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June is sponsored by hope for the heart on 1100. Welcome to hope in the light late night talk radio offering biblical hope and practical help I'm rich Hooper so glad that you have joined us going to give you a couple of phone numbers to write down these numbers are going to be your connection to us here right here and hope in the night those numbers coming up in just a little bit so grab a pen and some paper and it will give you those coming up right now joining me is author and speaker June hunt Good evening Jim Thank you Rich and I just left the home of a new widow and. Earlier after she called me a few days ago and I had given her a scripture because I knew she was fearful the only thing she was fearful of is if . Her husband would die before she did. And he was on a treadmill and he somehow I'm just going to say it this way he walked into the arms of Jesus and. She says she had told me about this. We've talked. Regularly. And I knew her fear and she said I just I just can't imagine being the law on. A said well if you just think about this you are not alone and I know you can say oh yes I understand that but and by the way there will be loneliness there will be pain there will be heartache there will be sorrow there will be times of missing that is so deep but just to realize what the truth is and this is when I gave her Deuteronomy $3018.00 which I told her has become Right now my favorite verse. In the Bible it's clear. The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you he will never leave you know for sake you do not be afraid do not be discouraged and when I gave it to her she went oh oh that's against her said yes so every day multiple times during the day she has spread that scripture she's taught that scripture into her heart and I had asked her to make it personal the Lord himself goes before me and will be with me you will never leave me. 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You know a little less that my wife. Wasn't to me a half year affair with a married guy who had to kill her and. One Surveillant mature veil that was done to sleep down stated and I thought the warden started to pursue her and was hoping that. You know God save our marriage and their family we have you know we have children and I thought that was really what the Lord wanted me to do unfortunately after about a year and a half of doing that. You know this past July. I moved out and. You know I'm waiting for divorce process which I still printing again. So I'm struggling with just those feelings of rejection I'm struggling with all those things and trying to forgive her but I think the biggest challenge I have now . Is that my children are so hurt by really hurt her checking out for years during the affair. She motioned me check. Your know she was we didn't know no one knew the affair was going on and she actually described she just she was gone she was there but she wasn't there and everyone felt it and my oldest child who lives with me now. Is very hurt and I had a friend come over you know several weeks ago and he went to his parents went through a divorce and I listened to my daughter actually talk about that she doesn't remember having a mother and you know completely disconnected. So my question is it I guess it's easier for me on some level to forgive because the Lord calls us to do that. Where it's hard is that she's not. You know my wife is not owning or doesn't understand the game and that in putting on my children and I have no way to tell or that yet I'm dealing with the pieces of that with my kids who say I remember you know what she was like before and I could never say that to you know my wife question to be ex-wife because she wouldn't give me the opportunity so I just left like a kid and saying Ok you know God can do anything. Just watch her pregnant but in my heart I don't know if I believe that I feel angry that she she did that to them and she's still doing it to about them and I know the importance trust what . I'm really struggling with that and physically my kids every day it doesn't have to be this way and that's what I'm struggling with us to make them. Oh yes. Innocent cute or right many times a person. Causing tremendous pain they can physically be there but emotionally gone emotionally checked in there for not really connecting the 2 in this case her children tell me the ages of your children. $713.17 Ok so she is close to the. 7 year old a 13 year old they both live with her. And needs 17 year old was with me. Yes. And she was the oldest and really for her she took on. The in the mother role to the 2 younger ones because she you know so we did what we normally did but because she had a silly Scottish checked out. There was other things that she would say the reason you know she struggled with a concussion or this or that but ultimately that the ultimate thing once they hire an invalid a motional can now you know it's just my daughter did all those things she ran birthday parties she helped me put the kids develop She initially did things with me the family stuff we became like the 2nd years family not really understanding I didn't understand what was going on I just. I thought there was something wrong but not not that I would never have thought that was going on. But you know that your Southern. Bike. If when you learned it was about 2 and a half years ago. 2 years earlier it was I've left discuss July it was the previous July that she revealed that but once she revealed that she didn't want to you know work on the marriage she had already she was done and I stayed in the house and tried to be loved and all sorts of stuff I was praying that I mean to Ok I love you this wrong things I did wrong thinking I could win her heart doc and in reality her heart was already gave away the someone else and she no matter what I would do she would never perceive it as good like I could . You know because I mean a lot of mistakes in my marriage and I you know that's a place where you come to the Lord and say what goodness did I do and you know God showed me a lot of mistakes and I mean I was a mature. Spiritual Leader her encourage her and make it a priority for her to walk with the Lord I didn't so those g.e. Porcelaine I was you know I'm really tough but just loving my children working in. I had a son with medical