief of the naturally danny seal magazine which is a huge hit. Congratulations. Thanks, oh no. I bow to you, thanks to you. Because you came on our show. I think so. Fascinating. You are like oprah light. That could be translated so many ways. Were going to forget you said that. Ill redeem myself, look at these. You talked about the jars. Mason jars. If you look, you can make these marquee wise. I did an h and k, drill a hole, couple of screws, Energy Efficient lights, and its adorable. Thats cute. In a college dorm or something. Yeah. Like really, really cute. So what. So weve talked about like these jars, because usually for the last 130 years, the ball jar has been around for cans jams and jellies. Now a third are actually now being used for crafting purposes. Oh wow. Because theyre just charming. Theyre cute. I love them. We have a garden here basically. If you take the jar, the way is to plant a succulent garden. Basically anything thats they dont need as much moisture. Exactly. And this is a great thing to hang like in a bathroom because the hunldty from your shower should be enough. To keep them alive. Youre a genius. I dont believe im saying that, youre a genius. How does it stay up on the wall . You need a hose clamp. Youll find this in the plumbing section. Twist to open it. Tighten it on the top. Genius. Thats very, very cute. One and done. Now this, this is another flea market staple that you can find. These are old keys. And if you come here, i have tools oh genius, danny. You wonder how the bend the key. Take your needle nose ply, hold it tight, and take the other clamp that you have here and you just, very carefully, you fwend up. You see what im doing here . Bend it like beckham. Mind bent. Oh my gosh. Oh gosh. I think its the first time weve all successfully done something together. But this is so cute though. Look. Yeah, its adorable. Were going to keep with the bending theme. Maps arage kuwaited now, they are so cute. Why not just wrap them over your book. I used to love to wrap my books in school. Did you do construction paper . Yeah. Easy, were going to bend more things. Okay. And were going to bend them just like the key. But this time, i want you to sort of bend them like this, and you see the lights in french, were going to make a beautiful spoon light. So theyre hanging right down there. There it is, right on the monitor. Basically what i do is i just sort of wrap the spoons all the way around and around and around the light fixture. And then we take a little bit of wire and put this. And like floral design. Again, think about old spoons, things with like embellishments. And not matchy matchy. I think its better when its different. Here we go. Sand paper. Im not like the sos pad. Think about the really ugly vases you get, like cheap florists, spray print them, then to age them, take this, and you rub. You see what im doing. Yeah. And it gives it this old instant see, i thought this was the finished one. Thats for you. I thought that was the good one. No, if you want to be modern and cool, but look at this. Antique style. Because were celebrating the canning jar. Thats nice. Danny, i dont believe it, its a home run. Way to go, buddy. Good to see you. The new jeter. Well youre jeterlike. Its time to work on your wardrobe. White hot item you sproebl in your closet coming up after this. California is known for its grapes and so is my family. Over three generations have taught us about growing the best tasting fruit. Our grapes ripen on the vine so that the flavors can fully develop. And only the most experienced hands harvest them to bring quality fruit to your table. 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And what we did is this is a casual look. Wear it pair with pear of leggings, throw on a sweater, belt, hat, and then add a great tote. Mix brown and black, love that as well. Fab oversized glasses from old navy as well. And access pris. Cute. And youre ready to go. So cute. Thats casual. Thank you. Carmen. Isnt this great weekend . How adorable is this . Now you put it under the sweater, but you see the cuffs, tops, especially if you have a bigger backside, carmen does not, but this is the way to do it in a secretive way. Add a necklace if you want another touch. Loving this necklace and a clutch. And a black shoe because theres a lot going on. It evens it out. Very cute. What is lauren wearing . Elegant. Lauren is going from day tonight. Youre in your cubicle and you have your work outfite, then you are going out on a hot date. You have the neckless on, blazer off, and then you just add a clutch. Got it. You could pull. Shes just standing there, everyones all over here. Then you add a clutch and shes ready. As a wrap. I didnt have that, see. And then this excuse us. Hello. This is cocktail hour. Now i wore this to an affair, this is out my of closet and it was leek everybody said you look dynamite. It remind me so much of when sharon stone did that at the academy awards. Watt j. Crew. Then you add a clutch and a great necklace. Then you go from day so beautiful. 