>> sean: all year watch schools trying to get between parents and children became a political flash point in places like loudoun county, virginia where parents stood up and made it clear that they wouldn't. suing daughter's school district for secretly helping her change her gender without consent. expressed confusion about gender and told parents that the parents told the school that they could refer to their daughter as jay but they couldn't do anything else. the school overstepped its bounds and privately met with j to discuss accommodations like what bathrooms she would use without telling her parents. so joining me now is attorney veteran detective and the parents that are suing their daughter's school board. all of you thank you for joining