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"fox & friends" starts now. >> you're watching "fox & friends." that's a great way to begin your day. >>steve: we can still use the word mom until sunday; right? mother's day. >>brian: and then the adult who raised me. >>steve: parent number one. >>gretchen: we'll get to that politically correct story but first headlines for your friday. a british olympic gold medalist killed after his sailboat capsized in san francisco bay. here's the srao*fplt 36-year-old andrew simpson and his team were practicing for the american cup race as the boat trapped him under the water for ten minutes. he was pronounced dead at the hospital. >> shocking experience to go through. we have a lot to deal with in the next few days in terms of assuring everybody's well-being. >>gretchen: one other crew member suffered only minor injuries. >> brand-new details in the cleveland house of horror story. prosecutors are considering now to seek the death penalty against ariel castro. the news comes as we learned one of his alleged victims gina dejesus was aprayed to be alone after being held captive with amanda berry for decades. she won't even go into her bedroom, the family sleeping in the living room together. gina says she's especially on edge around men. castro's mother spoke to reporters yesterday in spanish. she said her son is a sick man. [speaking spanish] >>gretchen: the musician who often practiced at castro's said he was at the cleveland home last week and said noises like banging on the wall. when he asked about it, castro blamed it on the dog. the man also said there were four or five locks on the outside door. >> the search continues this morning for two passengers who fell overboard from a carnival cruise ship. surveillance video shows the couple falling off the sick before it docked in sydney, australia. carnival says there is no evidence of foul play. the australian couple has been identified. it is not clear if they jumped or fell by accident. >> these people had no idea russian authorities had concerns about the tsarnaev's prior to the attack, revealed in testimony on capitol hill. >> we have three assigned to the joint terrorist task force. one is in my squad that investigated that. we have access to all the data bases. but we were not in fact informed of that particular development. >>gretchen: yet commissioner davis acknowledged police might not have uncovered or disrupted the plot even if they had fully investigated the family of tamerlan tsarnaev. we learn tamerlan was secretly buried in an undisclosed location outside of worcester, massachusetts. police confirm the body has been entombed. the question of what to do with his body has sparked outrage around the boston area. >>brian: how about around the country? >>gretchen: i think people are relieved to know it is over and done with and hopefully nobody will find out where the body is. >>brian: seeing the f.b.i. and boston police talk about how they weren't talking to each other is incredible. >>steve: it is the blame game. we didn't get a lot of answers on wednesday at the benghazi hearings on capitol hill. but the republicans say we got some answers, but we've got lots more questions. so the speaker of the house, john boehner, called for a number of whistle-blowers -- if there are whistle-blowers out there who want to come forward, we would love to hear from you. also, did you realize that a number of the members of congress were able to see some of the benghazi e-mails but could only look at them in a secret room, couldn't make copies of them, couldn't make notes. boehner is saying release the talking notes memo, the e-mails that showed the white house and the administration changed the talking points. >>brian: what he's calling for is release of the internal e-mails sent the day after the attacks specifically. here's what's significant. the speaker has been laid out during this. he let the oversight committee lead the charge. that is why you're seeing so much from chairman issa, so much from congressman chaffetz who went to tripoli. else wants these internal e-mails released especially the one that says within 24 hours we know it is a terror attack and they saw this but haven't released it. on the other side, elijah cummings said this is old news. the e-mails were addressed last october. if it is so old news, can we read it? >>gretchen: what are the chances the administration is going to say here are those e-mails? i guess they would have to subpoena them. i don't know the legal process as to which they could get the job done, but i doubt the administration is going to just hand these over based on the stonewalling that many believe has happened for the laugh -- the last six months. >>steve: john kerry yesterday, secretary of state, said i'm ready to answer questions witnesses may have so the state department may leave no stone unturned. >>brian: good. he wasn't there. >>gretchen: the republicans should continue to ask other questions as well. we asked them yesterday. who changed the talking points? would we find that out if we were able to see those e-mails? who told the military to stand down? there's still a lot of unanswered questions about the actual people who made those calls and how high up does it go in the food chain? is it just the state department or is it the white house or is it neither? the big questions about who are still unanswered. >>brian: frank wolf said in a letter sent to the white house, the g.o.p. conference is calling on speaker boehner -- not to the white house. the speaker. to form a special committee with broad subpoena powers and broad jurisdiction. that would put the oversight committee to the side and use power, for example, like getting the former secretary of state hillary clinton back in front of the cameras. >>steve: speaking of hillary clinton, yesterday dick cheney was on capitol hill and said hillary should be subpoenaed if necessary to get her to testify again. i saw items on-line that she couldn't really get caught in lying before congress because apparently last time she was there, she was not sworn in. for some experts, they say this does remind them of watergate in some ways. but others like charles krauthammer says there's no great big smoking gun, but there is a drip, drip, drip. here he is on -- with o'reilly last night right here on the channel. >> the story isn't going to explode. this is a drip, drip, drip. and what the drip, drip, drip is about is this: the administration tried to suppress the truth about what happened in benghazi, and did that consistently and deliberately while the president at the same time said his only objective was to collect the facts and to share them as they received them with the american people. every piece of evidence that we heard yesterday contradicted that. now, this is not a hanging offense. this is not a jailing offense. it's not a break-in. it's not a burglary. but there was a lot of human error. they decided in the middle of an election where the president proclaimed al qaeda is gone and we conquered all this, the war on terror is over, i'm a big hero, bin laden is slain, they would demote a hero like hicks, shout at him, threaten him, not allow him to meet with a congressional delegation. all of these things are part of a coverup. >>brian: can we get the guys that led the attack, planned the attack and were lethal with their mortar fire? we have three people of interest. we saw them two weeks ago; have not seen any fervent push to get him. meanwhile the producer of that terrible movie, which was a bad movie, a bad premise, he stays in jail for a year for violation of his probation. >>gretchen: i think charles krauthammer's point is well taken and something we've been discussing on this show as well. until you have the smoking gun or more details about exactly how this all went down -- and i don't know if you ever can get to that point, but until you do, do you actually have any kind of a real case? or is it more of this drip, drip, drip which affords the other side of the fence, the democrats to say it's old news. i don't hear anything new. >>brian: "the new york times," "the washington post" and so many other newspapers led with this story the next day even though the jodi arias trial was up and we had all the other drama happening in cleveland. >>steve: it is a blow to the credibility of the president of the united states. can you trust him? and also hillary rodham clinton, she wants to be president. what about her? let's talk about this. back in august of 2011 a chinook ch47 chopper was shot out of the sky where 38 brave souls died including 17 of our navy seals. the families and some other groups got together in washington and had a press conference talking about -- they blame the white house in some measure for what happened. they say they leaked all these details of the bin laden raid and it put a target on their men and women in seal team 6. >>gretchen: they actually, i think, are making the accusation that somebody tipped off the taliban to know where this helicopter was flying. they want to know why that helicopter was in the air going to a rescue mission. they are questioning whether or not it was necessary. there is a whole list of things they are seeking answers for. >>brian: there also is this. there was a cleric that spoke at the funeral that evidently -- that evidently came out and had some ugly things to say about americans and these navy seals. they want to know who booked this guy? why was he allowed to talk like that about our people that just lost their lives. >>steve: at the memorial for the families there was a prohibition against any mention of a judeo- christian god. and yet they invited this muslim cleric to the funeral. and according to to -- and you're looking at the certified video translation of what he said -- he condemned the dead, the people who -- the americans who died, to hell and he mocked the god of moses. in other words, those men were mocked at their own funeral by somebody invited by our u.s. military. >>brian: in front of their own families. the families are binding together and they are demanding some answers. and we'll see where that goes. >>steve: how did that happen? >>gretchen: we'll continue to explore that throughout the morning. in the meantime, the prices of homes, could they be going back up? sounds like recovery. some people say wrong. a former fannie mae executive says the next housing crisis around the corner. >>brian: these men made off with a.t.m. dollars in hours. how did they do it? 