An hour from now present obama will address nation prime time to lay out a strategy to out isis which meaning could air strikes against militants on their home turf in syria and moderate three and rebels. So much at stake, Lindsey Graham says the president had a big hurdle to overcome it comes to regaining trust in his leadership. Heres what the senator told greta last night. He has to convince america people and congress and our allies to follow him now and has to trust the competition deficit built. And i am pulling for him. If we dont get this right, they are coming here. At henry joins us from the white house. Report this morning, arming the Syrian Rebels, directed at congress, what else do you expect to hear the president say, do you think . That is going to be the big thing. It is gone to come as close as he ever has two saying he is going to go forward with airstrikes in syria. He will announce we are moving forward tonight, but h hes goig to lay the groundwork for doing just that. Im told an important piece of intelligence coming out of yesterdays meeting at the white house with national leaders, but i dont have a power to arm the Syrian Rebels and i need you to do that as quickly as possible, pass a loss like an arm the Syrian Rebels. The model the president has used is to not send u. S. Ground troops but instead use u. S. Airstrikes, that kind of power from the air and have the Security Forces followup. He wants to do the same in syria potential u. S. Airstrikes in syria but have the rebels because you cant use president assad forces, but build up the Syrian Rebels. The problem is president has laughed off the idea of helping the Syrian Rebels. He did an interview and basically said this is a bunch of doctors and dentists, pharmacists, a fantasy to suggest building up the rebels. And a big deal because it is tonight, why is he busting in some of the Favorite Television shows . Why prime time . There are big reasons, one was that they feel there are some momentum coming out of this new Iraqi Government being formed. On top of that, they thought the reaction to the nbc meet the press interview was better than expected. For not have a strategy, the president finally got his message straight. Interesting they said this is a bigger moment that we expect with all this coming together, lets get a bigger audience, more pressure as well. On msnbc saying the president is doing jimmy carter style damage the democratic party, mentioning the poll numbers handling Foreign Policy. I have another question, it has to do with what he potentially could tell the American People tonight. On thursday when the president announced he was going to order targeted airstrikes against isis as they were moving toward mobile, he became the fourth consecutive president to order military action in iraq. How is each side, is he planning to have viewed by the American People how his decision to become militarily involved in iraq is different than previously when he said he wouldnt do this . One year ago tonight the president said to the maccabee blend prime time to explain why he had not gone forward with u. S. Airstrikes in syria targeting assad with chemical weapons. Said i was elected by running against the war in iraq, trying to end the war, not start them. What he will do is say i didnt want to start anymore, we have no choice because the threat from isis is so strong. I wanted to quickly tell you something. When i was in new york a couple weeks ago at Madison Square garden, i am not posting, he said he is really famous, he is on outnumbered. He doesnt care i covered the white house. He cares i am on outnumbered. You have arrived, my friend. A better backdrop, i have to say. Thank you so much. All right, lets take it around the couch. Arming the Syrian Rebels, deeply, deeply uneasy about this. Beheading films out there, and reports these moderates we are supposedly arming if the president gets his way sold sotloff. Is there a concern of arming the rebels . Theres always a concern of who might use the weapons against us and our allies in the future. What you are expressing is a concern for Many Americans feel immense by Many Americans are hesitant for us to get involved because they are concerned the person we are helping today that pretends to be our ally today isnt our ally tomorrow. Im interested in the president s tone tonight, i want to see a tough president , a president who has follow through on policy and in terms of this idea has to convince the American People, i dont think that is true. If you look at the pollings, they are worried about isis, they want us to be more involved, they want a president will be a leader in that who will know what he is doing and not be so back and forth. They want a confident president. New polling Shows Majority of americans support military action against isis. 61 of those responded to a new wall street journal nbc poll says military action against the terror group is in our national interest, only 13 say that it is not. When asked what kind of most response would be appropriate, this action is the to do airstrikes. This is a big switch, a big switch. Obviously the awareness the American Public has, the murdered journalist, obviously important for journalists to still stay there and tell the story, and it is this incredible galvanizing force, but we have to be really careful when