49. Thats from a vintage shop a million years ago. Nice job, jill. You are awesome. Thank you. Do you handle stress . We dont have any. Impulse shopping or mindless eating. You need to see a shrink. First, this is today on nbc. All right. Used to be if you saw a therapist you kept it hush hush, over the years, seeking help has become talked about just like going to the gym is. And recommending it is no longer taboo, or Jerry Seinfeld didnt think so when he suggested therapy to george. You need help, regular psychiatrist couldnt help you. You need to go to like vienna or something. You need to get involved at the university level, like where freud studied and have people looking at you. Thats the kind of help you need. Not the once a week for 80 bigs, you need a team. How do you know when its time and if its really working. Here with insight is the michael list, the clinical psychologist. We love it when you come because you give really good advice. Yeah, youre smart. When is it right to see a therapist . I think there are people who find themselves in broken relationships or lost a loved one or Something Like that struggling. You need something. When should you go . Its when you see repeating patterns like ive done this before, ive had this fight before. Or the same relationship over and over again. Like, i daylighted this man dated this man before. He had a mustache last time, now its not working. Or if you find yourself going back to the same patterns. If off bad day at work and you always hit the bars hard or you always do Retail Therapy to the point where youve got big credit card bills. I think people think, i have a good friend or sister or husband or somebody, i dont need a shrink. Im fine with that. Is that sometimes enough . Sometimes it is, but, the value of having a therapist is someone thats outside of your circle of friends. Because imagine that youre disclosing something really personal to a friend, then you go like about a boyfriend or Something Like that, and you go on a double date with that person, how uncomfortable because youve talked about your boyfriend. Having therapist is someone that is outside of your sucker m, but also thats outside of your circle, but also someone thats trained. Do some people use it as basically to fill the void of a loneliness in their life. Say they dont have friends and all of the sudden, their psychiatrist becomes the one person that listens to them. But thats unhealthy as well, isnt it . Absolutely. Sort of a dependence on therapy. If you find youre always going to your therapist and you need to ask them before you make any decisions. Thats a red flag that its time to thats neurooutic. What do you know its worked . What when are you cured . I have friends still going, im like youre still going, its like years after the fact. When is it over . Thats a great question. I think the thing has to do with action. You know, insight into your problems is helpful, but its about action. If youre doing Something Different in your life to make changes that are significant, thats how you know that therapy is working. And if youre not taking action in your life, then its probably time to consider Something Else. Are there problems that you have to carry . You think about people, i mean these are big things, people been through world war ii, big, big, big things that you cant untangle. Like certain tragedies in life, you just have to carry and be a productive person, dont you sometime . You do. You cant fix it. You cant fix those experiences, but what you can do is transform those into something for other people. So for example, if you take away, like help other people been through similar experiences or make an art out of something or writing about it can be helpful for other people. And finding the right therapist isnt always easy. How do you know who to go to . You know, i think it has to do with fits. You know, having the initials at the end of your name does not make you good. Its about who you are same thing with any doctor. Thats right. Just show up, meet them, and find out. And keep trying. Its like i think about it like dating. You wouldnt necessarily marry the first person you started dating. And the same thing with a therapist, if it doesnt feel right, keep going. Ultimately, you should end, then not just pay their rent for the rest of their lives. Thats right. Thank you, good to see you. Next week, Jada Pinkett Smith will be with us. And what a, wow. Guess who else . Your boyfriend craig ferguson. And Bryce Dallas Howard will be here. Everyone has a story, and have we got one for you, have an awesome weekend everybody. See you on monday. Nbc bay area news starts now. Good morning, everyone, thank you for joining us. Im kris sanchez. It is san joses 26th homicide of the year, a woman who was apparently brutally attacked found on the sidewalk around 2 30 this morning. This all happened at 15th street and commercial near oakland road and the 880 101 interchange. Stephanie chuang is there live. The question is always, is there a search for a suspect, should the rest of us be concerned . Reporter yeah, good morning to you, kris. Police saying theres no search active for an outstanding suspect. They have also confirm