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yep. we thought the same thing you did. that's why we build them this way. that's how we run. nothing runs like a deere. visit your dealer or johndeere.com/howwerun to see the new signature series and 1 family tractors. >>steve: got a little bit of good news for you. interest rates on home mortgages are going down, down, down. but while home prices are starting to inch back up, it sounds like the housing recovery is starting to get on track; right? well, not so fast. our next guest says the bubble is about to burst again. he's here to explain. joining us is former fannie mae vice president and american fellow of the american enterprise institute. why is trouble around the corner when people are beginning to feel good about the market? >> they are feeling good about the market. the problem is that the fed's goal is to drive down interest rates for what purpose? to drive up asset prices, including home prices. and they're succeeding. home prices are up about years.r the past year, the the problem is that the only way people can afford these higher rates, the higher prices is with these low rates. the monthly payment stays the same even though house prices are going up 10%. that's sewing the seed for -- sowing the seed for future problems. we're at the lowest interest rates for 100 years and eventually the rates will have to go up and when they go up it will be by modest amounts and it will take the rate by 3.5 or even 6%. at that point interest prices will have to go up a third or they'll have to loosen underwriting again. >>steve: that's the problem. also one of the components is the fact that -- and this is what grabs the headlines -- home prices are going up. and people go i feel a little richer. the reason for that is the inventory is shrinking. home prices up close to a little over 9% in the last year. but here's one of the problems, and this could lead to another bubble. and that is the government still is in the business of giving mortgages to people who put nothing down; right? >> that's absolutely right. about half of the pple who are buying homes today with mortgages put down a number that rounds to zero. they are getting a loan from f.h.a., the department of agriculture or the veterans administration. those loans have very little down payment. these borrowers are very stretched in terms of their income. they're creating demand today that isn't sustainable in the future. we've seen this story before. >>brian: interest rates, if they go up, they have to go up -- they can't go down -- what if they go up such a small percent and so gradually we don't have that feeling of being trapped in your home and the inability to buy a home? >> it could happen that way, brian. but history shows that -- and i've looked back to 1860 -- these trends go on for a long time and when they reverse, they reverse for a long time. so we're at the lowest rate in well over 100 years. and when this reverses, interest rates have been coming down for 30 years since about 1981, when this reverses there will go up an increase to 6%, which is not a big increase. most people might remember 6% used to be a low interest rate. 6% might require incomes having to go up 36%. if that happens in a few year period, that is the problem. at the same time you have all these investors, hedge funds that are buying rental property, they put those on the market at the same time because their investment scenario has turned, that hot money is also going to create problems. we're creating distortions with these low interest rates. the sooner the fed starts unwinding this problem they're creating, the less the problem is going to be. >>steve: great advice. resident fellow at the american enterprise institute, ed pinto. >>brian: 20 minutes after the hour. if you thought you saw the last of him, think again. o.j. simpson out of jail. >>steve: really? 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[ female announcer ] honey nut cheerios cereal -- heart-healthy, whole grain oats. you can't go wrong loving it. >>steve: quick friday morning headlines for you. o.j. simpson getting out of jail. to go back to court. o.j. is fighting his sentence for stealing sports memorabilia of himself. simpson says his lawyers botched the case and wants a new trial. good luck. >>brian: noncitizens may soon be allowed to stay in new york city. a proposed bill -- that's vote in new york city, i should say. a proposed bill would make it the only large city in the country to let legal immigrants who are not citizens vote. it would mean 1.3 million new voters. >>gretchen: in celebration of mother's day we thought we would let you know there is a strong possibility your mom may have told you a few little white lies. in fact, 84% of parents say they've lied to their kids to get them to behave, at least try to get them to behave. so what's fact and what's fiction? dr. marc siegel of the fox medical-a team is going to call us down. sometimes mom use things their mom said to them with their kids. let's look at the first one. fact or myth? your mom said don't swim after you eat. you might get cramps or a stomach ache. >> mom thought the blood was rushing to your stomach and it wasn't going to go other places like your arms or brain. mom was wrong. you can get a little stomach cramp but you can swim. studies have shown you get enough blood flow everywhere. that is a myths. >>gretchen: what about going outside with wet hair in? mom or dad might say after you take a shower blow dry your hair. >> three quarters of the medical-a team could not test this theory, unfortunately. >>gretchen: you're looking good. you've got a pretty full head of hair. are you going to get sick? >> i actually think you can. it doesn't transmit cold viruses but here's the problem. there was a study out of wales in 2007 that had people put their feet in cold buckets of water and they were tries as likely to get a cold. your immune system doesn't work as well. you get a chill and then the virus comes parading in. i say that's a fact. >>gretchen: moms and dads for that matter, sugar, we think we know it makes your kids hyper. fact or fiction? >> there is controversy but i call that a factor because studies show it can change your behavior. you don't have as good a a attention, don't focus as well. i've seen it with my own kids. >>gretchen: some kids do this because they don't want to sleep at night. they turn their lights on a little bit to read. i've caught my daughter doing this and i think my goodness, the first thing out of my mouth is you're hurting your eyes turn on the eyes or turn off the lights. >> abe lincoln did it. that is the top seven mitts. it is a myth. your eyes have no damage from doing that. you can get a headache but no long-term damage from reading in the dark. >>gretchen: thank you for sofrlg all -- thank you for solving all these little lies. >> they're not going to listen to me. happy mother's day. >>gretchen: thank you. coming up in time for mother's day, say goodbye to mom and dad? the government no longer allowing those terms on certain forms. >> take a bite out of crime. what four legged creature helped police nab a man on helped police nab a man on the run. great first gig! let's go! party! awwwww... arigato! we are outta here! party...... finding you the perfect place, every step of the way. hotels.com red hot deal days are back. don't waste another minute. it's red hot deal days. get the droid razr m by motorola in white for free. everything droid does in a compact design. or the droid razr hd by motorola in white, with google voice search that understands you the first time. just $49.99. hurry in, sale ends may 12th. powerful devices. powerful network. verizon. 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you're not supposed to even be using butter. why did you spend 700 bucks on the stuff? >>brian: the butter story was going to be coming up next block and i blew the butter story. >>gretchen: oh no, here we go again. here we go again. you know what, brian? you need to come back because we're going to discuss moms and dads, and you are a dad. you're going to be over all the shows tonight. >>steve: who knew joel was officially our bouncer. he's the guy you've got to get past the velvet rope if you want to come on. >>brian: why do you pat us down every day? >>gretchen: excuse me? >>steve: from mayor bloomberg, who is the ultimate nanny mayor, the d.c. police are loose in the federal government. a little bit about what the department of education has in store for families coming up in the 2014-2015 school year. there is a big form you fill out for financial need. they have decided they want to be more inclusive in changing family units so they are changing some of the terminology we are using for many, many years. >>gretchen: it won't say mother, father, you know how you check off the blanks. you do this all the time with school forms, dental insurance. now it's going to say parent 1 and parent 2 because they don't want to offense -- offend people in same-sex situations. they don't want to offend people who are not married. they would still be mom and dad even if they are cohas been by tating. >>brian: you would -- they would still be mom and dad even if they are cohabitating. >>brian: should you be making up words for small children? dr. seuss was never allowed in my house. the small kids -- you're reading a book with words that don't exist. thanks, mom, or parent 1 or parent 2 #. >>gretchen: parents do a lot of work. it's a lot of work to be raised kids. i don't think they want to be called a number. then they're going to start fighting about which one is 1 and which one is 2. >>steve: in some situations there could be a parent 3 or parent 4 if they're looking to the number of people contributing to the well-being of a child who is applying for aid. >>gretchen: that is above what i want to think about at 6:35 in the morning. let us know what you think about that. e-mail us or twitter us. >> sounds like a plot in a movie. a $45 million cyber heist hit banks. how safe is your money? anna kooiman joins us. >> the crew of the movie "oceans 11" would be shocked. the team starteden hackers stole information from two banks, the hackers took prepaid debit card information and changed the spending limits to unlimited and took the data and put them on pieces of plastic. >> they can use anything. an old credit card, a hotel key card. as long as they have those stolen account numbers and put them on a piece of plastic, they'll be able to use them in an a.t.m. machine. >> the bogus cards were distributed to crews in over two dozen countries. the members went from a.t.m. to a.t.m. making thousands of withdrawals. the first heist was in december. crews made over 4,500 worldwide transactions totals 5 million bucks. the big score was this past february when over 36,000 transactions were made in just about ten hours. the total that time, $40 million. the only suspects that are in custody as of now are seven members of a new york branch, including these two. elvis rodriguez and amos yashay. three million is the total amount, the biggest in the city since 1978. the question is morning is: is your money at risk? authorities say all the money was stolen was taken from actual banks and not from individual customers. and security experts say it would be extremely difficult for a network to get a regular customer's personal pin. >>steve: that's what they say now. apparently one of the brilliant things they were able to do is on a.t.m. cards, they've got