our soldiers go there voluntarily. they go there because they know what they are fighting for and they do not expect anybody to give them anything. these are our unsung heroes and the people that care about instituting that in our country, where would we be now 50 years from now if we do not have the people in our military fighting for us right now? >> so important. the respect for these fallen heroes. we really did not deserve memorial what hundred memorial day the way we do in d.c. they remind us -- as far as miss griner is concerned i'm thinking of paul weyland, the marine we left behind in russia. that is what we should have done, the arms dealer swap with, not for britney griner. >> we have to go. i just want to bring attention. this is a dear friend of our family. he graduated high school right after 9/11. he spent several years in baghdad and kuwait. came back home suffered severe ptsd and took his own life. since then his mother has been trying very hard to raise awareness for veteran suicide and ptsd.