issues so I really got involved in that and cannot say to you I didn't think it was the priority because I thought the kids were 30 I just had a balance. And I couldn't see clearly and then afterwards I could see it but it was too late and so I thought Ok forgive her and Christopher but she didn't she didn't never come back and I and China and China and China and. And I left and I tried to go back but you know she's like No don't come back and and I'm still praying for a miracle and you know I know I love her but parts part of me is just as angry to listen to cannot for this you're hurting everyone you don't want to. But I guess you know you know I wasn't sure enough I know there are no jury was. Just and I know the Lord called them defiant and I think you said it was awesome you know. Award called the statue I don't know the passage again but it wonders if we don't forget that our Heavenly Father wants them. That that simple little scripture that is so poignant. It's immediately following the Lord's Prayer. For some people call it the model prayer but it's it's a poignant passage in Matthew 6 1st 14 if you forgive people when they sin against you your heavenly Father will also forgive you but if you do not forgive their sins your father will not forgive your sins. Now I just want to clarify since you. And you are paying attention and you obviously care what God says the word forgive means release and as a man who met me is this Have you humbled your heart and truly yielded your life to the Lord Jesus Christ receiving Him is your Lord Lord and Savior giving him control of your life yeah yeah yeah and I thought you would say Yes So with that and the reason I'm pointing this out is for. Those who are not Christians they lack of forgiveness can be a block to salvation because it says the Lord will not forgive your sins but understanding the word forgive means release with that word. You are secure. Because you've given your life to the Lord when you do that you were promised eternal life is that correct it doesn't but I will say that Ok so you have eternal life now how long is eternal. Exactly so you're not going to lose something that he's given you to last that's going to last forever but what occurs is. A lack of release which can be a heaviness of heart it can be this kind it's a lack of freedom you don't have freedom you don't have the freedom of forgiveness when it if you don't forgive and it's more of a of of just it's like no I will not forgive that it's not deserved it and for all the reasons that people don't forgive they it's like you know look what you've done and it's true it these are wrong things terrible things that have caused hurt and harm to your children and you know it's one thing if so at times it it it's one thing it dumbs when we're hurt to nothing when someone so in dear do you like a child is hurt sometimes it's easier when things happen to us as opposed to those whom we love the most. And therefore because children are vulnerable and. Innocent byproduct of what has gone on. It's it's especially painful so that the concept here is it is true if there will be a kind of bondage that you would have if you don't forgive but we've got to figure out what how do you forgive when all this injustice has taken place because it is absolutely wrong. What she has done and by the way when you said you know what my done I just. And one has to be clear about where. The blame is we're going to talk about that. The tendency is to say Bill Well I like I cause this I caused this but we've done talk about that we've got to talk about what is rightfully yours and what is rightfully only person in terms of responsible. In the midst of your wholeness and help you to learn to emulate the one who best models forgiveness for all of us Jesus Christ to forgive when you don't feel like it is available by calling our order line at 1804. 18048 home or you can order a few hundreds of other powerful hope for the hard resources when you visit our website and hope for the heart God org. 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And that was a 2 and a half so she had been with him for 2 in a half years and he also has children yes and what is the status of their relationship now. As far as I know. They never got together not to just do one to be married anymore to me and they clearly demonstrated for years. But. I. Saw the Lord and I felt like God was telling me there 1st. I knew which didn't a lot of my non-Christian friends and family said You're crazy and I know the heart of God is forgiveness. Is that the heart of. All these things that sounded so great at the time and then you know here we are almost 2 years later and it's just been awful you know pursue this. Trail of trying to win her back current law her career pretty back a miracle it just didn't happen and I think in not. It was hard because I didn't want to open and leave the house but my greatest fear was when I lost the House passed a lie and and now the kids are even more hurt than ever and now. Bouncing between house to house and just you know expressing so much pain and. Frustration and specially my daughter who doesn't she have them and she stated that she stated me the whole time and she said just the other night I spent in your view actually listening to the show going today. We're called we're called to forgive the matter of war and then she said I know but she didn't you know the forgiveness she's not pursuing she doesn't even know what she did now she didn't she doesn't know what actually transpired but she knew. You know that she knew the feelings of her mom emotionally disconnect and she doesn't know the intricacies of you know what my wife did but. Me But she she tends to hang she never even 10 I'm sorry and today I just didn't say anything after that I just kind of stopped talking about it. And so are you saying that the children don't know that there was an affair that their mother was having. They they don't know and. I think my daughter. No bits and pieces no specific items suspicions but it was and told my younger Gen and don't. You know I think just because of. You know there was dynamics I think you could probably figure out in the sense of we had conversations often during the fear that she would say where is money going everything and this is just for years and we would drive to school every school and we