limits on how much you can withdraw. they figured a way to erase those so the sky was the limit. >>gretchen: that would be the key. >>steve: meanwhile we've got other headlines for you. the f.b.i. arrested a tunesian man in new york for planning to poison the water system. his plan to kill up to 100,000 people. authorities say ahmed abassi, suspected of planning to derail that new york-toronto train was trying to build a terror cell here in the united states of america. >>brian: a new york surgeon off the job after removing a wrong kidney from one of his patients. it happened at mount sinai hospital. the patient was on dialysis when it happened. the doctor removed the failed kidney and said the patient is doing fine. the patient said he has faith in the doc. >>gretchen: a michigan school district laying off all its teachers. officials say they have run out of money and don't know if the students will be able to finish the school year. teachers voted to continue to work for free but the district decided to lay them off any way. the last day of school is supposed to be at the end of june. graduation is also in question. >>steve: that's terrible. meanwhile, an alligator being credited for literally taking a bite out of crime in florida. deputies say a man who ran away from a traffic stop got stopped by deputy khopl khopl -- chompers. it took the law in its own jaws snapping the guy in the face and on the arms. >> if the alligator had not attacked him he might not have ended up in the hospital and then we might not have found him. >>steve: neighbors say they love knowing the so-called deputy chomper is out there on patrol somewhere. >>brian: is that a shark? there is a shark going after the crocodile in a fresh water pond. we buried the lead. >>gretchen: call back up the prompter. >>steve: we were talking about alligators. >>gretchen: who said the shark? >>steve: shark in the video. >>brian: there's a woman talking. i recognize her in the piece. >>steve: right here, that apparently is the shark. that is the shark. >>brian: a dolphin in fresh water going after an alligator. should we tell him there's an alligator there? >>steve: they call him flipper. >>gretchen: why is the dolphin in fresh water? >>brian: finally we have a dolphin to fight crime. he is a little late in these situations. in the 70's we had dolphins to fight crime. flipper. >>steve: it's been another interesting week here on the curvy couch. >>gretchen: from birthday bashes to extreme workouts, if you missed a minute, you missed a lot. >>brian: take a look back at this wao*erbg. -- take a look back at this week. >> sleeping bag, supplies, surviving the rough outdoors. >>steve: merry christmas. come on! this is the first time i think i've ever had bacon through a straw. i like it. >>gretchen: my straw is not working. >>steve: i love the smell of ribs in the morning. brian kilmeade's birthday! >>brian: oh my goodness. >>steve: commemorated in cake and cupcake. >>brian: thank you very much. >> girls, they are cunning, calculating, they bat their eyelashes. >>brian: the cheapest cars you can now own. those are the bike racks tkpwre khrepb -- those are the bike racks gretchen ran over. >> she said when you exercise it releases endorphins. i thought she said you get orgasms. >>brian: when you're with child, you should wear black clothing, plain clothing. >>gretchen: with pregnancy wardrobe advice, let's go to one of the two males on the set. >>steve: she's a country music legend and she's still working even though it's not 9 to 5. >>brian: i don't even know what 9 to 5 means. >>steve: can you imagine 9 to 5 hours? >>brian: that was a happy week. >>steve: it was. we had a lot to eat. the ribs, burned ends, cupcakes. you taste delicious. >>brian: thank you very much. nice of you. >>gretchen: that should make the reel for next week. hopefully you enjoyed that as well. coming unthe 911 dispatcher who answered amanda berry's call for help under fire. apparently this is not the first time cleveland may have botched a 911 call. >>steve: two tacos or the lion meat? a big update on a story that's causing quite an uproar. uproar. we'll be right back. try mail marketing from constantcontact. it's the fastest, easiest way to create great-looking custom e-mails that bring customers through your door. sign up for your free trial today at constantcontact.com/try. that work the way you wish they would. like a front-end loader you can detach from your seat? or a mower deck you just drive over and cut through knee-deep grass no problem? yep. we thought the same thing you did. that's why we build them this way. that's how we run. nothing runs like a deere. visit your dealer or johndeere.com/howwerun to see the new signature series and 1 family tractors. >>gretchen: we talked about this earlier this week. police in cleveland, ohio, questioning the 911 operator over his response to one of those missing girls, amanda berry, when she had this heroic call for help. >> help me. i'm amanda berry. i've been kidnapped. i've been missing for ten years, and i'm here! i'm free now! >>steve: that dispatcher coming under fire for seemingly dismissing amanda and hanging up before the cops arrived. >> okay. what's your address? >> 2207 seymour avenue. >> looks like you're calling from 2210. >> i can't hear you. >> it looks like you were calling me from 2210 seymour. >>brian: this isn't the first time 911 calls have gone wrong this cleveland. ainsley looked into it when she was there. she's now here. what's going on with this? is there somewhat of a pattern? >> there seems to be unfortunately a pattern in cleveland with the city police department there. this pwofs a long list of 911 -- there's a long list of 911 operators caught not doing their job. we went to cleveland and did you dug through a lot of the records, one of the worst cases we found, a botched call which ended in a murder. for this cleveland mother, a 911 operator's mistake was the first chapter in her son's horrific death. 25-year-old john moreuscheck abducted. his neighbors saw the crime going down and called for help. >> they hit him with a ball bat and threw him in the truck and left. >> we don't know where they are. if they come back, give us a call. >> all right. >> there should be no reason a dispatcher has to say if they come back. no, that is total [bleep]. that is complete [bleep] >>gretchen: the killers never came back and neither did her son. the dispatcher was put on probation for not sending police. after a half dozen other complaints surfaced, she was fired. in 2010 another cleveland dispatcher quit after someone caught her sleeping on the job. and then this past fall a 24-year-old was being shot to death. the dispatcher who took the call was caught on tape laughing and chatting with someone casually in the background. >> 911, police, fire or ambulance? >> police. this guy shot somebody like five times. >> do you want to leave your name and number. all right, thank you. >> the 911 operator wanted to basically take a message and then hung up the phone just like the amanda berry call. this time in berry's case, cops claim they won't let things slide. >> we have some concerns about maybe a lack of compassion, a lack of empathy on behalf of our dispatcher. we'll ask him to explain his actions and he may have some rational for how he acted the way he did. >> most of the bad dispatchers are playing the union card, it buys them some time, maybe a second chance. for the first dispatcher in that piece, the one who said call us back if they come back and then we'll show up, filed papers to get her job back. >>gretchen: great work when you were out there. >> it's a sad story but had a happy end for most of them. >>steve: they're free now. >>brian: we'll find out more a little bit later. on the rest of our show, our next guest graduated from the bottom of his high school class but he had a mom who believed in him. amazing advice for all of you parents out there. you parents out there. don't go away. i've been taking a multivitamin for years. centrum silver. both of us actually. our pharmacist recommended it. and that makes me feel pretty good about it. and then i heard about a study looking at multivitamins and the long term health benefits. and what do you know? 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"fox & friends" hour two for friday starts right now. >> gretchen: hopefully we can still say happy mother's day on sunday and happy father's day later on in june. >> steve: not according to the government. >> gretchen: happy parent number one. >> brian: in the big picture, as we look back in the week in review, think about this week. intensity of the cleveland story, which is unparalleled at its horror, then intensity of benghazi, which was revealing and gets everyone going on either side. and then you have the boston committee meeting yesterday where we heard the police chief talk, the f.b.i. director talk, and the fact is, so much is still going wrong in the war on controversial usually one is a major story, let alone immigration. >> steve: throw on top of that the jodi arias story. it's been an amazing week to watch cable news and we've been number one all week long. but then again, we've been number one for 15 years and we thank you for that. >> brian: so if we're going to stay number one, gretchen has to do a good job with the news. if not, it all falls apart. >> gretchen: thank you for the weight on my shoulders. >> brian: you can handle it. >> gretchen: thank you. british olympic gold medalist was killed after his sailboat capsized in san francisco bay. 36-year-old andrew simpson and his team were practicing for the america's cup race this summer. there he is there. the boat trapped him under the water for ten minutes. he was pronounced dead at the hospital. >> shocking experience to go through and we have a lot to deal with in the next few days in terms of assuring everybody's well-being. >> gretchen: one other crew member suffered minor injuries in this freak accident. horrible. details in the cleveland house of horrors. prosecutors considering seeking the death penalty now against ariel castro. the news comes as we've learned one of his alleged victims, gina dejesus is afraid to be alone after being held captive for near will he a decade. she won't go up to her bedroom by herself. the family is sleeping in the living room all together. her family says she was especially on edge around men. castro's mother spoke to reporters yesterday in spanish. she said her son is a sick man. >> (speaking spanish) >> gretchen: a musician who often practiced at his home says he was inside that home just last week. unbelievable. now he says he heard noises, like banging on the wall and when he asked castro about it, he blamed it on the dogs. really? the man also said there were four or five locks on the outside door. doesn't that raise red flags? the search continues for two passengers who fell overboard from a carnival cruise ship. surveillance video shows them falling off the ship wednesday night before it docked. carnival cruise