brian: you also mentioned that if they want their freedom they will have to pay for it. did you have any idea how much kids cost? >> no. we have lots of kids back home. but it's cheap to feed them back home. but here there are all kinds of laws. school, college, the whole thing. i'm keeping track. if they want to mary somebody i don't agree with they will have to pay for it. brian: you keep receipts. you also browse the inside your parenting tips. here you are trying to encourage your daughter to intern with you. >> even how to control unable.