we have these emotional reactions because we dont have an endgame. Defeating and destroying isis, what exactly does that mean . We have to be careful creating a vacuum and more people we could be arming that might attack us later. We cannot be certain of our safety and security although that is what we really want this week. People are super sketched out and freaked out this week of 9 11, we have to know is the threat serious or is the threat imminent . Obviously the president like alone, if he is the primetime address, he has to galvanize congress has much of the American People. He is doing this because the Foreign Policy numbers are so low. In the low 30s. She brought up congress, and i think it is very interesting because this is a president is typically doesnt go with congress because congress is so dysfunctional, how does he resonate and thread the needle on that one tonight . All of a sudden he needs congressman he has not made this an imminent threat. Jb, we will just manage them. Let me go on barack obama, the fact here is what benefits him. 60 days he has to notify congress 60 days from now, the elections, the president doesnt want democrats on the record. They are worried about the votes, something antelope, give a great speech tonight, rational numbers dont want votes on the record. The point of the beheadings, the beheadings dont make military decisions, the pentagon looks at it, people respond, they are more aware of it but military decisions are based on what isis is doing. They are expanding into lebanon with actions, they are Holding Territory and making money off oil sales daily. A very important point is airstrikes some really good but theyre good in politics, the fact is you cant hold ground that you take with airstrikes, you need training, we have special operators and contractors, we have others already there. The reality is this is going to have to take ground. Very troubling arming the Syrian Rebels because where we tried airstrikes they are riding around in our tanks and equipment. This is very risky to do, and assad is a bad guy, i hate to say it. Do we arm the rebels, how do we get back on good graces because he is fighting jihad. Some time he have to with an enemy to fight another enemy. Looking to the past only a year ago with arming these rebels. Have we done any better about who we are going to be arming . I dont know how we got to this point. It has a lot of heat behind it because what else if you find out they now have changed would involve. Al qaeda is working against isis. Do we move beyond that . Who is winning the propaganda war . They put out a video and get 300 Million People in one country to change their tune to the six out of 10 of us saying we want something we did not want a year ago. Now they are recruiting like never before. Is a bit of a butt covering activity. He is worried about himself. Worried about his numbers, worried about himself, that is why he is going to congress because he can blame them if he doesnt get the money. All right. Rodger goodell fighting back but did he do enough to get off the hot seat . And should we call them generation helpless . Thethe kids better with smart phones and apps then tying their own shoes or telling time. And join us for outnumbered over time logging foxnews. Com outnumbered and click the overtime tab. You heard usher watches. Tell us what you want to talk about. This is holly. Her long day of Outdoor Adventure starts with knee pain. And a choice. Take 6 tylenol in a day or just 2 aleve for all day relief. Onward our cheese is going thin in a big way. With our ultra thin slices, the same natural sargento cheese you love, just thinner and just 45 calories a slice. Sargento ultra thin slices in three new varieties. With the top speedou compare of comcast the top speed of business dsl from the internet. Phone company well, theres really no comparison. Why pay more for less . Call today for a low price on speeds up to 150mbps. And find out more about our twoyear price guarantee. Comcast business. Built for business. Welcome back to outnumbered. Nfl commissioner Rodger Goodell breaking his silence on the review of ray rice knocking out his thenfiance in a casino elevator. Hes a nobody in the nfl have seen the video before monday and the league asked lawenforcement for the tape but never got it. When asked how tmz got a hold of the clip, he said this to norah odonnell. Tmz or any other website gets their information, we are particularly reliant on law enforcement. We dont seek to get that information from sources that are not credible. Tmz executive producer harvey levin with a pointed response on americas newsroom this morning. It means he is just full. I was slow to say it, but heres why. Multiple reasons, but the simple reason is this, martha. He never went to the casino and asked them for a copy of the videotape, his position as we went to the police is that we want a copy and they didnt give it to us good there was a pending criminal investigation, he still could have gone to the casino, for him to suggest the casino video is incredible is ridiculous. Call call to come in for rodr goodell to step down. I have a against women problem. Nfl says examples for football programs in the example it is sitting right now is simply unacceptable. New leadership must coming to transform the culture of violence against women that