says there is no evidence of foul play, howeverment the australian couple has been identified as 30-year-old paul rosington and 27-year-old kristen schroeder. it's not clear if they jumped or if they fell by accident. here is the benghazi terrorist attack ad you didn't see during the presidential campaign. >> 3:00 a.m. and your children are safe and asleep. but there is a phone in the white house and it's ringing. something is happening in the world. the rnc created this ad referencing hillary clinton's 3:00 a.m. ad from 2008 when she was running for president. criticizing the obama administration for how it responded to the phone call about the benghazi attack, but were told mitt romney rejected the ad to focus on the economy. it ends by saying, americans deserve answers. it's interesting 'cause that ad could be played today, six, seven months later, because there are still many unanswered questions. >> brian: he made terrible error not bringing that up in the debate. i think he was trying not to drop the ball instead of win the game. i think he'll regret that. in boston, where mitt romney used to be governor, the f.b.i. stood up and boston police stood up and answered questions yesterday. as we try to piece together what went wrong while the signals were not crossed and the t's were not crossed and the i's were not dotted. why we knew ahead of time that tamerlan was somebody of interest, that the russians contacted the f.b.i. and why the f.b.i. did not tell the boston police. here is boston police commissioner ed davis. >> from the time of the attack on monday afternoon until the shootout early friday morning, did the f.b.i. bring to your attention at all the fact that the older brother had been under investigation by the f.b.i.? >> no, we didn't start to look at that until after the shootout. >> so this is 3 1/2 days after and the f.b.i. still did not make you aware of it? >> that's correct. >> the idea that the feds have this information and it's not shared with the state and locals defies why we created the department of homeland security in the first place. it's very troubling to me. >> steve: it's very troubling to awful us. we're spending billions of dollars on intel and they're supposed to share this stuff and they didn't. so the blame game was all out for everybody to see yesterday where boston cops said yeah the f.b.i. had information they sat on, didn't tell us. we didn't hear about tamerlan going to the caucuses until 3 1/2 days after it all happened. then the f.b.i. shot back and they said, wait just a minute. the boston police department had the access to the same database. the boston police department had members of their task force assigned to tamerlan back in 2011, so they had the information, but apparently they didn't use the information. it's the blame game. >> gretchen: i think they should stop the blame game. the central question is, why weren't they on the same page communicating with each other? 3 1/2 days afterward, the police commissioner said it wouldn't have helped them find the suspects any sooner. but come o the whole reason for -- >> brian: ing that not correct. they put their pictures up and known who they were. >> gretchen: i'm just saying what he said after the fact. everyone is covering their butts, apparently. the bottom line is the homeland security department was created after 9-11 for this very purpose. i mean, to keep the country safe, but to also have these agencies working with one another because one of the major criticisms after 9-11 was that they weren't working together. >> brian: i don't think this necessarily was a blame game in that when you line up and are asked direct questions, did the boston police know what the f.b.i. knew? the answer is no, you're not blaming, but it makes you conclude that they're not talking to each other. delohr i can't say came out and said we she have told the police. they get very upset, so they deal with the c.i.a. a lot. that's why there is tension between the f.b.i. and nypd. he went on to sarks the guardian database is available for anyone to see. but if you don't know to look for somebody, why would you randomly plug in a name and look to cross check it? >> steve: just because there is a keyboard right this and the data is in there, that's one thing. but if you have somebody from your town, goes to russia, disappears for six months, there is an inclination he may become radicalized and you don't tell the local cop. what happened yesterday, they looked like they were pointing fingers. but ultimately if this gets everybody on the same page where they change things going forward, it will have been a good day. >> gretchen: it will. but people should still be upset because that was the whole point of creating all these agencies in the communication after 9-11. 12 years ago. i think people will still be frustrated to find out they still weren't doing it and by the way, the cops didn't know the names of tamerlan tsarnaev, so it would have been helpful, i think, to know that. they only found out the name after they were able to find them on the videotape. >> brian: do you know why? because the f.b.i. never knew he went to russia. >> gretchen: that's what i'm saying. >> brian: so the f.b.i. never knew he went to russia, but the -- >> steve: it looks like they had those walls between the agencies as they did before 9-11. they were supposed to get rid of that. >> brian: i have faith in chairman mccall. he's a prosecutor by trade. i think he'll try to loop this together and not blame people. >> gretchen: today in washington, president obama is going to have some moms and a photo op to talk about obamacare and it turns out, though, that senate republicans have put together a list of reasons why obamacare may actually not be good for women as it moves forward. so one of the things that's going to happen is if you're married, marriage is going to raise taxes on women under obamacare for the same reason less affluent women who marry could lose subsidies under obamacare. premiums could go up for women who have children under the age of 26 in the home with them. so there is a variety of reasons why this photo op of women standing with the president may not actually be entirely true that it's a good thing. >> steve: kind of looks like a war on women, war on moms when it comes to obamacare. also yesterday, kathleen sebelius announced they're going to be spending $150 million to teach people how to get enrolled in obamacare. remember it was supposed to be really easy. it was supposed to save you money. well, apparently it does neither. and in fact, there was a u.s. senator, max biocox, who con graduated you yesterday, later in the day scolded secretary sebelius for doing a lousy job informing the public on how this works. she's also the -- he's the same guy who referred to obamacare as a train wreck. >> brian: 24 states have not set up the exchanges. some republican governors said we'll set they will up were overruled by their republican legislatures. they don't want to get roped in. the other thing that's important, max baucus grilled sebelius over and over again, saying this is a train wreck. no one knows how to do it. they responded by saying we'll slim down the application. it's still not work. if you walk up to the average american out there and say, what is obamacare? you can't define it. i think if you talk to the average legislator, law maker, they can't define it. >> gretchen: they haven't probably read the bill yet. remember that? let's talk about this 'cause it got you fired up earlier in our show. the department of education is going to eliminate on some of their forms theds mother and father because they believe that it could be insulting to people who live in different kinds of family units together. so what did you think about that? ed tweeted this, let's start the cs police, common sense, pc is way out of control. >> steve: meanwhile, mark e mailed, we are not having a domestic dispute because my wife says she's number one and i disagree. i have say i'm number one. >> gretchen: we said that was going to happen. if you're parent number one or two. >> brian: now they're not speaking to each other. >> steve: that way they can watch our show for the next hour and 52 minutes. >> brian: that will be fine. they agree on that we hope. straight ahead, we've been telling you all about former weather underground terrorist kathy bodine teaching at columbia university. she's not the only former terrorist turned teacher. >> steve: taxpayer money drifting away. why is the president spending $11 million to create energy jobs? 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>> they tried to juice up the numbers. the administration tried to cast a wide net and called just about anything a green energy job. >> steve: including driving a bus, right? >> harris county, yes. including being a green energy lobbyist. that became a green energy job. >> gretchen: that would be a permanent job 'cause lobbyists pretty much stick around. >> that's true, yes. that's stretching a point. like if you're at a university and you gave lecture on climate or a lecture on green energy, that is a green energy job. so the administration tried to stretch the point. but it really doesn't work. if you look at the actual number of permanent green energy jobs, it is precisely 2298, 11 million per job. >> steve: 26 billion. >> yes, i'm sorry. >> steve: had that created a new technology that would have changed anything, that would be fantastic. but we didn't. >> that's what it's supposed to be all about, a new battery, for example, we haven't got it yet. these are transmitting electricity, we haven't gotten that yet. not efficiently at least. with all this new technology has not been created and the jobs have not been created. >> gretchen: i guess your argument would be that if these were sustainable businesses and inventions for lack of a better word, the private sector would be doing it. >> yes. my argument is government cannot and should not try to do this using taxpayers' money which they've lost. leave it to the market. leave it to the private sector. it is the most efficient way of creating jobs and creating new industrial sectors. that's the direct opposite of the president's policy which, by the way, he's doubling down on. you've still got another 114, 115 billion to go with his investment program. >> steve: just imagine had we simply given all those people a million dollars rather than spending 11 million per copy. >> i'd take the money. >> steve: i would too. stewart will be at hits program in two hours. >> thank you. >> gretchen: have a good weekend. ten hours, 24 million bucks, how were these guys able to steal that money from atm's? should you be worried about your money? >> steve: he's pointing at this stack of cash. coming up, the critics say it's not worth your money. are they right? our review on the new movie "the great gatsby" coming up. i do a lot of research on angie's list before i do any projects on my own. at angie's list, you'll find reviews written by people