Good evening. And thanks for joining us. We all know that having kids changes everything, and for many, that includes their sex lives. The infrequency of marital relations, particularly for new parents has long been a punch line, and often a reality. But one woman is looking to change that. By helping mommys and a few daddies get their groove back. Heres abcs Lindsay Davis. If this scene from quick knocked up looks like a scene right out of your life what do you think . Should we have sex tonight . Ehhh. Im just really constipated. This is jack. Shes the mother of two adorable girls. That right hip is moving back. A parttime Yoga Instructor and is also a dula who helps deliver babies at all hours of the day and night. Like millions of mothers of Young Children thats not to play with jax can barely get through a conversation. And with her hectic schedule, theres hardly any time left in her day or night for this guy, her husband martin. Hi. Ever since having babies, jax says she and her husband have become virtual strangers. Im going to prepare them and then you have to cook them. In one area in particular. Would you say your sex life drastically changed post children . Yes. Its pretty nonexistent. After your first when youre nursing, this is for your children only, not anyone else. Its all about the kids. Its all about the two of us passing like ships in the night. Not quite in the league of this moment from bridesmaids. I need a trip that i can fantasize forever so im able to have sex with my husband. Reporter but jax was worried. Did your husband complain . No. And hes a good guy. He would mention it. He would say things, we need to do this. And i would be like yeah, yeah, or whatever. Im just tired. I would rather sit with a glass of wine and the dvr, you know. That was my goto. I had my own reasons for being curious. As a soontobe mom myself. Do you miss some of the romance and spontaneity that may have existed in your marriage that with kids is almost impossible . I will just say spontaneity, thats the right word. You cant just do things with the winds. Enter dana myers, who Sells Everything from skimpy lingerie to, well, things we cant say on our show. At first, i thousand this is a whip. Now im going to guess this is a stimulator . Yeah. If you want to go 50 shades style you can use a little extra oomph. Reporter she began hearing store i ares like jax from many friends who have kids. So she started workshops for couples to get their mojos back. Youre up night if your baby is not sleeping. Theres this kind of cumulative exhaustion that happens. A lot of moms become very focused on the child. Andless focused on themselves and on presidethe relationship. Things start to take a bit of a nose dive in the bedroom. Reporter when jaxs friend first emailed her for signing up for the class, she wasnt sure it was her thing. At first i ignored it. Reporter but her friend would not take no for answer. She said im 7 months pregnant and im going to this. I thought oh, maybe it will be fun. A kiddy play space by day, but on this night, home to a group of young moms who drink wine, get glamed up and talk sex. Anybody read erotica this week . No. Reporter and nothing is off the table. You field your orgasm building. Yep, hes got it, hes got it. And then he starts doing something thats too flicky, too fast, its all wrong. You know what i mean . Its all wrong. No, no. Reporter on the lesson blan, an erotica reading by a hunky guy and rehearsing a burlesque dance routine. Your man doesnt actually want you to be a porn star. He just wants you to have the enthusiasm that porn stars have. I would be more turned on watching a soap versus hi. Let me take my clothes off. Before you even know my needs. Dana says sometimes their lack of desire can come from resentment towards their husband. That seems to be a common theme where women feel like they cooked and cleaned and bathed the baby and spit up going down their back and their husband is kind of tapping them like hey, what about me . Right, yes, yes. And i think that what happens is women stop asking for help. Or sometimes our husbands will volunteer to help but we dont like how theyre doing it. I tell the women first ask for help, ask for help in small direct requests. Say would you bring me dinner at 7 00 . Would you come home early from work tonight to help me with bedtime. Did anyone use the w word this week . Reporter after hearing about the teachings in the class, i have one burning question. How are you doing keeping up your homework assignments . It sounds like its pretty rigoro rigorous. Theres, like, five Different Things you need to do during the week. One long love making session. One quickie, two selfloving sessions for yourself. And then one special treat for your husband. Reporter have you heard about some of the homework assignments . Yeah. Reporter did you think they were good ideas . Sure. When i heard, i couldnt keep a straight face. Reporter its clearly a topic that some husbands may not be totally comfortable talking about. And with mojo homework also came a different kind of goody bag. I didnt even know what some of the stuff was. Reporter what did you buy . I said i didnt buy anything. It came inned go ened the goodi. So it kind of broke the ice. For every couple, spacing things up means Different