never satisfied. it only harms. we're in a battle for the heart and soul of some of our communities. now is the time to speak up. >> brittany, you are speaking up. what advice? what do you tell parents in your community? >> hold on to your babies, love on your babies. stop being your kids' friends. be a parent. i will never be able to hug my baby again, tell me baby i love him ever again. so if you love me and you love damarian, hold your babies close. >> it's a great sentiments. mike tobin was telling us about the fact that damarian is among 97 kids 15 years old and younger shot and killed in chicago. are you surprised, brittany,