just like you. i love my contractor, and i am so thankful to angie's list for bringing us together. angie's list -- reviews you can trust. icaused by acid reflux disease, relieving heartburn, relief is at hand. for many, nexium provides 24-hour heartburn relief and may be available for just $18 a month. there is risk of bone fracture and low magnesium levels. side effects may include headache, abdominal pain, and diarrhea. if you have persistent diarrhea, contact your doctor right away. other serious stomach conditions may exist. don't take nexium if you take clopidogrel. relief is at hand for just $18 a month. talk to your doctor about nexium. >> gretchen: 24 minutes after the top of the hour. quick headlines. news by the numbers. $50,000, that's how much it could cost to own air force one. that's the beginning bid for this used as both air force one and two between 1975 and 2005. the on-line auction starts next week. next, 2. martha stewart meter her two potential mr. rights from match.com. one is a film maker. the other sells international steel. stewart will go on dates with both and see how they turn out. >> brian: keep me posted. >> gretchen: and 4. all four "american idol" judges will be gone next season. randy jackson, the only original judge left officially announced he won't return. all right, brian. >> brian: the biggest mystery is why he didn't get back to me. remember he said we could do a day with him. now we know. steve, follow that story. >> steve: i will. >> brian: leonardo dicaprio has big shoes to fill this weekend. he steps into the role in "the great gatsby". ♪ . >> you always look so cool. the man in the cool, beautiful suit. ♪ . >> you have to tell him that you never loved him. >> brian: film critic kevin mccarthy joins us now fresh off an interview with the gatsby star going by the name of leonardo dicaprio. >> random actor who nobody know noes. >> brian: you call him leo by now. first up, did you like the movie? >> here is the deal, the film is directed by a guy who did moulin rouge. he's known for visual style. he did shoot the film in 3d. i'll get o whether or not it's worth the money in 3d and worth seeing in theaters. but i sat down with there leonardo dicaprio and he was an in-- it was an honor to talk about his vulnerabilities as an actor. >> i wanted to show this to you. i've been collecting movie stubs since i was 11 years old. i kept my romeo and juliet one. but the price was three bucks that day. >> wow. >> what is it now? nine? >> 9 or 10 or 12 for 3d. i'm not going to keep that. >> you know what i'm going to do? i'm going to put them p what we call the red room in my house in sydney. >> i'm totally honored. >> if you could sit back and watch gatsby, sit down with any character you ever played and have a conversation, who would you want to see him is a conversation with? >> howard hughes? >> why? >> because they're self made billionaires that brought themselves up from their own boot straps and created these dynamic lives for themselves. >> as an actor, all the movies you've done, when you walk on a set, what is the element of acting where you feel the most vulnerable? >> the first day always is where you feel the most vulnerable. >> still today? >> of course. it never changes. as much preparation as you can do, and i've done movies where i've done months and months of presentation. tails, when you get into that costume for the first time and you have to deliver those line, it's always nerve racking. >> brian: leonardo dicaprio. by the way, did that other guy keep your memorabilia? you didn't give it to him. he kept it? >> he said he was going to keep it in his house. that's the director of the movie. i want to mention, by biggest problem with this movie, i love modern music in classical periods of movies. >> brian: who doesn't. >> i just didn't like hearing jay-z playing while jay gatsby is driving around new york in 1922. it took me out of the film. but leonardo dicaprio, he becomes this character. he is jay gatsby. he disappears in the role. the movie was shot in 3d, but skip the 3d. it's not necessary to the story telling. it is a waste of money. it dimmed the beautiful visuals in the film. it is a visual masterpiece. i would actually say this is better than the 1974 robert redford and mia farrow movie was not there. you have it here. i enjoyed it. it's getting panned by a lot of critics because everyone thinks it's going to be as good as the book. it's not. it's stale good move yeah. >> brian: four out of five stars, and i love leonardo dicaprio in "silver spoons." he was brilliant. >> thanks so much. yeah, four out of five. >> brian: good job. straight ahead, we've been telling you all about former weather underground terrorists kathy bodine. she's now teaching at columbia university. she's not the only former terrorist turned teacher and men are better with the grill, right? 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the top baby names for 2012. jacob was the top name for boys born last year. look at that. mason and ethan round out the top three. sophia spelled differently takes the top spot for girls. and it's followed by emma and isabela. >> steve: meanwhile, it's britain's prince harry's second day in the united states and he has a jam packed schedule for five days. elizabeth prann, our own, is down in washington, d.c. with a preview of what the prince is up to today. >> yes, good morning. almost all the activity so far focusing on the military, wounded and charity. the british prince and soldier kicked off his visit with lawmakers on capitol hill learning more about halo trust, the world's largest land mine detection charity. they've cleared more than a million mines. after, he made a visit to 1600 pennsylvania avenue before heading to dinner at the british embassy. he gave a speech about the charity and its connection with his late mother, princess diana, who famously championed the cause. >> this evening gives me great personal pleasure to my mother who believed passionately in this cause, would be so proud at my association and in her special way, she adopted it as her own. she would join me along with you all, i'm sure, in praising halo for the amazing work it has done over the past quarter century. >> looking forward to today, his first full day in the u.s. will begin at arlington national cemetery before heading to walter reed medical center. he'll fly out to colorado springs for the wounded wash orgames. they're a series of competitive events for 200 men and women who have been injured in combat. mostly younger generation from iraq or afghanistan, the same region where the prince served as a helicopter pilot. after that, it's on to new york, new jersey, and connecticut for a polo match, although governor chris christie vowing to keep the trip fairly low key, off the itinerary, any visits to las vegas. he has been followed by a steady trail of adoring fans, mostly young women with iphones and cameras in hand and of course, an occasional shriek or cheer, which i know brian and steve are very much used to. back to you. >> steve: and elizabeth, yesterday it seems like every woman who worked on capitol hill, if she could get into the rotunda a there, right? >> all of them were there. as he was looking at all of the exhibits in the hallways are just -- you have iphone in one hand and a camera in the other. they're snapping pictures of him. >> gretchen: why not? when would that chance come around again? probably never. >> he is a very eligible bachelor. >> steve: listen to you, you're not. thank you very much. >> gretchen: let's go out to brian 'cause he'll do a little sports before he barbecues. >> yes. i'm going to learn to barbecue female style because men have dominated and it really bothers me. tim tebow too popular for the nfl? some coaches who want to remain anonymous say they're hesitant to give him a chance because of his popularity and the media circus that would follow. i feel bad for him, he should go to canada and start. former kansas state star, laurie cohen, making 132 of 135 three pointers in five minutes. cone has a knack for being well behind the arc and holds the record for most three pointers with 392. that was then. and this is now. our next guest is in high drama all the time and now with hot food, she's gone from new jersey housewife to cookbook author, she's here to share her recipes for her incredible on the grill, the costars of "the real housewives of new jersey," theresa giudicci. grilling on why men have been dominating the grill for why too long. >> women can do it, too. we make it fun. >> brian: what makes it fun? >> what makes it fun is that we'll do it with you. >> brian: you mean do it together? >> yes. >> brian: let's see if we can become closer and we can talk about the season. for example, what are we making? >> today we're making chicken breast marinadeed. >> brian: what did you pour in? >> white wine, olive oil, apple cider, onion. >> brian: what kind of chicken is this? >> chicken breast. >> brian: i know. what's it going to be called? >> marinaded chicken breast with some apple ring. >> brian: can i put them in? >> a little bit of salt. >> brian: we should have marinading music. chris chulo, have we worked on that at all? >> gretchen: put it on the grill -- >> put it on the grill. it's already marinaded. >> brian: normally this would be on a really outdoor grill, right? >> correct. even in the wintertime when you don't have an outdoor grill, you could use this for the inside. >> brian: this season starts june 2, correct? >> correct. and apple rings. >> brian: you're talking about the book. but the new season is all about redemption for you i hear. am i correct? >> is that what you hear? it's like a roller coaster the next season. >> brian: in what respect? >> you never know what's going to happen next. >> brian: look at this, in a matter of minutes it came up exactly the same. >> that's the finished product. this is macaroni salad with pepperoncation nis. i used the brine from these. >> brian: a lot of men watching saying this is our moment. >> grilling is not for men. >> brian: but men look forward to this so they can have the moment where they can dominate and you're trying to take it away. >> if you want to, but i mean, we can help you guys. we can do it together. >> brian: right. but don't women want a break? >> no. why? why can't we grill? >> brian: why can't we grill? >> that's broccoli and wine. this is balsamic ketchup. did you ever hear of that? >> brian: no, i haven't. i think i just drank on television, which i'm not supposed to. i had no idea -- are we become back on the couch? >> steve: yes. >> brian: i'm not supposed to drink on television and i just did. is that alcohol? >> wine. >> brian: so it's not? >> no, it's not. >> brian: 'cause i thought i drank on television. i could get fined and you could get fined as my co-host. >> steve: accomplices in cocktailing. >> brian: by the way, buy this book, it's fantastic. men, give it up. now you have to give up the grill. you gave up the kitchen, now give up the grill. 