were trying to almost make jokes about it and say wow where you know where she'd go every night she's going to different places. And you know where there's several months during that time that I would go look for her and. And you know there's various excuses Well I'm over here I'm in that store and I was getting there and I'm running late or there is already and. Unfortunately my old one was always on the couch waiting for me to come back with her with her mother. So you know good These are hard dynamics that she knew I had heard about your story of forgiving and the but how do I meet her when I'm not even sure about that forgiveness myself how do you believe your children to forgive when you. Yeah well you know there's a huge issue and to realize forgiveness is not based on feelings it's not in fact I wrote this book called How to forgive when you don't feel like. And that's I'll send that to you. And this is something certainly. Free to share with your daughter because. I did not feel like it and I. In fact my mindset was that the very thing your daughter has said that I was saying about you know my dad but he's never asked forgiveness and he's never apologized he's never. Repentant would never characterize my father and to I think but but but especially you know what we think is I will forgive after you have acknowledged wrong but it. Is long as we can be clear about what forgiveness is because it is that word release. It's and it's a if you will it's a double release. I release the the not just that pain that I carry not just the pain you carry and all the the boulders that can cause cause bitterness if you think of if you could just literally one by one give scenario after scenario that just causes pain and think of them as boulders put into this Berlet bag and. It gets weighty it gets so so heavy such that you were never carried that you were never made by God to carry all that pain and and and so to think of each of those boulders that not only you have. A column rocks of resentment stones of hostility. Boulders of bitterness if you add all that up and you were to put you know. Those 10 pound boulders and 5 pound rocks and you know the the 2 pounds stone to be just at all that up it's it's such a weight how can you your body wasn't made to carry all that weight. Around you if it's like this this meat hook that is around your neck and you've got this burlap bag you know with 150 pounds and. Could you. Get around without a degree but you know you're not really the way God intended you to live so you release all of that pain into his hands but then not based on what she deserves or what she doesn't deserve he release her from your emotional hook and you put her onto God took it is not an issue of you letting her off the hook you're not letting the guilty person off the hook. It's moving a guilty wife from your hook to God took having nothing to do with feelings it's a decision it's a decision forgiveness is a decision an act of the will. Now it's not deserved it is it this isn't fairness. And see in our system of justice we go to a court of law what's fair but let me ask you when Jesus was hanging on the cross did his crucify ors say oh jesus please forgive us we now realize what we're doing this is awful We're so sorry that any of the crucify or say that to him well. Yeah. So it wasn't fear for Jesus to hang on the cross but he did so so that we could be forgiven and he prayed hanging on the cross Father forgive them they know not what they do so his heart was one of releasing them to him to The Heavenly Father he released them to The Heavenly Father but notice what the Bible actually says. God says Vengeance is mine I will repay. I will repay so he knows in his time in his way how to deal with each person as to what he believes what he knows is right. Instead of. The assumption. We have to. Hear. I was wrong I waited for that that was a big. It's it was a stumbling block for me I'm not sure if that's exactly the right word but it's like that was my number one think. Ever forgiving Oh I just didn't really comprehend forgiveness actually. Because I was looking at. Ok maybe 2 percent wrong but he's 90 percent because of his affairs and. So it was so easy for me to find fault. Just like I could only be 2 percent wrong but I was still responsible for my 2 percent. Need to take responsibility for that. We'll talk about the aspects of forgiveness and. is just too short to be bound by better. I've experienced the pain of I'm resolved relationships I've experienced gaps a mile wide separating me from people I truly care about yet today most of those relationships and then we stored because someone built a bridge 1st I needed a bridge to God Then he showed me how to bridge the gaps in my own difficult relationships I needed to know the truth face the truths and then act upon the truth as we allow the Lord to change us he calls us to extended brains to those who are difficult to live. 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Or you can also call and talk with one of our hope care representatives and they can help you with that we thank you so much for responding as the Lord leads and helping us financially as we continue with our mission and vision here at hope for the hard call 80484673 that's 80488 hope well let's get back to the phone lines and continue our conversation tonight with our caller. I want to say John I know and. Appreciate and impressed with your admission. Of struggling with forgiveness because many people won't even verbalize what they struggle with and even if they know they should do something. They. If they know they should they just want to present a different image and they just you know stuff it well you're not stuffing it and that doesn't help when people stuff it especially dads who care about their children and I can tell you care very very much and that you. Are essential in all 3 of your children's lives in oh your 17 year old is oldest wrote struggling and she's been very dutiful that the fact that. She has stood in the gap where her mother should have been doing the motherly things and yet. Mom your wife had emotionally checked out and with in this affair. That lasted so long you know it. And she's still not recalibrated. You know she. She was in survival mode and she helped her younger siblings survive. It's not the way it should have been but. She will