pervades the nfl. So, should he resign, kennedy . Yes, he should resign. He was not prepared at all, is it time for new leadership now and is the country at large responsible for that . I dont want to think about these people not being called to tax and the inconsistent punishment in the message it sends. Pretty suspended one player 44 games and then you lift the suspension for no reason, i dont know what his problem is good i dont know if he has something to hide, if he feels, is a guilty but he mishandling it, sending horrible messages and this last minute ad hoc replacement punishment doesnt dreading positive for the league for the players or the coaches or the owners. How could you ever have faith in someone else . When asked if his job was on the line he said no. Im used to it. Are they holding him accountable in many ways . In reality it is probably right. It is a violence against women and shouldnt happen, violence between men and women shouldnt have been in either direction but Rodger Goodell is not going anywhere. They said they were not going to ask for the tape, they could have done that, they thought they could get by. They will go out and get people back to football. That is what it is. They should deal with the violence issue when you have so many young, powerful, strong individuals out of control, not everyone in the nfl dont go out and beat their wives, dont hit your husbands. Here is the reality, nobody should hit a woman, the nfl screwed up, ray rice is out, michael vick was rehabilitated. 85 of the victims according to the cdc of Domestic Violence are women, so not the same thing to compare men and women. I would say this, old p. R. If youre going to do an interview, try to make it better. Reminds me of john edwards. You can have the quote do you think the job is on the line . No. He does not rule out rice playing again. He is going to do the great dance between the megacorporate owners and those union deals they have made, which basically you cant really have a lifetime ban. The nfl gets to decide as a group if it sticks. Its his job on the line if it is not him, till be somebody else, so maybe give a benefit of the doubt. He may try harder to get it right because his name is on the line. I dont think he should resign, but he has a serious problem on his hands because is he going to retroactively punish other players accused of Domestic Violence . Let this play out in the courtroom, but this is what makes me very uneasy. He is trying to be too cute. Does he favor Domestic Violence, no. This is what politicians do, plausible deniability. I didnt see the video. He is smart enough to never have seen the video, but harvey levin has got him when he says the rebel casino is not a credible place to get the video harvey is right, that is b. S. The last thing they need is another credibility issues though he should be as forthcoming as possible and do everything to take affirmative strong action on these violence against women cases di. This is where he would run into a problem. The players have their representation, it is a complete disaster, there is no doubt about that. Lets not pretend the business of the nfl that allowed michael vick after all the outrage to come back is suddenly going to change because of this issue. This is front and center. Videos that they connect with on a personal level, do you think this will spur change throughout the nfl . Three active nfl players with Domestic Violence charges playing right now, so can we expect a change in the short term . And with some of those players, he made it out rather inconsistent punishment. I hope it is the kind of thing that sticks. Always good to get this conversation going of what is acceptable and Floyd Mayweather comments dont help at all, trying to justify worse things happen in peoples homes. If that is the only person defending you, my goodness, what does it say . Rhythm players have come out and say we do not deserve ray rice did a sad day when tmz has done more for Domestic Violence in the nfl has. 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I will start with you because you brought up foreignpolicy as a focal point if you will now as we hear the president this evening, what are your thoughts . If you still are politics versus policy, has to change his personal narrative, he has to be consistent, they are more touched and more vulnerable to being fearful of their surroundings than they had been in recent years. If you ask your friends and other parts of the country this year for some reason people have a heightened awareness. He also has to seem, it would be nice i if you had some sort of n obama doctorate. I dont know if he is capable doing that in one foreignpolicy speech but he has to outline a strong, nimble foreignpolicy, that is why he has been open to so much criticism. One of the first things with the big interviews and the elf with Network Broadcast as i like to call them, what is the Obama Doctrine, what is the bush doctrine, what is the clinton doctrine . We dont know. Actually we do know what the Obama Doctrine is. Withdraw from the world. President obama believes america have a coequal existence with all other nations, it is the apology tour, it is how we sees this nation and our role in the world. That that, if not to change. When he doesnt listen to the advisors, it is easily manipulated in his policy because he has no background. This man is inept from the job, incapable and dont have the right skill set to adjus issue. All he cares about is what is his utopian and existence. So he is a president who represent all americans now, you have to get behind your president so what words do you want to hear . People are war weary and till they find the justice on their doorstep and they say i want a president who is proactive. 