70 new recipes in the book. >> steve: fantastic. help us all do some grilling. good way to fet our mothers on mother's day. meanwhile, straight ahead, she trusted her gut and it led her right to jaycee dugard. the officer who did what no one else could with perspective on the cleveland captive case. >> gretchen: then go back into your mole ball? the fox news hole is in court. the aflac trivia question of the day. born in 1995, 17 years old when she set a world record at the london olympic games? who is she? be the first to e-mail us at "fox & friends" with the correct answer ♪ ♪ ♪ [ male announcer ] there are hybrids. ♪ then there are turbo hybrids. introducing the first hybrid you'll actually want to drive. that's the power of german engineering. since aflac is helping with his expenses while he can't work, he can focus on his recovery. he doesn't have to worry so much about his mortgage, groceries, or even gas bills. kick! kick... feel it! feel it! feel it! nice work! ♪ you got it! you got it! yes! aflac's gonna help take care of his expenses. and us...we're gonna get him back in fighting shape. ♪ [ male announcer ] see what's happening behind the scenes at ducktherapy.com. 12346 in the early '90s, jaycee dugard was kidnapped and missing for 18 long years. if not for the help of two intuitive police officers, who knows what the end result would have been? here is one of the officers after the arrest of philip and nancy garrido back in 2009. >> i'm a mother. i have two young sons and this is when my police mode turned into my mother mode and i think the two really played key here with police intuition and mother's intuition. i wasn't so much focused on him. i was more focused on them. >> steve: that officer now retired joins us now. good morning to you. >> good morning. >> steve: it's interesting. you look at what happened in cleveland, the dejesus family said we kind of had a feeling. what about the bus driver? take us back to that day when you saw philip garrido come in, he was asking for permission to do something on campus at uc-berkeley. you just had a feeling, there is something about this guy. >> absolutely. it was his behavior coupled with the fact that he had this long criminal history on parole for kidnapping and rape and he was a -- >> steve: but you didn't know that. >> i knew it when i finally met him. i didn't know it because lisa campbell mentioned she wanted me to sit on this meeting with her that this crazy guy was coming in and i didn't understand why a crazy person would be meeting with a civilian staff member instead of a police officer. so she asked me to sit in on the meeting and i said do you have his name? she did and i ran a records check and found out his criminal record, moments before he showed up. >> steve: he showed up with a couple girls and he said, what are you talking about? he doesn't have daughters. >> absolutely. i go oh, no, did i let a kidnapper steal two more children in front of me? but my logic kicked in and i was, no, they didn't seem like they were in distress at all. >> steve: how much was logic and intuition? >> i would say 90% intuition. intuition is the sense that is just like sight and hearing and smell. it comes to you, but the best thing about intuition is you shouldn't try to logically explain it. you have a feeling righteve: ine there is something the matter there. >> absolutely. and if you try to articulate it in your head at first, it's impossible to do. as police officer, that's required. it's required to be able to articulate you're feelings inasmuch you got to feel great about what happened. those two girls wound up not living in the backyard anymore after you guys did your work. >> absolutely. it was amazing story with a very successful and happy outcome. >> steve: so is the ultimate message here that people should go ahead, if they got a feeling, a twinge, their gut, go with it? trust it? >> absolutely. you mentioned mother's intuition earlier. female intuition is spot on and people have learned to ignore it over time. and my message out there when i speak around the nation is listen to your gut. it's will for a reason. don't try to figure it out. listen to it and it will all be all right later. >> steve: worked out in that case. ali jacobs, public speaker now, thank you very much. >> thank you for having me. >> steve: 11 minutes before the top of the hour. coming up, a major development in the benghazi attack. moments ago, learned that two talking points were changed 12 times and we have details about what was deleted all together. first back in 1981, "morning train," sheena easton, number one. ♪ he takes another home again ♪ to find me waiting for him. ♪ [ bop ] [ male announcer ] could've had a v8. 100% vegetable juice, with three of your daily vegetable servings in every little bottle. with three of your daily vegetable servings we are outta here! finding you the perfect place. hotels.com. it shows. we don't run like that. we build john deere equipment the way we always have: the right way. times change. our principles don't. you don't just have our word on it. you've got our name on it. that's how we run. nothing runs like a deere. discover the full line of riding lawn equipment at johndeere.com/howwerun or your local dealer. >> gretchen: answer to the aflac question of the day, missy franklin, our winner is from jacksonville, florida. congratulations. did you know that today is military spouse appreciation day? we're hosting a workout session for military wives to show them how much we appreciate them and here with moves from her military wife workout dvd is fitness expert, nicky. good morning to you. >> hi. >> gretchen: hopefully we can talk over the truck noise. so it's military spouse appreciation day. >> yes, great job, everybody for keeping the families together all yearlong. >> gretchen: your dvd helps out these really busy military moms to get in shape only 30 minutes a day. >> yes. sometimes you're paying the bill and going to school, to work, taking care of the kids and doing it all yourself a lot of the times. this is an 30 minute, toning and cardiotogether. multi tasking moves. >> gretchen: how do women do it? my goodness. you all look fantastic and you're doing two jobs, right? >> yes. the first move, we take our arms up at shoulder level and squeeze your hands like you're wringing out a dish rag. this is going to tone your shoulders. then jump rope. if you do it for a minute or two, you'll feel the toning happening. your arms will get so heavy. then tap the feet. >> gretchen: this is if you don't have a jump rope, yes? >> yes, you're simulating jump rope feet, but holding your arms up, and then the knees come up high. >> gretchen: i can't do that in the dress. >> this is toning the abs and obliques. you go down and down. >> gretchen: i'm not going to do that one either. maybe not a good idea. >> this tones your glutes. everyone wants to tone your booty and quads. toning all while doing cardio. >> gretchen: it's a full 30 minute workout high intensity? >> we do stop and use arm weights to do different moves. things like a plank, so we can try another move that's a plank and burpee. >> gretchen: those are hard. >> do you a side plank lifting your left arm, come back down, jump in and jump up in the air. and so we repeat that. let's do it one more time. down, back, cycling from the other side. good. jump in, pop up. that's for toning. >> gretchen: thank you so much. happy mother's day to all of you here. >> free fitness expert advice on my web site. >> gretchen: thank you so much. let's go back inside to see what's going on. >> steve: all right. good job. we've been asking for months, who changed the benghazi talk points? we found outbreaking details, top of the hour. >> brian: steve hayes had a lot. we have more. plus a performance from craig campbell, only on our show. ♪ i'm here at my house on thanksgiving day, and i have a massive heart attack right in my driveway. the doctor put me on a bayer aspirin regimen. [ male announcer ] be sure to talk to your doctor before you begin an aspirin regimen. go talk to your doctor. you're not indestructible anymore. so you can capture your receipts, ink for all business purchases.. and manage them online with jot, the latest app from ink. so you can spend less time doing paperwork. and more time doing paperwork. ink from chase. so you can. email marketing from constant contact reaches people in a place they're checking every day -- their inbox. and it gives you the tools to create custom emails that drive business. it's just one of the ways constant contact can help you grow your small business. sign up for your free trial today at constantcontact.com/try. >> gretchen: tgif. it's friday, hope you're going to center a good one. i'm gretchen carlson. we've been asking for months who changed the benghazi talking points and what exactly was changed. well, we may have just found out. the breaking details moments away. >> steve: meanwhile, they died heros, 30 troops, including members of seal team 6, shot down in their chopper by the taliban. so why did the white house invite a muslim cleric to speak in a prayer that condemned those brave men who died at their funeral? >> brian: they better answer that question. he started out playing in luke brian's band. now he's climbing the country charts on his own. craig campbell performs live exclusively on "fox & friends." if another show bragging about him, they're lying, 'cause we have him. "fox & friends" hour three starts right now. >> steve: welcome aboard. it's been an awfully busy week here on "fox & friends." we've got an awfully busy final hour. >> brian: by the way, my wife rarely does this. >> steve: she just called, didn't she? >> brian: i got this emergency text message, i have to bring home theresa's grillingbook. >> gretchen: i use her book. >> brian: she's still here, can i tell her? >> gretchen: i put post-it notes on this one. >> steve: the food tastes terrific and i love the suggestion at the end, just like the jersey housewives, at thend of the meal, flip the picnic table. >> brian: which i thought was wrong, but it depends where you live. >> gretchen: now we have to find out did brian take all of my notes? are they somewhere in that pile? >> brian: i think they are. >> gretchen: all right. that's what i was reaching for. >> brian: every time they tell me to move over, i take all my stuff and put it on your stuff and take it all back. >> gretchen: i'll try and make sense for the last hour without my notes. 