Things. It might mean a different time of day. It might mean a different room. Before the kids came, martin and jax didnt always struggle to have alone time. I was looking at this picture of you guys in tahiti. Did you have a lot more of those kinds of moment where is it was just the two of you prior to babies . Absolutely. The reason we dont have a house right now is because we always spent money on travel. Reporter what would your advice be to me about how to keep the romance alive after you have the baby. Dont forget, you know, what brought baby into this world. I. Im going to send you with your own mommy mojo goodie bag. Reporter my husband thankses you for sure. And speaking of husbands, they need to be willing to change, too. They need to step up to the plate and say how can i help you, i want to make this better. Reporter jax and her husband have carved out more time for each other. Now were trying to make a date night every week and were not going to make excuses about it. Were going to talk tobt maintenance people about getting a lock on our door. We dont have a lock on our bedroom door. Reporter for nightline, im Lindsay Davis in new york. To get more of danas tips, go to abcnews. Com nightline. Coming up next, were taking off with a team of men who learned how to fly. So who should we bring along . How about someone whos really afraid of heights . Dont look down. Are you flo . 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People who turn hand springs as they look down on the clouds. How exactly do they do it and why. We chased them around the alps to find out. Staring down danger is a way of life for these men. Theyre always pushing themselves and each other to go farther and higher. Reporter the idea that you appreciate life more when you court your biggest fears is something that im having trouble getting onboard with. Keep moving. Keep moving. Im try popping. You see, i am terrified of heights. Look down into the valley. Embrace your fears. I cant. And when we were invited to go to the summit of chamonoix to watch them train, my nerves are already getting the best of me. Oh, boy. So when we get to the top, i glue myself to the only place that seems safe. I feel like a Little School kid. Im just going to sit here and wait. But he decides to take me on as a project. Sometimes i have the same feeling. Im really, really scared but i know if i overcome this fear, i feel like im floating on the clouds. Reporter how do you get to that point . By pushing myself. Reporter i dont know if im that brave. Clearly not the case for these flying frenchies. Today for fun, they will throw themselves off the mountain and attempt to cross in midair. Its like driving a car. You can have an accident anytime if youre not focused. Reporter good luck. Thank you. Reporter thats okay. You guys just leave me. They believe theyre pulled to the edge by an instinct so basic its from when humans were predators, hunters. The need to find their own food. And they will have an adrenaline rush. You need to be calm, quiet, no noise and then there are people like me. Reporter these rugged alps have become their playground, but theyve also learned some hard lessons about their own limitations. People used to say to me yo start to feel powerful. I was doing the action without feeling the fear anymore and the danger. The fear always has to be there. Because if youre not scared anymore, it means you dont feel the danger and you will have an accident. Reporter distracted while filming his friend during the stunt, tancred lost focus. I followed my friend when he was opening his parachute, i wept b on my back. I turned around and i realized i was too low already. I opened my parachute and i hit the ground. Tancred broke some bones and not long afterwards, his friend broke his back. Humbled and wisened from this experience, just four months later, they are pushing the boundaries of Human Capacity once again. One stunt is a second in the life. But the whole process is days maybe months. So if you dont enjoy the journey, you miss most of the joy. They will attempt to cross from one peak to the other on a oneinch wide piece of nylon. Understand you are on the line, you just enjoy the crossing. One of top sky divers in the world, julian is able to do much more than cross. But since becoming a father, his taste for tempting fate has diminished. Now he wears a security leash. I say okay, maybe i want to do it solo, but is it worth it. Untethered. You need to stay focused all the time. While on the line, he takes on a trancelike state. Sometimes its like you lose reality. You are getting outside your body and looking at yourself from a point and suddenly you realize oh, my god, what am i doing here . Reporter the experience overwhelms him and he falters. Then purposefully, he falls to give himself a moment to calm down. Its a situation he has prepared for. He gets back on the wire a then this is what they mean by facing your fears. He knew the risk, he had a plan and thats what saved him and enabled him to go on. For nightline in chamonix, france. Amazing. If you think that was frighten, join us tomorrow night for this truly incredible journey. Were right up there with the sky walkers as they attempt an entirely new and scary stunt. 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