be. Probably. More mature than her contemporaries her peers. Her friends. Because she's seen life from a different place. And the Lord's going to use that has it has great potential to use it but she's going to benefit if you can help her in this area of forgiveness now I know you said yeah but how can I help her when I'm struggling with that myself and I think that that is candid that's honest and I just appreciate your candor. Because many people have so much ego they would in their you know be vulnerable Well you're you're the exception. So. I think it's so helpful for you to then be absolutely clear what forgiveness is and what it's not and a lot of times it helps us to look at forgiveness from a standpoint of terminology that sometimes we don't usually hear but you know the phrase I'm sure that a person can choose to forgive a debt correct. What does it mean to forgive the debt. You know all the. Ok. So you soon that if you need to borrow $100.00 to help pay for a medical bill. You're in college and us. A friend for a loan to somebody who has money and you promise to pay it back at the end of the moment but as time goes on. The time for reply repayment you don't have the money in fact the next 3 months you still don't have the money but then unexpectedly. Of the kindness of his heart. Your friend chooses to forgive the debt he's not doing it because deserved. But the truth is this is language that is in our nomenclature. In English to forgive the debt. It's interesting by the way Romans 138 has let no debt remain outstanding except the continual debt to love one another. And it means in one respect forgive this means dismissing of it I like it because I'm putting 2 d. S. Together and I do that very intentionally dismissing it it dismissing it it. When you grant forgiveness you dismiss the debt that is owed to you. And when you receive forgiveness like the forgiveness of God Your debt is dismissed you are ill you are released from any requirement for repayment. Now. I don't mean for this to be 10 gentle but I do believe. That there are times when work well I'll say it this way there are times when somebody can be in horrible crash and they'll never ever ever be able to repay the debt that they borrowed from someone else. There are other times when people can. Be able bodied be. Put in a different way had an uncle. Uncle Pat religion a the Oklahoma. And. Another uncle Uncle Billy Uncle Billy was a. Refrigerator freezer co owner. Of a. Business in. Shreveport Louisiana Uncle Billy became alcoholic. Hand some. Smart not smart enough to become an alcoholic but. He ended up. Losing his business because his business partner went off with his wife and so not only did they take the money but he lost his wife his. Business and ultimately later on. Even though for a period of time my uncle stopped drinking but he ended up taking his life it was highly costly. And there was a debt that head mounted. And never forget when my uncle in Ada. Oklahoma left the business to his son and said You keep his own car business in said I want to go pay the debt but he did it wasn't his that technically to pay but he wanted to make sure that all the creditors that had not been paid back were made whole so he went back worked the business. From Uncle Billy until all creditors were made whole and he didn't have to do that I've never forgotten that because I remember as a high school student. Being quite impressed there are people. Yes the for the deaf as forgiven but then when payment is possible even if it's a small amount they'll still want to pay that I'm just saying that just add up but not to tension but. There can be people who have a heart if they can to come back and when it's not as central By law he did and uncle didn't have to do that and there are other people who will like take a. Well that they will. Say I'm broke I can't pay it and they can't pay the bills and so they go into bankruptcy and yet I know people who have with a creditor have been kind that they would keep just keep doing small payments until they so so sometimes you don't ever know what the heart of the person is who is that is forgiven but the point is we don't deserve to receive the forgiveness of God Forgiveness is dismissing canceling setting us free from the consequences of falling short of God's standard because we've all sinned we've all fallen short of the glory of God. And the penalty for our sins is spiritual separation spiritual death. The penalty for sin was paid though by Jesus through his 2nd Fishel death on the cross Therefore instead of us being separated from God We can have our debt dismissed by God and experience eternal life in heaven. And I don't know about you but a said tonight to someone eternity is too long to be wrong and you're not wrong about the need to be forgiven by God because you receive Jesus says your Lord and Savior correct yeah. And the Bible says x. 1043 everyone who believes in Him Jesus meaning they and trust their lives to him receive forgiveness of sins but. What I'm trying to say is it's not because we deserve it it's not because anyone deserves it we don't we can't we we that is an act of grace it's it's like the hub of the wheel is Grace and one of the spokes of the wheel is forgiveness we get something we don't serve. So your wife does not deserve your forgiveness she doesn't deserve. Your daughter's forgiveness. But. If we're going to do what God wants us to do. We'll have to stop and say Ok. Because of the Bible. The Word of God saying bear with each other and forgive whatever grievance you have against one another forgive as the Lord forgave you. Then we are to choose to release we release the resentment. We release the right to dwell on the offense release the right to hold on to the offense we release the right to keep bringing up the offense but you've not been doing with your children and that's wise. That point is. When you truly forgive and you but is that the key here you want it to forgive again and again and again what will definitely talk about that in just a little bit more. But the key is going to be. You every time you think of her it is. You release her from your book then you put her on to God So. That you could be financially independent and never have to worry about money again I mean he will be with the $3.00 step plan Home Business System the 3 step plan is designed.