17 days after a massive factory fire in bangladesh, a miraculous discovery. crews searching through the rubble finding a woman still alive. they used hand saws to cut the survivor out of the rubble, 17 days later. right now the woman being treated at a hospital. it comes as the death toll in that horrific fire now tops 1,000 people. a cable installer will spend the next 2 1/2 years in prison for filing more than $91,000 in fake tax returns using the ip address of his customers. he was an independent customer for charter communications and owned and operated a tax return business. in all, 27 fraudulent tax returns were filed from january 2011 to april 2012. a gruesome find on a beach in san diego. a impeach goer discovering the body of a 42-year-old surfer washed up. he was covered in shark bites. police think he's the same person reported missing by his fiance on wednesday. no word on the cause of death, but medical examiners say the shark bites happened after he died. more than two dozen members of seal team six killed in a helicopter crash in afghanistan in 2011. now some of their families are demanding answers about the ultimate insult that apparently happened at their funeral service. someone within the obama administration invite add radical muslim cleric to speak? the cleric mocked the heros, calling them infidel, yet the military refuses to allow mention of a judeo god? that sounds almost unbelievable. >> brian: let's bring in the man -- >> it sounds for lying. i had not heard about it. it sounds remarkably insensitive, to say the least. >> steve: you can't say christian, but they bring in this muslim cleric. >> what was the thinking? >> steve: good question. exactly right. >> brian: so the families met yesterday and said they were outraged. >> gretchen: why are we just hearing about this now. >> steve: they condemned them to hell and mocked the god of moses. >> this service happened in afghanistan or here? >> steve: it was essentially their funeral. >> their funeral? >> steve: a memorial. >> but in the united states? >> steve: run by the federal government. >> gross! creepy. >> steve: cleveland, ariel castro, this guy had these three women holed up in his place for a little over ten years in suitcases. where do you want to start with this? >> let me start at a personal level when, first of all, we thought it was three brothers and three brothers from a town in puerto rico, not far from my family's town in puerto rico. i felt a great sense of communal shame. i felt so embarrassed, humiliated that with all our striving community, all the -- my dad always used to say when we were growing up in brooklyn and then long island, whenever there was a notorious crime, please, god, let it not be a puerto rican because the community had so many problems. we were working to bring ourselves up by our boot straps and to have these three awful monsters, what they had done. then it mitigated when it became clear it was only the 52-year-old ariel castro, bad enough. but then the antidote to that in a way was victor perez who happens to be the city prosecutor in cleveland, also born in puerto rico. and as mr. perez said so eloquently, this monster doesn't reflect on our community. we are a -- yes, we are poor, many of us, but upwardly mobile and american and taking care of each other and rejecting the -- >> brian: what about the suicide note in 2004? i was abused as a kid. it's their fault. you have to care, it's part of the story. i don't care, he said that it was their fault for getting in the car with me. >> well, it's disgusting. what i focus on now, brian, is that i want this to be a capital crime, in the same way i reject the death penalty for jodi arias because i think that stripped of all the sensationalism it is a domestic dispute, boyfriends kill girlfriends. if we start killing them, the death row would be overflowing. in ariel castro's case, aside from the despicable sadism, the narcissism, the fact that he could take these women's lives for ten years and keep them chained and abused and with total disregard and to have miscarriages and babies born and all the rest of it, kidnapping and rape are all life sentences. what we need now is to get this prosecutor to focus on those miscarriages because i believe that they are homicides and i believe that that is a capital crime and an appropriate use of the death penalty. this is a monster who should not walk the face of the earth. >> gre though, that -- i want to wrap up on the prosecutor. because it appears the prosecutor is leaning in that direction, because of the miscarriages, and god only knows what they might find when they dig up in the backyard. maybe there are actual babies that were buried there. >> or even a fourth victim. we have heard there was another woman missing from the same area. the lesson i take away, brian, i look, where were the neighbors? how could they for ten years see a boarded up house -- >> steve: there were a lot of board up houses in the neighborhood. >> i understand that. but then where are the cops? even if you get a complaint, a nude woman in the backyard screaming and they call 911 and the cops don't come or they -- >> gretchen: they're discounting that. they say the calls never existed. >> but that's what the cops say. but the neighbors say they called. but my message, gretchen, i think this is the important one, we say if you see something, say something in new york. we talk about terrorism. but in a case like this, if you see something like a house like that with this unusual activity and boarded up windows and guy going into the backyard with groceries and sightings here and there, you have to say something and you have to persist and have some communal responsibility. >> steve: indeed. let's talk about this, benghazi, the hearing on capitol hill on wednesday. 12 different versions of the talking points. what they say -- had is good because we've heard a million stories from the white house. they say the edits were made -- initially came from the c.i.a. they had the intel. >> brian: linked it right to al-qaeda. >> steve: right. the edits were made with extensive input from the state department and references of the al-qaeda group, be deleted, as well as references to c.i.a. warnings about terror threats in benghazi in the months preceding the attack. this is completely different than what jay carney was talking about when he said this. >> the talking points that she used for those appearances that were provided by the intelligence community, those questions have been answered. >> steve: not exactly. >> i think the biggest vulnerability to the obama administration, indeed to the president himself, comes from the cover-up. it's never the crime. it's always the cover-up. if indeed as these papers suggest very strongly there was an intent to take a terrorist attack and morph it into something much more benign and spontaneous, then i believe that this is something that goes to the very heart of the integrity of the office. and i believe that first the secretary of state hillary clinton and then the president himself, as you walk up this food chain and find out who is responsible, this is a major, major deception. now, i'm not going to go as far as mike huckabee and say it's an impeachable offense. >> brian: he's not going to finish his term with huckabee. >> i think all of the impeachments, from andrew johnson to bill clinton, richard nixon. >> brian: you were against johnson from the get go. >> from the get go. my 19th century self. i think it's the atomic nuclear option and it should not be invoked here and we shouldn't hardly be talking about it. but i do believe this will affect in a meaningful way hillary clinton's aspirations. >> gretchen: do you? so -- you do? there seemed to be central questions that haven't been answered yet. this is a step in right direction to getting answers about who actually revised the talking points. but, for example, who told the military to stand down and not go to help? we don't know that yet. >> the military question, i was right here and eric bolling was in the seat that brian usually occupies and we had that -- >> steve: i read all about that. >> very emotional confrontation. i think the military's response, all i know is i've spoken to every military source i have and they say that we could not have done more. but the question that haunts is the why didn't we try question. i think that is something that will be a stain on our consciousness whenever we think of benghazi forever. >> steve: what about this stain? that is we heard from mr. hicks a couple days ago and he was talking about how he said to one of his bosses, hey, why exactly did ambassador rice say it was the individual zoe and then essentially he was told shut up. he gets demoted. the fact that a whistle blower tries to do the right thing, asks what went hay wire and then is -- there is retribution from the federal government, that's despicable and hillary clinton was running that department. >> despicable, but i would suggest that bureaucratic retaliation is something that happens every day in the federal government. >> steve: i know, but if we want whistle blowers to come forward -- >> there are many laws that protect whistle blowers. thank god we have made it an evolution since the nixon era. hicks was a hero. he is coming forward now. we will listen. people will be, i hope, humiliated. i hope there is meaningful action taken. the investigation now has to continue until we find out who made the decision to make this a political kind of pablum instead of what it really was, a terrorist attack. >> brian: the fact that the u.n. ambassador susan rice making these statements, not john brennan who is taking bows for bin laden, not national security advisor, no secretary of state, they send out susan rice to destroy her career and now we find out that victoria nuland and ben rhodes are pushing for the sanitization of these talking points when concludes were made the day after and to say this, what was david petraeus doing, allowing those changes to be made in the c.i.a. document and then briefing the press off the record that we really think the video had something to do with it? what is the problem? why would the c.i.a. risk their reputation there? >> that's a mouthful, i have to say it briefly. >> steve: you have 30 seconds. >> why didn't mitt romney say exactly what you just said during that third crucial debate? he could have won the presidency? why? was he briefed by david petraeus and the c.i.a. to suggest that there was a secret mission going on there that we can't go there. we can't talk about it. i believe and my sources tell me they were there to round up those shoulder fired surface to air missiles. they were going to hand those missiles over to the turks and the turks were going to give them to the rebels in syria. it was like iran-contra. i think it merits gigantic investigation. it will all become clear. >> brian: you're saying david petraeus lied to us? >> i'm not sure that he lied. i think that he said he maybe exaggerated that -- >> steve: take a look at this image. it's your mom, lily. what did you want to say to her? >> i love you, mommy. we were together last night. we had a great party. liliana rivera. she's 93. she'll be 94. it was great last night. we all gathered. it was a surprise birthday party for me and my brother. and mother's day on sunday and everybody was together. it was a great loving event. the whole rivera clan. >> brian: now i know why you look so young. it's your mom. she looks fantastic. >> she's plugging along. >> gretchen: have a great show this weekend. >> jodi arias, the interview, i have the whole interview, 10:00 o'clock eastern time saturday. >> steve: thank you, sir. >> thank you [ man ] on december 17, 1903, the wright brothers became the first in flight. 