94 of people had heard about these beheadings of the american journalists. People are aware they are plugged in. 79 of people had been aware of the use of chemical weapons so now people are paying attention, they are frightened and interesting to the g. O. P. According to the paul holds a 38 lead on which party insurers a Strong National defense. Now w were gearing up for the midterm, turned the g. O. P. The politics of all of this particularly as we head into the midterm. Politics is driving this entire speech tonight and the president is taking action. David is right, he does have a doctrine, the United States has been wrongheaded, downright oppressive and hes going to fix it. Dragged into this and i believe he has. I dont like that philosophy. He could come out today but he wont. He can take action. I dont think he will do that, this press conference is all about politics and although they dont want to go to war were funded arming Syrian Rebels, he doesnt want to do this, fundamentally wants the United States to retreat. The only people who want congressional approval are people who know exactly where they stand and wants to send a message with that vote because the others who are waffling for a political bomb want to stay away from it because as David Axelrod tweeted after her criticisms of the president handling of syria, basically saying you voted for iraq, this is years later. The border issue is one that is interesting. The border between iraq and syria. No doubt we will come back to this, particularly after the president speaks tomorrow we will talk about it on outnumbered. President obama will address the nation. On his strategy for dealing with isis, what we can expect, more on that. Married americans are in the minority. The growing trend of living single. 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The data from the bureau of labor statistics show 54. 2 of americans over 16, how many 16yearolds do you know getting married . Up from 37 in the late 70s. What is driving this trend . Go to the single guy on the panel first. People have careers prolonged getting married, that is one of the issues. Financial ability, people have to look at it and say when this is benefit me and linda want to get into the new tax code. Also we have gone away from family values in america where they dont see being married as the next step in life, now it is fast track, careers, achievement, that plays a lot of roles. All those things can be better shared, i think. When you talk the millennial generation, they really have kind of said that is not as important to me, so they are looking at not selfish, but more of a center on themselves then what they achieved. Is this a positive or is it the ultimate downfall . I dont think we know the effects. It is awesome, they are waiting longer to settle down, they have other options beside getting married. And look, if you talk a lot of single girls they will say guys dont want to get married, pajama boy beta males. And so both these genders are very frustrated but it is the policies we are seeing coming out of washington distance in devising marriage. Obamacare, people are getting divorced because it is cheaper to stay single and live in sin. Then get married. That is what they are doing. The Administration Made it a priority. People looking at their married friends getting divorced. They all rushed and got married. Now a lot of them are getting divorced so that made me think for a second if im going to get married i really want to know this guys going to be in it for the long haul, there is more of hesitance. I would rather see more single people than seymour unhappily married people, you bring kids into the equation, i dont think it is such a bad thing if they are taking the time. Maybe more people would get married, make money and problem solve. Welcome to a new tax bracket. Sometimes the new tax bracket is a status symbol. You know what i am saying. And the fate of Oscar Pistorius as the judge is set to deliver a verdict under philip a track star intentionally killed his girlfriend. And ray rice talks for the First Time Since being sacked by the ravens. What he said that is raising some eyebrows. Stay with us. More outnumbered in just a moment but first lets go to jon scott with what is coming up in the second hour of happening now. Harris, high drama in south africa. Olympic star Oscar Pistorius is about to learn his fate. Is he going to be convicted of premeditated murder in the shooting of his girlfriend . And new details and the investigation of the doomed flight recovered on friday. The pilot asked for a lower altitude twice, so what happened . Could the pilot and his wife have survived . And was there a major faux pas in the irs scandal . House Oversight Committee chairman accusing the department of spinning the scandal and damage investigation. The damaging phone call causing a big backlash. We will tell you about it happening