wear them with laces. i've slip bonds because i am so lazy. >> emily: that's so funny, i will never forget when i went to a baby shower and they did not have shoes off, and i was wearing them i was mortified. so do you make your guests take off their shoes, tell them before hand so they can get pedicures. it >> kayleigh: i love that, emily. if i put on my heels last night and walked around with a 3-year-old, clearly i'm all about the shoes. wearing my wedding shoes today on "outnumbered," so all about the shoes. >> emily: michelle, what happens in your household. >> michelle: it's a regional thing, and i grew up in california did not matter if you choose or not. cut to minnesota, don't wear the shoes in the house, because you can track in snow. but i had to learn the hard way. so it is a regional thing, no shoes in minnesota. >> emily: with your big family, taking care of your kids, shoes on, she was off?