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>> she was a great gal, very talented singer and song writer. used to have her own radio show on wlw out of cincinnati, ohio, where she replaced doris day. she used to work with rose mary clooney, back in the days when they would sing live on the radio. >> gretchen: she wrote and sang thenner song. i had the pleasure of meeting you, do i dare say more than 20 years ago. you were performing in minneapolis and i was ready to compete in the miss america pageant. >> that's right. >> gretchen: i came to see you. >> that was so funny. i did the show and you came up afterwards and you introduced yourself. you said you were a fan of my music and you were miss minnesota at the time and you were gonna be in the miss america pageant. you went on and you won. you were miss america. >> gretchen: you feel it's really important that kids stay involved with music. so you've come out with a music series. >> i think it's so important that young people are at least exposed to music, the arts music programs are falling beside the wayside all over the world. >> gretchen: we're pay ago tribute to your mom, my mom, and alt other moms out there. and you're going to play "over the rainbow". ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ >> steve: very nice. all right. meanwhile, straight ahead, the country's nearly $17 trillion in debt. so why are we spending millions of our taxpayer dollars to teach people how to get obamacare? 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>> good morning, brian. yeah, this is a very interesting and compelling report from jonathan karl at abc news, who is a terrific reporter and added, i think, a lot of context and new information to this story. what jonathan reports basically is that this is a process that the redrafting of the talking points that was driven by the policy makers. this was driven by folks in the white house and at the state department and was not as jay carney and others have contended, something that was driven primarily by the intelligence community. >> steve: in fact, steven, to your point, jay carney talking about that, here he is from this past november. listen. >> the talking points that she used for those appearances that were provided by the intelligence community, those questions have been answered. >> steve: so there he is talking about susan rice appearing on those five talk shows on a sunday morning saying it was all about the video. you're saying that the white house, and as we heard there, the white house has been saying, the changes came from the intel community. they came from the white house. they came from the administration, didn't they? >> yeah. it was a little bit of a combination, but certainly the substantive changes, the wholesale rewrite that we saw on the morning of saturday, september 15, the day before susan rice made all of her appearances, those suggestions came out of a deputy's committee meeting of interlevel policy makers from national security council, white house, state department and elsewhere. it's very clear both in the story that i wrote last week and in the story that jonathan karl puts out today that these were changes that were made at the behest of policy makers and the white house lying on this, frankly, is a bit incoherent. why would the intelligence community redraft talking points if they were finalized? >> gretchen: exactly. why would david petraeus go along with this ostensibly? that seems almost unbelievable. there are other high ranking officials who followed the same story line. what are your thoughts on that? >> well, it's interesting, one of the things -- we just president a new story up at weeklystandard.com based on a couple of additional e-mails that i've seen. one of those e mails comes from david petraeus and early in the afternoon of september 15 and it's when general petraeus first sees this newly scrubbed version of the talking points. remember, his agency had put out a robust set of talking points less than 24 hours earlier. it goes through this process where they get input from policy makers, white house, state department, et cetera, and then on the other end is spit out this very bland and watered down version. so petraeus used this version and sends an e-mail to his legislative affairs director, a guy named chip walter and says in effect, really, this is what they're sending out? they stripped this down and even took out references to our warnings about protests and demonstrations in cairo. >> brian: why would -- just to educate me, is that the way it works? the c.i.a. would allow their concludes to be skewed to the point where they don't reflect their beliefs? >> no. this is not the way it works. this is definitely not the way it should work. the c.i.a. put out a set of talking points, unclassified guidance for members of congress and people in the executive branch based on what the c.i.a. knew at the time and that original draft, the original c.i.a. draft is the one that had references to islamic extremists with ties to al-qaeda -- >> gretchen: steven, why would general petraeus have that meeting with members of congress? you remember when that meeting happened, everyone thought now, now we're going to hear the real story. but he, in that meeting, he said it was because of the video. >> well, he said both. i think what he said was -- this is what i think happened. the c.i.a. reports early that they were concerned about demonstrations in cairo based on social media posts. that was briefed to members of congress. i think what the c.i.a. said in effect was, see, we pointed to these demonstrations. we just saw them happening in cairo. and then the c.i.a. did in defense of the white house, the c.i.a. did at least make some connection between the protests in sky crow benghazi and then the white house, i think small data point and built an entire, i think misleading narrative from that one small data point. >> steve: remember what happened to general petraeus, it was shortly after that that it was revealed that he had had that affair. >> brian: and james clapper tells him to resign. do you think there is a link? >> i don't think we have enough information to say at this point, but certainly we have a lot more questions to be answered on how the talk points were put together and what happened afterwards. >> gretchen: somebody who has been on the inside of this and broke this story initially, what happens now? this obviously grows because now we're learning more and more. it's been described as drip by drip and some people were saying there is no smoking gun. is this it? >> oh, it's definitely not it. just coming out of the hearings the other day, you had even democratic members of congress saying, we need more information. we need to have all unclassified documents leased. even democratic members of congress are asking for more witnesses. this is getting bigger before it gets smaller. >> steve: all right. you can read all about his new column at weeklystandard.com, called the benghazi scandal. thank you very much. >> thanks. >> gretchen: wow. so continue to watch fox throughout the day to see how this develops over the weekend as well. now headlines. with mother's day two days away, president obama will try using moms today to push obamacare. a new report is warning it may be a train wreck for women. a new senate gop report warns women will be taxed more if they choose to get married and women who want to marry could lose extra help to buy insurance. it also says the employer mandate tax will hurt women and younger workers. health and human services secretary sebelius says coverage will be affordable and says investing in health centers for outreach and enrollment assistance provides one more way the obama administration is helping consumers understand their options and enroll in affordable coverage. we have also learned the administration will spend $150 million to teach people how it enroll in the obamacare health exchanges. >> steve: meanwhile, it sounds like the plot of a movie, a $45 million cyber heist hit banks in 20 countries. elvis raphael rodriguez and amar yassar yajay are two of the seven people who were accused of stealing $3 million of that total amount. overseas hackers stole bank data and created fake debit cards and sent them to crews around the world. all together, 40,000 transactions were made as they cleaned out those bank accounts. >> brian: gator being credited for taking a bite out of crime in florida. a man ran away from a traffic stop. he was stopped by a deputy choppers. when he tried to hide out near waste water treatment plant, the gator took the law into his own hands, snapping the man in the face and arms. >> he did help our situation. if the alligator had not bitten him or attacked him, he might not have ended up in the hospital and then we might not have found him. we could still be searching for him at this point in time. >> brian: it wasn't for a very conscience ous gator. a little later, we discovered a dolphin, which you can find on foxandfriends.com. >> gretchen: a priceless reaction by two girls who find out they're about to have twin siblings. >> mommy has two babies in her tummy. >> baby? 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>> steve: fine, thank you very much. kind of a bidding war going on right now. but you got four houses where we're going to look at under 200,000. first stop, the beautiful music city of nashville, tennessee. tell us about house number one. >> okay. house number one in nashville, tennessee, it's a little more than $114,000. two bedrooms, 1 1/2 baths, 1300 square feet. totally renovated. a really great deal. it's beautiful leeland scaped, two decks, floor plan and what's great about this, the mortgage payment, according to trullia, including interest and your insurance and your taxes is about $512 a month. >> steve: very affordable. and the kitchen on that place and the patio, that's fantastic. all right, next stop, waco, texas. house number two, michael. >> waco, texas. at about $98,500. amazing deal. four bedrooms, two bathrooms. 2100 square feet. this was built in 1915 in the sanger heights neighborhood. on a beautiful big tree lined street. it's a really nice, large home, very great family home. again, your mortgage payment on this would be $441 a month. >> steve: very affordable as well. roomy, spacious down there in waco. >> very much so. >> steve: final stop, i love the carolinas, asheville, north carolina. and house number three under $170,000. >> a great deal. it's $169,000. it's three bedrooms, 2 1/2 baths. a great location. this place is really impeccable. it's a two story traditional. it's got really beautiful rich hardwood floors. stainless steel appliances, backyard patio, backyard. your mortgage on this? 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