now. Embarrassment at the irs, that sounds redundant. Ray rice speaking out for the First Time Since being suspended indefinitely from the nfl after the airing of a video from inside the elevator shown the star running back knocking out his future wife. In a conversation with espn, rice saying i have to be strong for my wife, she is so strong, we are in good spirits and have a lot of people praying for us and will continue to support each other. I have to be there for her and my family right now and work through this. I just want to offer very straightforward piece of advice for ray rice and anyone else, dont strong arm women. He says he has to be strong for his wife. She married him after he struck her the first time that we know of, so i have to question the decisions being made there. Harris, not only speaking to the man who shouldnt do this, but to the women who continue those relationships. I think that is the side of the equation that has to be addressed. There are so many people who have so many deep feelings about this issue but one thing is statistically true, domestic stalking victim for years, it is harder to leave then you think it is and the reasons to stay have to deal with not the tangible things he would think of but love involved in many cases, there is fear be at to sit next to a person night after night for promises to take your life if you leave their side, think about that if you mixed children into it, it is harder than you think, david. Andrea, what do we say to the young men out there, a role parents have to be involved in, raising young men. It was an absolute rule the matter what you dont hit a woman. The parents role in raising these young men does not come into play anymore. Talked about the effects of people waiting to get married and the breakdown of the american home. Tw2parent homes are better. Teach them what to tolerate and not to tolerate, they will never learn these lessons so that is why we see this increasing problem because it is the breakdown of the family, right . More families are getting divorced and kids are growing up a learn talone. The best lesson would be zeroto. At least he will think twice before you raise a hand. By the way, you talked about two parent households. Also, dont hit your wife. Kids model themselves and those feelings in those actions run deep. Part of that speaks of the abusers, but speaks the women who have a hard time, and it is the deep love, guilt, shame, fear for your life. He killed her and then he killed himself and that is the ultimate terrifying outcome in some of these Domestic Violence situations and of course women can be domestic assaults. You have boys and girls in class, how did they asked toward girls around them, i want to get to the foundation of these issues. There has been a 10 lifetime in some cases that has led you here, so how do we deal with that foundation . It is important to monitor that. Whether it is verbal or otherwise, so it was caught early that i think you hit the nail on the head when you talk about parenting. You have two kids on the playground and you see a little boy or a little girl the kid, you say no, establish right away that is not acceptable. You can say no, but you have to explain why this is wrong. When i saw this story emerged on twitter, i saw people feeling sorry for rice. I am reading now. Why i stayed hashtag on twitter is far outpacing why i left. You had pizza and they had to apologize for you. She said this is all a figment of the imagination. What . Back to her point, she has responsibility now, she has to step out and say no to this. s Technology Briefing and new technology . 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Half of the children feel more confident using a smart phone and tablet and tying their shoe laces. It is important to embrace technology but many warn that it is turning our kids in to generation helpless. How do you feel about the tablet. Me and my husband get fed up. I think technology is great in the class rom and teaching kids to read and math school. It is called moderation and monitoring and being with your children and know what they are exposed to. You have a rule in our house about how much time and has to be school related. They are using leapfrog and not at the ipad stage. You cant make eye contact if you are doing this. And that builds self esteem. You cant teach them to tie their shoe laces if they cant see you. They need oneonone. And parents are like watch a movie so i can talk to my friend. Or an aunt like me, here is the ipad. They need conversation. You try to have a conversation with a little kid. They have no communication skills or writing skills. Why cant a parent have that time and say i am getting my nails done and at the same time have that bonding time. It is a tool and the best tool is parent child relationship. Fox news. Com outnumbered and click the over time tab. And happening now in two seconds. And the fox news alert. President obama preparing to address the nation tonight. New reaction as americas military gets ready to take on isis. We need a plan. We need it now. The pressure is on as president obama prepares to tell the world what he will do about isis and convince americans they are safe. We need to know. But with the clock ticking, what action will the commander in chief take to defeat the terror group before it gross stronger